Okay....My boyfriend and I got into a big fight and now were arn't talking....and he really tried to hurt me but that blew up in his face cause I aim to hurt, and i did something i know would kill him...so basically we are in this war. I'm not gonna apologize and I am not gonna change and I know he is not either (were too much alike to work) but I miss his company. Should I call him, it's almost been a week or should i charge it to the game and keep moving. Most of the time I'm okay not talking to him it's just a big adjustment. I REALLY don't want to date him just be his friend (something like friends).....What should i do?
2007-05-16 04:53:31 · 12 answers · asked by :Dazed and Confused: 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes, love is stronger than pride
2007-05-16 04:58:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately in this day and age, pride seems stronger than love. I know what you are talking of, I think most hurts could be overcome when there is love, but I'm a hopeful dreamer. Anyway, you said you don't want to have a relationship with him so just let it go, it's easier in the long run to have a clean break. And maybe after some time you two can resume some level of communication.
Lucky for you, you are the one who is decided to quit... just keep moving.
Good Luck,
Mariah
2007-05-16 05:00:24 · answer #2 · answered by Mariah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is stronger dan Pride. Pride can only make u bost and it is for a while after which u regret over it.
But love gives u happiness bcus u can give it out, receive and destroy it. Pherhaps u want to destroy it bcus of what happenned, then go ur way switch off 4rm guy.
2007-05-16 05:13:27 · answer #3 · answered by joy o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Certainly. Pride stands nowhere before Love. Love is big and huge, it has no comparison. Its an expression of the noblest sense of a person
You decide. I am not wise enough to suggest course of action but my knowledge is confined to the broader part of your question, that is Love is stronger and BIGGER than pride.
2007-05-16 05:06:46 · answer #4 · answered by Goldman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you never even mentioned loved...you never said you loved him or that he loved you. It sounds as if you both are playing games, there is no love to be lost here so what's to hold onto? If you want to be friends, then be friends, but it doesn't sound like you have anything to build a real relationship on - and that's simply based on what you provided here. Good luck.
2007-05-16 05:00:06 · answer #5 · answered by Brandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, do not screw up love with pride. It is foolish. Your pride will continue to hurt you and others around you through out your life...might as well start making a difference now. IF you really love this guy...call him. If you don't you will be asking "what if" forever.
2007-05-16 04:59:09 · answer #6 · answered by Ray Ray 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow the heck up!!! Even if you dont love him, why would you aim to hurt someone and the brag about it...Apparently, he doesnt want to be bothered with you. Keep it moving
2007-05-16 05:03:22 · answer #7 · answered by plumprump26 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like its bothering u dat much and ur conscience isn't clear so in order to be at peace with urself and let him know ur ok with him n u want to be friends u should be the bigger person n break the ice between u.
2007-05-16 05:00:27 · answer #8 · answered by sharon t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him if you realy loved him,forget about pride cos it would take you anywhere.thesame thing happened between me and ma b/f,bt i have to calm down and appologise cos they said(is the mens world).
2007-05-16 04:56:50 · answer #9 · answered by beautiful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both emotions can strong, they can also be stupid. Move on, time is to short to play stupid games.
2007-05-16 05:00:54 · answer #10 · answered by Scuzzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋