Was that a bad move?

Question

I like this guy, and I believe he likes me too, but we aren't bf/gf. I think it's just an ego thing with him, where he likes me to be around for his own ego, but won't admit that he wants to be my bf. I hung out with him & his cousin last Saturday night, things were going well, but I kinda think, slightly, that is cousin kinda likes me BUT I'm not for sure, he could just be nice to me because of his cousin. Anyway...I was drinking since it was cinco de mayo and accidentally said "I like both of you, then his cousin said, "well we could have a 3some" But the guy that I like didn't say anything, or he's shy or something, but I was making moves on him ALL night so that he knows that I like him. He was too, and has been talking like he does, but he doesn't make me his gf. Well to be nice, I added his cousin to my webpage, but asked the guy that I like if it was ok that I added his cousin, he said "you can add him...that's fine...I don't care" but what does he REALLY mean?

So was that a bad move? I messaged his cousin saying that he could mack on my friends if he wanted, since he asked if I had cute friends, he read that message but didn't reply OR add me, so I cancelled my request. Why didn't he add me? Does that mean that the guy that I like, really likes me, and his cousin doesn't want to get in the middle of it??

Answer 1

Depends if your just trying to get laid, then no, if you trying to make a deep geniune relationship then yes you made a bad move. Seems your confusing lust with love, good luck with that....