Does he like me?

Question

ok so I have this boy who happens to be my ex-boyfriend and my first everything. When we broke up we stopped talking, in this time I had a new boyfriend for about a year, and everytime he saw me with my boyfriend he used to stare and kinda look sad! When me and my boyfriend broke up I messaged him again, he saw each other alot, and eventually ended up sleeping together, in conversation one day it came up that my old boyfriend lived with me, and he backed away from me since that point, I then had a boy hanging off me, we were together all the time, which made him back off more, I ended up writing him a message and saying that where just friends and other stuff, he didnt write back for about 1 month, then he messaged me his new number, and we have been talking for about 2 months now really good, and its his birhtday soon so i asked if he wanted to go to the zoo then stay in a hotel which he agreed to,

I started to feel like i was getting used so i asked him that if there was no room or anything involved would he still come and spend time with me, and he said yes, all i have to do is ask and he will spend time with me? Does he like me?

and i told him how i felt about him about 6 months ago and he said where just friends, have things changed?

Answer 1

In your story the new and Ex boyfriend concept are a little mixed-up. It is hard to understand which one you are talking about.
However there is one thing for sure that you really like and miss the one who came back to you recently and having his birthday soon.

I understand that you had affairs with both of them in some point in the same time. I can tell that you like and miss the one who gave you his new number recently and having his birth-day soon.

He seems to be interested in you and wants you too. You had a lot of good nonsexual – just friend conversation recently…”….and we have been talking for about 2 months now really good”.

I understand that currently you are living with one of your boy friend…you enjoy and like the other one more…and you were talked about being just friend. You are going to offer him something more than just friend…but you are not sure about his feeling and feel “non-secure”, or at least not sure.

He accepted to spend his birth day with you even if you are not going to hotel. He also listen to you and cares about you: “all i have to do is ask and he will spend time with me?”

It is your responsibility to open your eyes and use your heart, and see if he does love you. Men are not present their feeling as soon as girls do, specially when you were not stable with your relationship and had affair with someone else at the same time ( as I did understand); and also after you have asked him that “ you want to be just friends”. He accepted to be with you even when for “just friends”.

I would say he likes you a lot. If he loves you or not or if he wish to spent his time with you forever is depended on you and he.

I hope it is helpful.
Cheers and enjoy!

Answer 2

I'm sorry I dont really understand your story....but it sounds like he does like you or he's probably just having too many off days so he's giving you the cold shoulder a lot.

Answer 3

I can't tell from what you've posted, but he does like what you have offered him, and that may or may not mean he likes you.