Am having a relationship with a married man but av been trying to stop without success. What do i do?
2007-05-16 04:43:57 · 19 answers · asked by Chibabe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thanks all. i feel better. he actually used to be my boss. i'll try harder to break. am grateful for ur answers
2007-05-16 04:59:18 · update #1
Just stop. you are in control of what you do. Don't treat yourself like a peice of trash, you're better than that
2007-05-16 04:46:19 · answer #1 · answered by hollybear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop, karma is a a horrible thing and can strick yeas down the road, i know from experance.
I had a relation ship with a married woman years and years ago, then recently got married had a family, house the "american dream" and loveed her verry verry much... and guess, what she had an affair and split with everything, karma... it is funny how it works, so just stop now, before it get too deep na d toooo complicated, and before karmahas a chance to strike!
2007-05-16 11:48:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my goodness girl, if you only knew what I went through last summer you wouldn't even be in your situation! I was dating a guy who was married but they were on/off seperated and then back together or whatever. He broke my heart, cheated on me with other girls and then when his divorce was final, he left me when I was 3 months pregnant and told me never to contact him again.That's what your future will be if you stay with this guy. Call him today and tell him its over. NO tears, be very firm and don't ever contact him again. IT will hurt but it is for the best.
2007-05-16 11:48:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having an affair with married man doesnt sound good but things just happen , its better if you stop meeting him and all ways to contact him otherwise it will destroy three main lives you , his and his wife and his childhren if he has .
Its better to cut all relation with him and find better guys , from your relation it seems you are attracted to mature man not the general guys but its better to attach with someone whom you can have future not just short time fun .
GOod luck
2007-05-16 11:50:44 · answer #4 · answered by Thinking 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just stop it. You dont wanna get into a bunch of drama if she finds out. Just stop seeing him. Yeah easier said then done.. but how would you feel if you were married and your man cheated on you?
2007-05-16 11:47:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must think about the consequences of you relationship, it is obvious that it is going to hurt him and his marriage and it might hurt u too.
make a firm decision and stick to it, if u decide to break up with him (best thing u can do) then stick to it, if not, then u gotta tell his wife and save him some trouble.
2007-05-16 11:48:57 · answer #6 · answered by indraneel j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a better man, who is not married
2007-05-16 11:46:31 · answer #7 · answered by what what....playa what 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats the deal ? when you get near him your panties get all wet so you can't stop it. His c0ck ends up in your throat so you can speak. He won't take no for an answer so you say well ok do me. I'll tell you what to do. Get lost.
2007-05-16 11:51:29 · answer #8 · answered by Ray2play 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave him it's as simple as that he's not a real man doing that to both of you two
2007-05-16 11:49:44 · answer #9 · answered by Austin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You call all the shots, no more phone calls, no more seeing eachother. Make him understand why this needs to stop.
2007-05-16 11:46:54 · answer #10 · answered by *Butterfly* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋