ok so theres this guy i like him and he likes me...but da thing is at hes WAY too shy...i ask all ma friends and dey tell me i shoul ask him but ive never done dat b4 isnt it weird 4 a girl to ask a guy out???
2007-07-12 16:02:07 · 33 answers · asked by rayada 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask him!
he will know that you like him and will probably get less shy but you still have to help with it
2007-07-12 16:04:08 · answer #1 · answered by erwafredsfdsfsdf 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would have been very weird if this was about 50 years ago. But now, our generation has changed, and it's really ok for a girl to ask a guy out. If you're pretty sure that he likes you, then there's no pressure! Just ask him out, because since you already know the answer, there's no need to be scared, worried, or anything.
2007-07-12 16:06:20 · answer #2 · answered by julia 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you like him and you know he likes you, go ask the guy out. What is the worst he will say? No? Granted, the guy in question really should man up and ask you out. I get even in the year 2007 that women still expect to be persued and don't feel comfortable asking guys out. Don't let this keep you from asking him out. Look at it as doing something different in your life for a change.
2007-07-12 16:07:37 · answer #3 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, because he likes you and you like him, you should ask him out. And no, girls asking guys out is perfectly normal. It happens all the time, and people don't care. However, if he is a bit sensitive, and wants to be the on to ask you out (you can find this out through his friends) then just let him build up his courage and wait for it. If yo get impatient then just go ahead. Hope it works out between you two. :)
2007-07-12 16:07:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nooo... do not ask him out right away ... if he is really shy, your question or invitation will scare him away... just be very casual and say "hi" to him whenever you see him, and work your way up to have a conversation with him so both of you can get to know each other and feel more comfortable with each other... AND THEN ask him out if he is still too shy to ask you out.
2007-07-12 16:12:50 · answer #5 · answered by Maikah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definately ask him out! Its ok if he's shy, it is sometimes cute in guys! And it is totally ok for a girl to ask a guy out! Don' make them go through it all! And dont stress about it if he like you! :) I bet he will be glad you asked him!
2007-07-12 16:06:04 · answer #6 · answered by mi nombre 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well not really. I liked this guy and knew that he liked me and so i waited for him to ask me out but he didn't so I asked him out and he said no. But hes going to ask me out in the fall. So go ahead and give it a try.
2007-07-12 16:06:47 · answer #7 · answered by D.A.P. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it honey! What have you got to lose? Or....try saying something like..."So, are you ever going to ask me out or what?" Throw it out there! He will appreciate you being confident enough to ask him. We are in the 21st century...its ok for a girl to ask a guy out! But remember... confidence is key! Good luck!!
2007-07-12 16:08:58 · answer #8 · answered by Lisa F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for girl it is weird to ask a guy out so just wait like 2 5 weeks and if nothing happens then go for it
Good luck.......^-^
2007-07-12 16:09:25 · answer #9 · answered by teffany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
totally not weird because i did that before and the relationship worked perfectly don't worry if u both have true feelings for each other try it don't be afraid just one day at a good time talk to him and ask him :)
2007-07-12 16:05:48 · answer #10 · answered by Nicole 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋