A girl changed her mind about dating you and, being honest, told you it was because she has unresolved issues from a rape/childhood abuse, and doesn't think that it's a good idea?
I don't know if it sounds like I'm being honest, or TMI, or what.. I need a guys perspective on this!
FTR: He's a friend of a friend, I've been out with him once before, in November, after the mutual friend's birthday, and he's been asking me out since. And yes, what I'm saying is legit and is the reason I am freaking out over the idea of going out with him... I don't know why I agreed, I thought the panic would go away but it hasn't and I can't handle it.
And just to be clear, I'm 20, he's 22. Plus I know he's desperate to lose his virginity; and I don't trust that he wouldn't emotionally lean on me a little to get me to sleep with him. Which I do NOT want to do. And no, it's not "one date" that I have or am agreeing to.
2007-05-16
05:35:38
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Callisto
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