I met a guy at work a cople weeks ago and we've really hit it off. We go to lunch every day and hang out for a few after work, He has tried to come on to me but has made it aware that he has a girlfriend. Has said they have issues but she's a good girl. I told him I appreciate his honesty but I can't kiss, make out, have sex, etc...with him while he has a girlfriend. But we DO enjoy hanging out together and have great conversations and a lot in common (except I have a child and no boyfriend) I've told him I won't do anything with him because he has a girlfriend and firstly it's bad karma and I don't do things to people that I wouldn't want them to do to me. I'm just curious if I remain "just friends" as I have been (I told him I'm not ready for a relationship anyway at this juncture in time, which my daughter being so young) if it's possible that eventually he may leave his girlfriend for me. as bad as it sounds....We have such a chemistry...am I being ridiculous?
2007-05-16 04:16:39 · 3 answers · asked by keepnitrealnlv 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't go there. Period.
In the long run, would you want to be with someone that broke up with someone for you?
If he could do it so easily with her whats to say he wont do it with you when something better comes along?
2007-05-16 04:20:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to keep your distance as you said you hve a daughter and you wont do somthing to som1 which you wouldnt want him to do to u! if ther wasnt tht girl it wiuld hve been different but now just b friends with him. the day he will leave his girl and ask you out then think abt goin froward with him. it will then be a proof of love n sincerity to u! as u said the law of karma acts is strict n righteous, if u do sow bad you will reep bad dear!
just be courageous n take the rite decision but always thinks abt your baby daughter! i dont think you wuld wish tht later on som1 will betray youe daughter for som1 else.
take care! n may god bless you...
2007-05-16 04:26:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, duh! If u have chemistry thats why ur friends!! Stay away from him, if he has tried anything, just remeber that even if u do become with him there is a chance he might cheat on ya...
But I'd stay away.
2007-05-16 04:21:45 · answer #3 · answered by Cutie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋