Well , there was this guy that asked me out twice and the second time he asked me out I said let me think about it , but this one girl pounced on him before I could answer him. And just a few days ago I started really liking him. My friend told me she would try to get us together, but I'm afraid my crush had lost feelings for me. Either I take a chance and risk humiliation or I just forget about him and move on. WHAT DO I DO?!
2007-05-07 13:44:31 · 15 answers · asked by Wowza Emily 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Him and that girl broke up about a month or so ago
2007-05-07 13:56:50 · update #1
Trust me, when a guy likes a girl he doesn't just get over her over night, and just by the fact that he asked you out twice means he does think about you. Sometimes a guy can be liking a girl for months before asking her out, other times at the spur of the moment. What do you got to lose? If you don't try he will definitely be taken. I don't know what you situation is, if you have his number etc. depends on how you are, if you're confident talk to him in person, if not give him your number, get a friend to bring him over, send him a note; whatever you feel comfortable with.
2007-05-07 13:57:29 · answer #1 · answered by #1bob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a chance I remember I kept quiet once so i let him be he got a girl and we just talked he said that he always had feeling for me but he thought i didnt like him because i never told him but it is to late now because he is in love so take the chance you will regret not telling more then telling him and him saying no trust me.
2007-05-07 13:50:48 · answer #2 · answered by LoverVampGirl93 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's the kind of guy who just wants a relationship. Either you took too long to answer, or he found someone who was in just as big of a hurry as he was. Either way, if he's dating someone else, then it's bad juju to interfere. Just remain the unattainable girl until he's not involved with anyone, and then start to give him attention.
2007-05-07 13:51:35 · answer #3 · answered by Earthling 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey! He liked you from the beginning and I say its worth a shot. And if you want to be sure have a friend ask about you. Not ask him out yet just see how he feels for you now. He probley still does! Good luck!
2007-05-07 13:49:35 · answer #4 · answered by **JaeAnswers! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could have the same problem that I have: you want him once he is taken. It depends how you broke up the first time. If it was something stupid and you really liked him then go for it, but if you lost interest in him... maybe you should look for someone new.
2007-05-07 13:48:32 · answer #5 · answered by Erica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it! dont rely on ur friends to do ur things 4 u, he seems sweet, and just go for no 1 not even ur best friend would know what hes goin to say. if u do get humiliated then dont worry about it it will all blow over the next couple days
2007-05-07 13:50:30 · answer #6 · answered by cutegirl67 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a chance! You'll regret it if you don't. Don't think about humiliation as the outcome, think about it as - the outcome.
Life goes on. It's better to hear "no" than to agonize over "what if" for the rest of your life...
2007-05-07 13:49:23 · answer #7 · answered by a gal and her dog 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about you don't just like him because he found someone else?!!??!?!
I think it's your green-eyed monster coming out! You're just jealous because he isn't interested in you anymore. You had your chance, you passed. Don't sabotage his relationship with this other girl. How would you feel if someone were doing that to you???!?!?!
Believe it or not, there are other guys out there!
2007-05-07 13:56:00 · answer #8 · answered by jezyka 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just answer him (u still haven't answered him, right)
Just tell him u haven't got time to tell him lately because you never saw him or something
And he will probably still like u
no one can forget someone so fast
They just slowly start to loose interest
If ur lucky he just began to loose interest
Tell Him U Like Him
2007-05-07 13:57:16 · answer #9 · answered by Marquezbayside 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's try to skip the embarrassing part all together. Don't have your friend go up to him and say,"OMG!!!(What Ever Your Name Is) likes you and wants to know if you like her back!!!!" No, no, no, have her have causul conversation then turn the subject to you and slip the question to him like nothings really going on.
2007-05-07 13:52:29 · answer #10 · answered by Android. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋