Singles & Dating - 7 May 2007

Instead they lust over what they could have and torment themselves. Then later go out with losers who treat them badly. If you don't speak up, how will GOOD men ever know you exist? Are they that intimidating to you?

2007-05-07 14:42:47 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

19 yo Sexually active Italian male, out of relationship, and nervous about American women.

2007-05-07 14:42:07 · 20 answers · asked by BandAid 1

Because me and my boyfriend have been together for almost two years, and he is really starting to bother me about having sex with him. He says he NEEDS it badly, which I don't understand because I am a virgin. We are totally in love with each other and he is NOT trying to pressure me, but I do feel kinda bad, I mean its been almost two years. He said if I gave him a bl*wjob I would still be a virgin. I am not really sure about that, I don't know what to do, I am afraid he will break up with me :(


Other Info:
*I'm 21, he is 22
*I was planning on saving myself until marriage
*He also said its not fair because I dress to sexy and I act sexual ?? (He's just being weird)
*He said its getting boring, just making out all the time :( He also keeps trying to get into my pant, literally.


Thanks for your help :)

2007-05-07 14:36:44 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-07 14:35:13 · 3 answers · asked by Em 1

and you tooted (cuz you couldnt hold it in any longer) and it blows right in the guy's face and messes his hair like if he was drivin in the wind or sumthin?????

2007-05-07 14:33:46 · 2 answers · asked by ya ok....sure 2

I only just noticed it, but it seems that (well at least the singles and dating part) is mainly occupupied by teenage girls having troubles with their first love etc.

Does that mean that guys just dont have troubles, or dont ask strangers on the internet about it :)

2007-05-07 14:31:50 · 2 answers · asked by ChAtMaN 4

Is it ok for girls, if your guy is like this:
1. Not good at any sport, except swimming
2. Have a voice like Bruce Lee
3. Can't speak clearly
4. Has a really soft voice
5. Has some pimples
6. An above-average student
7. Listens to some weird music, like the Beatles, Sister Hazel, Counting Crows and some other not-so-famous singers and bands.
8. Knows how to play a piano, but ain't really that good.
9. Maybe a little bit of a computer geek.
10. The quiet-type

2007-05-07 14:30:18 · 28 answers · asked by cool&laid-back 2

well we both work together in a restaurant. He is always staring at me and following me with his eyes. and he gives alot of eye contact when he is talking to me. I just got off work and he was going outside for a break and asked me to come along and talk to him. He stayed with me and walked me to my car.
Today i worked with him again. He was being kind of quiet and shy then out of nowhere he said that a fellow coworker asked him if i was his girlfriend. (she saw us outside together) then he said it was funny. then when i left he said hope you have a nice day etc. As i was walking to my car i saw him watching me. What does this all mean.

2007-05-07 14:30:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ive been with my girlfriend for almost three years now, and our sex life has been fine. My parents went away this weekend, and my girl wanted to try new things, and built up this weekend like it was the superbowl. I got too nervous, and couldn't stay hard Saturday night. I think this is where thing started getting in my head. She got very pissed at me, then last night, we tried it again, and I couldn't stay hard, and she broke down into tears. My heart ripped into pieces, and I feel like like Im losing my manhood, and my girlfriend. Everything was fine Thursday, now I have no confidence, and Ive resorted to trying horney goat weed. Im really scared Im going to lose the girl I love so much, and im all alone this week, and have nobody to talk to. Please help me.

2007-05-07 14:28:30 · 1 answers · asked by Brian S 2

I'm sort of like that sometimes. Like for example, I'll get really happy over something, kind of like a childs happiness. Or if I see something, I'll just stand with my mouth wide open. Also especially if I'm sick, I'll be just like a little kid almost. I don't think it's that bad, and it's not like I usually act childish, just sometimes, especially when I'm happy. Would that be annoying to a boyfriend, or not really.
*Relationship between two people in their twenties

2007-05-07 14:21:05 · 38 answers · asked by Brooke 2

I think oral sex on men is really nasty. My boyfriend, doesn't care much for recieving it, but he loves to give it! :-) I've spoke with several women, most of whom are married, who agree that they really think its gross. Society has made it seem like this is a great and enjoyable thing to do.....but its really not for me. The taste of it and the taste of the "come" is really not "tasty" in any way. I'm amazed at how many women said they found to be really unenjoyable, but did it for their husbands anyway to make them happy. Its too much torture for me. Eww.

2007-05-07 14:17:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

my gf sometimes just has these moods where she ignores me and seems like she doesnt want me with her. I love her so much and she doesnt know how this makes me feel? is this normal... keep in mind this only happens sometimes the rest of the time we share together is great!!!

2007-05-07 14:15:35 · 1 answers · asked by basketball 1

If a guy teases you does that mean he like you?

2007-05-07 14:12:46 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

My haircut is really cute and I just got it cut this sunday.Its short (down to my chin) with bangs .My haircut is a little longer in the front and a little shorter in the back, im a brunett I have brown eyes,im mixed (black and white).Today I walked into the classroom and he stopped what he was doing and stared at me and started to blush(hes white so you can tell very easily).And he kept turning around to stare at me.Occasionally I would just glance to notice hes staring at me.He knows I like him.I think he started to get jealouse when I didnt notice him staring at me,because I was being busy trying not to get tickled by my friend Cedric.

2007-05-07 14:12:44 · 8 answers · asked by Choxie Toxie 2

i just broke up with my bf and im really sad!!!!!!!!! what should i do!!!!!!

2007-05-07 14:08:36 · 6 answers · asked by Harley C 2

I hear guys saying all the time that they hate either making a girl cry or having a girl cry. I understand that it sucks to see anyone cry. But why do guys have this particular feeling? It's cute though.

2007-05-07 14:08:12 · 4 answers · asked by Brooke 2

Well probably since the beggining of the year I've liked this girl, kinda quiet, in all my classes fairly attractive but not very popular, although I've been in other relationships I still find myself liking her, and very recently I found out she used to like me too...but the thing is she has a bf and not only does she have a bf, her bf is one of my best friends! but the thing is hes an a$$ (which makes me question my friendship but w/e) and shes nice and likes to stick up for the little guy (whom he quiet often abuses) and they way they started going out is he just sort of swooped in and made her like him...now they're in love and I find myself falling more in love with her everyday ... and I also feel crunched too do something cause I'm moving soon, and recently theyve had relationship problems and I found myself encouraging her to dump him, but trying to hide my feelings too...am I messed for that? am I messed for liking her?

2007-05-07 14:07:46 · 23 answers · asked by Burning out, not fading away 3

just that

2007-05-07 14:06:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im kinda nervous. I've known him for nearly a year now and he knew furthur in the beginning of our friendship that I liked him but he had a girlfriend then. Im thinking Im gonna ask him who he likes and depending on his answer and if he asks me who I like Im gonna tell him that it's obvious that I like him but I dont want to like him if he doesnt like me back....I dont know if that sounds mean or not though. Like, we've been hanging out a lot lately and I kinda got the vibe that he liked me but I just wanna know. So do you think that sounds good, or do you guys have any other suggestions. I dont wanna just blurt it out to him though I want it to be kinda subtle. Ahh, Im so nervous. Hahaha

2007-05-07 14:04:07 · 3 answers · asked by Nobody's Fool 1

i still have strong feelings for this girl who use to like me too, but we now live 500 miles away and are dating other people... but last night she told me that she was cutting herself and hadn't told anybody else. i don't know what i can do bc of the distance so i just gave her my phone number and told her to call me if she ever felt like hurting herself. was this the right thing to do? i also got her hooked up with some counseling services where my old school (where she goes is). why would she not talk to me for a while then come to me with this? what does that mean? she also told me that she lost her virginity and her body feels weird. why the hell would she tell me that but not her bf? bc i care about her, it hurt to hear that she had slept with him... she also said "at first i thought my feelinngs for you were only bc of your writing." (i wrote her poems) and she posted 2 poems that could be about me on her myspace.

2007-05-07 14:00:57 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

Sometimes I feel like I’m my boyfriend’s mother. I constantly remind him to do “booger checks” before we go out and I have to ask him to shave and get regular haircuts. I hate having to remember to make sure my guy doesn’t have boogers hanging out of his nose before we go somewhere. Isn’t this something that people just automatically check for on their own?

Also, he has sort of a bad habit of picking at/scratching his head (because he has dandruff and it gets itchy), but sometimes he’ll scratch at very inopportune times…like at church…or a concert. I have to nudge him to tell him to stop and then he responds, “Everything bothers you.” He says that it’s a little thing that doesn’t matter in the big scheme of things…while I agree with him, I also feel that it’s rude and may gross other people out!

When he’s all clean and put together, I’m totally attracted to him. I just wish I didn't have to give those little reminders. What do you think? Any similar experiences?

2007-05-07 13:53:29 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

All these guys say they're all tough, and never cry, and I don't know what to believe. For the guys, when's the last time you cried and what was it about?

2007-05-07 13:49:35 · 10 answers · asked by Brooke 2

So, there's this friend of mine. We flirt alot...we've fooled around some in the past..and I still have this insane attraction for him and him for me...but he has a girlfriend. I don't want to date him or anything of that sort...but I think he's who I want to lose my virginity to. He's the only person who I can't feel physically comfortable with (I have issues that stem from being molested as a child and also having parents with body image issues that they passed on to me) and he can practically read my mind and know what I like...and I can do the same for him. I know it would be wrong to sleep with him but I can't find anyone else that I trust that much and that I'm that compatible with. should I just wait til he breaks up with the girlfriend and then proposition him? hell, how do I go about propositioning him?

2007-05-07 13:44:49 · 37 answers · asked by Haley 1

Well , there was this guy that asked me out twice and the second time he asked me out I said let me think about it , but this one girl pounced on him before I could answer him. And just a few days ago I started really liking him. My friend told me she would try to get us together, but I'm afraid my crush had lost feelings for me. Either I take a chance and risk humiliation or I just forget about him and move on. WHAT DO I DO?!

2007-05-07 13:44:31 · 15 answers · asked by Wowza Emily 2

I'm 14, but I would really want to date a guy who can like drive(16 or 17), is this wrong of me. because when I reveal this to people they say I'm a slut, is that true?

2007-05-07 13:41:16 · 34 answers · asked by leolabrit 2

I have never been very good at articulating what i am feeling- especially in the heat of the moment... words get jumbled up, meanings are lost and I always forget crucial things that I want to say... Ever since I was a kid I have always broached difficult subjects with a letter.
I have been seeing this guy for 15 months. We broke up a few months into it, but started seeing each other again as friends and eventually started sleeping together again about 6 months ago. Things are great. We have a blast. Recently when asked by a stranger if I was his girlfriend he said "Good question" (I was standing right there). Later I asked him the same question and he said if he was gonna have a g/f it would be me, but he doesn't have time for a healthy relationship. Huh? I feel our relationship is already healthy, I just wanted to know if he sees me in his future. You know- the long haul. I wrote a letter asking just that and basically telling him I don't want his time, just his heart.

2007-05-07 13:36:46 · 3 answers · asked by miss kitty 2

I've always wanted to be like the women who are daring to approach the men who they like. Would you be turned off if I were to ask you out, I'm a pretty cute girl, but I'm tired of waiting for them to make the first move. I wanna mix up the rules.

2007-05-07 13:35:25 · 26 answers · asked by Leo 3

I like this guy, and I believe he likes me too, but we aren't bf/gf. I think it's just an ego thing with him, where he likes me to be around for his own ego, but won't admit that he wants to be my bf. I hung out with him & his cousin last Saturday night, things were going well, but I kinda think, slightly, that is cousin kinda likes me BUT I'm not for sure, he could just be nice to me because of his cousin. Anyway...I was drinking since it was cinco de mayo and accidentally said "I like both of you, then his cousin said, "well we could have a 3some" But the guy that I like didn't say anything, or he's shy or something, but I was making moves on him ALL night so that he knows that I like him. He was too, and has been talking like he does, but he doesn't make me his gf. Well to be nice, I added his cousin to my webpage, but asked the guy that I like if it was ok that I added his cousin, he said "you can add him...that's fine...I don't care" but what does he REALLY mean?

2007-05-07 13:32:22 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay. well am i not respect myslef / am i too easy / a **** if im allowing and wanting to have sex even when my boyfriends dad is home? because my parents saw a hickey i had on my chest and my mom said that i had no respect formyself and it made me feel really bad.. was she right ?

2007-05-07 13:28:34 · 45 answers · asked by ♥ Lyss 1

Alright, I'm going to ask him tomorrow. Except I'm not sure what to where. I mean yes I have pretty big boobs but (and yes this is going to seem like a dumb question) should I show them off or no. And my butt is pretty big too, should I wear tight clothes and just let him see. Or would that be too whorish?

2007-05-07 13:26:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous