Singles & Dating - 16 May 2007

My ex had to go visit his dad (his dad was goin to have surgery) well my now ex got stuck and couldnt come back (not enough money to get back home like we thought) well he was missing me alot but after a while he started cheatin on me with his ex. He denyied it for about 5 months. he called me on mothers day cause we have a baby girl....and wanted to talk to me...he sounded miserable. So i asked him if he regreted cheatin he said yes and i asked him if he would lose the homewreakin and come back to me.....he said yes. Should i take him back or move on?

2007-05-16 04:44:45 · 39 answers · asked by mommyNpink 1

Am having a relationship with a married man but av been trying to stop without success. What do i do?

2007-05-16 04:43:57 · 19 answers · asked by Chibabe 1

2007-05-16 04:43:39 · 10 answers · asked by LaLa0618 1

My gurl is always arguing with me eventhough i dont start it and she argues that why cant we be like other relationships so perfect and not argue for once then i tell her Baby ther is no such thing all relationships have to have arguments thats whut keeps the relationship alive!! am i wrong or whut?? or is she right??

2007-05-16 04:43:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

i don't have his e-mail or phone number

2007-05-16 04:40:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

So tonight my boyfriend kissed me for the first time, and to be honest, it felt a little gross. The truth is I don't have much experience, and I feel really hesitant about kissing, and especially anything that goes beyond a closed mouth kiss. I really like my boyfriend, and I like when we hug and hold hands, but kissing is just something that isn't enjoyable for me right now. So my question is, is this normal and will it pass with time and practice, or is there something wrong with me?

2007-05-16 04:37:40 · 23 answers · asked by Hung Up 2

Hello everyone. I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. Since we met he has no been able to afford a car and now that things are much more serious I want him to. He is struggling with money right now and has a lot on his plate. He is also going to school to finish his credentials and is working "full time". I offered to loan him $3000 to help him buy a car. He didnt ask at all and I asked him to think about it. I just dont know if I am doing the right thing. I love him a lot and want to see him get back on his feet asap! What should I do? The $3000 is what I have in my savings account, so it wouldnt hurt me not to have it for a while.

2007-05-16 04:37:13 · 17 answers · asked by mich 2

2007-05-16 04:36:38 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-16 04:36:25 · 24 answers · asked by Tommy gun 1

2007-05-16 04:34:32 · 3 answers · asked by kent c 1

So my boyfriend and I had a nasty brake up soon after I left for college. He's dated other people, I dated one guy but he was just rebound man. Lately I think about picking up the phone and telling him I miss him, I love him, and I'm sorry. I wan't to ask him can we pls try again. But the other half of me says no. You've come this far (8 months), healed this much, do you really want to go back there? Plus it would be a long distance relationship and that's part of the reason we broke up in the first place. He asked for me back in september, and I said no. I was too hurt and too scared to try again, and now sometimes I regret it. I feel that too much time has passed to make ammends, if ammends could even be made. So has anybody been in a similiar situation. Can someone give me some sort of insight. I know utlimitaly I have to make my own decision, but sometimes hearing from others helps.

2007-05-16 04:28:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

ive always told myself-"if a male im dating ever lays a hand on me, im going to leave him."
but yesterday my boyfriend of 9 months grabbed me and left bruises on my arm. we're now not talking at all. and i already miss him so much. hes 20 feet away from me in the next room and i want to run in there and just hug him. is that wrong? am i a sucker? should i stay with him?

2007-05-16 04:25:31 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-16 04:18:45 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met a guy at work a cople weeks ago and we've really hit it off. We go to lunch every day and hang out for a few after work, He has tried to come on to me but has made it aware that he has a girlfriend. Has said they have issues but she's a good girl. I told him I appreciate his honesty but I can't kiss, make out, have sex, etc...with him while he has a girlfriend. But we DO enjoy hanging out together and have great conversations and a lot in common (except I have a child and no boyfriend) I've told him I won't do anything with him because he has a girlfriend and firstly it's bad karma and I don't do things to people that I wouldn't want them to do to me. I'm just curious if I remain "just friends" as I have been (I told him I'm not ready for a relationship anyway at this juncture in time, which my daughter being so young) if it's possible that eventually he may leave his girlfriend for me. as bad as it sounds....We have such a chemistry...am I being ridiculous?

2007-05-16 04:16:39 · 3 answers · asked by keepnitrealnlv 1

ok, for all you lake house fans out there. would you really wait two whole years for love? thats two whole years out of your life without seeing eachother in person, no physical contact, youd both be free to date other people, you wouldnt be allowed to flirt or say i love you in the mean time or do anything romantic, no gifts, no visits, no holidays, nothing but phone calls and emails. what would you say?

i mean in two years you both could fall in love with the other people your dating, and without romance (even though it would be cheating on the other people you were dating) the love may die or you could fall into a rut. what would you do if you were asked to wait two years to be wtih the one you loved?

2007-05-16 04:12:38 · 11 answers · asked by dandaman3523 1

i going to be 19, and ijust feel a lot of pressure from friends to just do it but i wanna wait for the right person is that lame?

2007-05-16 04:11:44 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok my bf is bipolar and I have ADHD... LOL... he doesnt like to be like rubbed on in a nonsexual way, and that is what i do!!! i play with hair and if we are laying in bed or on the couch, i rub his back and that mess and it gets on his nerves. How can i turn this into a good deal 4 me and him? like me be able to touch him without him gettind mad?

2007-05-16 04:04:28 · 9 answers · asked by kd_bug 2

2007-05-16 04:02:55 · 18 answers · asked by Kellie B 2

ok so he was staring in to her eyes and smiling, does this mean anything?

2007-05-16 03:59:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

most guys think that smoking is cool. do girls think so? or they prefer the non smoker

2007-05-16 03:58:14 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've got a cold, and I'm bored to death. I just want to go home.

Anybody else not up to the task today?

What should we do to keep busy on a day like this?

2007-05-16 03:57:51 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a webpage and I switch photos every once in awhile. The first pic #1 I've had on my front page for awhile, and the pic #2 I just put on instead of the other one. Well..I'm trying to decide which one to keep as my front profile pic. After I put pic #2 up, I don't get as many messages as I used to with the old pic, now I might just be paranoid about it or it has nothing to do with the pic I put up, but I still get alot of profile views so I was wondering what's up with that. I thought pic #2 was pretty and people have said that, but I don't know, so I need some more opinions on which one I should use. Thanks.
#1=http://i192.photobucket.com/albums/z300/vip_girl_2007/mecrop.jpg
#2=http://i192.photobucket.com/albums/z300/vip_girl_2007/menew1e.jpg

2007-05-16 03:56:57 · 20 answers · asked by V i P b A b Y 1

2007-05-16 03:56:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

hes very sweet and i have alot of fun with him but im upset he lied. my bestfriend said i should leave him alone cause he lied about something stupid. he said he was younger than what he really is and he also lied about having kids. should i forgive him or let him go?

2007-05-16 03:54:52 · 7 answers · asked by justbeautiful4u 2

He's been sending signals which strongly suggest he likes me. He's also been saying words which are leading to the conclusion that he's into me. But he wouldn't say it. We're losing time, cause I'll be leaving next week and I haven't decided yet if I'll come back. I don't want to do the first move. What should I do? Help!

2007-05-16 03:54:22 · 16 answers · asked by Nia F 3

ok, so eryone says that guys like girls that play hard to get...but then again some people say they dont. ive also heard that they get annoyed by hard to get and that they like nice sweet girls..

WAT IS IT?!?!
i hate when ppl dnt kno wat theyre tlkn about...
pleeez answer...super duper confused

2007-05-16 03:51:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

cause i am about to dump him right now

2007-05-16 03:50:58 · 3 answers · asked by Tia L 1

I couldn't figure out how to edit my previous question. So I decided to post a follow up. Sorry.

First I want to clear things up. I have had sexual experience and I know what its all about, but she doesn't. We are both very eager to have sex and agreed to do it before marriage. We are in a long distance relationship. We have been together for 10 months, but seen each other only for 4 days. I am going to see her next month and so wanted to make our first time really special.

I have asked her how she would like to have her first time. But she doesn't know. She just said: look around on the internet, so here I am :-)

I don't need advice on the intercourse itself. I just wanted to know how to make it really special and romantic? I know that everyone does candles and rose petals, but I want to be more original than that. Any ideas?

2007-05-16 03:47:03 · 4 answers · asked by dimkadimon 2

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2007-05-16 03:42:04 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a boyfriend...yet i've talked to someone online for 6yrs. is it cheating if i flirt?

2007-05-16 03:40:03 · 8 answers · asked by canadian angel 2