i tink my girl of 3 years does cocaine and has been lying to me. i think she does it every so often. i have never said it to her cause she will deny it. there is a big party comin up soon she really wants to go to. i think she will sniff a little coke there. a blood sample will tell me if she has coke in her system as long as it is within 48hrs. if i get a small sample of blood from her in another way will that be just as informative. serious answers only please!!!!!!
2007-07-12 17:20:20 · 2 answers · asked by garyp8178 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Instead of sneaking a sample and trying to get it tested, I think you'd be better off trying to catch her in the act. If you can't, and are still convinced she did it, then ask her about it directly. Sure, she'll probably lie if she did. But if she denies it, then ask her to get a blood test for proof. If she puts it off till it's too late, then she's probably doing coke, and knows how long it stays in her system.
Just remember, if you're wrong about this, and you push this issue too hard, you could end up regretting it. You better be sure about this. And if you do force the issue, try to make it sound like it's your problem, like you just can't get the idea out of your head. If you attack her right away, she'll just get defensive.
2007-07-12 17:48:11 · answer #1 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me get this straight... She's been lying and denying drug use and you want to fix it by 'stealing' a blood sample from her?
I think you need to collect more concrete evidence (like events) rather than feelings and assumptions...confront her and see how it goes.
2007-07-13 00:30:55 · answer #2 · answered by HopeH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋