Singles & Dating - 31 March 2007

I dated a guy for 18 months, and ended it more than six months ago. He hasn't taken it well, and he seems to be getting worse lately. I wrote him recently to tell him I don't want to be in contact with him anymore. He's been writing me anonymously to harass me, written a friend's wife and claimed I had sex with her husband, shown up at a group I normally attend, and has posed as his own mother on her email to see what I'd say to her. I filed a harassment incident report with the police, and today I called his mother and told him he's been posing as her on her email. (He said a friend has her password and it must be the friend who's doing all this, and I think she believes him.) While I'm hopeful that she will tell him to knock it off, will this cause him to escalate the harassment? Or, since she now knows that something is up, will he stop on his own? Any suggestions for what I should do next?

2007-03-31 21:06:38 · 3 answers · asked by Katherine W 7

When he gets drunk he gets aggressive. He always lies about htings that I find out about later on and he is constantly telling me how much its hima nd I and we are going to conquer the world. I talked to his ex girlfriend and she says it was the same with her....Is it healthy for me to want to stay with him? Even if he has aggressive outbursts when he drinks? I love him a lot I really do. And when we're not fighting and getting a long he treats me like a queen. Is this healthy for me?

2007-03-31 21:02:43 · 6 answers · asked by Kris 4

Theres this girl that i like and she is totaly HOTT, but i don't know if she likes me back. So, how do u know if a girl likes you? And if you know, how do I tell hr I like her?

PLEASE HELP!!!

2007-03-31 21:01:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i want to know wat kinds of things girls do that get guys' attention. things that would turn them on...things like that.

2007-03-31 20:57:28 · 27 answers · asked by rOcKstAr18 1

he walks past and winks and smiles and then he tells me he is sure that he has seen me before. wherever i am thats where he seems to be. On my break, or he'll tell me when he is leaving and says goodbye.I think he is obsessed and he freaks me out.He like way older too but i'm and adult. what do you think?

2007-03-31 20:50:49 · 8 answers · asked by debra 2

Ok this girl likes me but i completely ignored her last semester. The reason i ignored her because she's fat, lazy(I always caught her putting her heads down in the chair) and I don't think she's smart(the best quality I like). So what is she expecting? Until now she's hoping to attract my attention which is not going to happen.

2007-03-31 20:35:54 · 12 answers · asked by E.S ZEBULUN 2

Well i've liked this boy for awhile now and in the beginning it seemed like he liked me a lot too! so later on in the school year we were the same but you can tell when he likes other ppl more especially when he goes out with them! so i just thought whatever and tried to move on! well everytime we are togethter like at a party or anything he is always flirting with me and making moves! well then he goes out with another girl, or just always does that but never asks me out. well last night we were at a friends and earlier we had tlked about us two flirting and stuff since another girl wasn't coming like i was second choice or something. well when we were there we were hanging out and stuff but then it was me and him and another girl and guy in a room together and this boy came in with his phone trying to catch us doing stuff so he could take pixx.....weirdo! well the guy started doing stuff to me for the camers....i wanted to flirt back but i didnt want to seem easy to everyone else so

2007-03-31 20:05:19 · 4 answers · asked by BuddhaBuddy 1

WHO CARES IF YOU BOTH GET ALONG !

2007-03-31 19:55:17 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

At what point do you no your in love?

2007-03-31 19:52:17 · 20 answers · asked by Missy14 1

I am 14 and sometimes i find myself falling back in love with my ex-boyfriend. i set right by him in class. i can't get away from him.. i tryed with others but i still think of him(my ex).. what should i do you get him off my mind... PLZ HELP????

2007-03-31 19:49:11 · 15 answers · asked by Missy14 1

We've been dating 5 months. It hasn't been the most stable relationship. It started out as friendship, I was getting over my ex-bf who i had been with 2 years and it was a rough time for me. I didn't feel comfortable at that time telling him about my previous bfs from 4 years before, i felt it wasnt the right time.

Well, then i found out i was pregnant with his child. I immediately told him anything i hadn't about my past, childhood, ex-bfs, everything. He can't get over the fact that i was with other guys, even though I'm 100% faithful to him now. I don't know how to make him see that was years ago and i'm ready to be serious and settle down with him.

Since I'm his first in every sense, he tries to get back at me for my past by making me jealous, staring at every girl he sees, etc. He also freaks out when any guy comes near me, even if its a crowded place and somebody brushes up against me, we end up fighting for an hour.

Is this a phase or will it always be like this?

2007-03-31 19:42:31 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

after a guy gets sex from a girl that been holding out - do he lose all in interest in her? how she can stop that from happening and why does it happen? guys shouldn't do girls bad like this, it's not right....

2007-03-31 19:38:17 · 22 answers · asked by mariah2480 1

wat are some of the biggest turn ons that a girl can do to get ur attention?

2007-03-31 19:29:26 · 11 answers · asked by rOcKstAr18 1

There's this girl whom I've been friends with for years... and I think she's liked me for a while now; but I've always remained neutral towards her because I didn't really like her that much, and I already have a girlfriend in a long-distance relationship.
Lately though, I've felt more and more attracted to her, and today I just made out with her for the first time.
She knows all about my girlfriend, and she hinted today that I should break up with my current girlfriend before we take it any further.
I like my long-dist. g/f more than I like her, but I don't think that I can keep up that relationship anymore (too far).

Going out with my friend would be fun, and I really want to, and I'm really physically attracted to her...

But breaking up with my long-d g/f would be really messy (promised marriage etc.), and I'm not even sure I want to...

2007-03-31 18:55:58 · 7 answers · asked by DragoonZero 1

there's this girl at my church thats really hot.i've been checking her out for like a year. (she's the lead singer). i want to tell her how i feel (not ask her out) but i'm 12 and she's like 16,17. i'm 5'7 my voice has changed and i have facial hair so i could pass for like 14 but it would still be awkward telling her i like her since we don't know each other either. what do i do.

2007-03-31 18:48:28 · 10 answers · asked by lbj23d 2

What are your opinions of Australia and her people.

2007-03-31 18:38:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay I'm graduating high school this year in grade 12 and I'm thinking of asking a girl i really like to the prom. She's the same age is me, but the only thing is that she won't be graduating this year because she is grade. She's one grade back because when she moved to my country a dew years ago, they made her go back a grade, even though we are the same age. Do you think I would still be able to take somone to the prom who is not graduating or in the same grade??

2007-03-31 18:28:50 · 12 answers · asked by REDSOX847 2

I'm not much into church and I'm not into drinking. Where's the best place to meet girls. It seems to be much harder ever since I've graduated college.

2007-03-31 18:23:36 · 7 answers · asked by question man 1

Honestly. I've been dating for a long time, and I still don't get it. How can you go on a date with a guy, have everything go super fantastic, he says he really likes you and he's going to call you in a couple of days, and then you just wait around on your butt with no phone calls. Why would you either lie about liking someone, or make them wait a whole week for your call? Men, why are you playing with my heart?

2007-03-31 18:12:04 · 4 answers · asked by rachelinjapan24 2

I just found out from a "past" friend that this girl I really like just played me super bad. For the past two hours I have been the most angry at anyone other than my parents in my entire life. My feelings were toyed with and then discarded like I don't matter. Its funny because the girl never even told me how she felt... I had to wait and hear it from my so called friend, who went and talked to her even though I had asked him not to. He even went ahead and told her everything I had told him in confidence. Wow Im getting more mad as I write this lol. Anyways, so Ive been on the phone for the last two hours fuming to another friend. I log online when I get home and notice that she sent me an email... saying nothing about how she felt... nothing about needing to talk, just random stupid things. But then she sounded sad because she couldnt go into town tomorrow and she was pretty down, and I felt sad for her I wanted to go hug her. All I think about is her, and I need to stop. But how?

2007-03-31 18:10:06 · 7 answers · asked by teh_masta_of_all 2

2007-03-31 18:06:15 · 16 answers · asked by bubblepower789 2

Like soul mates and all. I think there is, but I have the worst luck in the world when it comes to dating and guys. Sometimes I feel like I am never going to be with that special someone. I just wish I could find him so we could be together.

2007-03-31 17:54:05 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just found out from a "past" (as of about 2 hours ago) that this girl I really like just played me super bad. For the past two hours I have been the most angry at anyone other than my parents in my entire life. My feelings were toyed with and then discarded like I don't matter. Its funny because the girl never even told me how she felt... I had to wait and hear it from my so called friend, who went and talked to her even though I had asked him not to. He even went ahead and told her everything I had told him in confidence. Wow Im getting more mad as I write this lol. Anyways, so Ive been on the phone for the last two hours fuming to another friend. I log online when I get home and notice that she sent me an email... saying nothing about how she felt... nothing about needing to talk, just random stupid things. But then she said she was sad because she couldnt go into town tomorrow and she didnt end up going to the store she wanted today, and I felt sad for her I wanted to go hug her.

2007-03-31 17:51:31 · 1 answers · asked by teh_masta_of_all 2

2007-03-31 17:51:05 · 3 answers · asked by linda l 1

i hope my answer will also come from girls.i am a very handsome and good looking boy;but fear to talk with girls i will give 100$ to the person who gave the best answer.

2007-03-31 17:37:00 · 10 answers · asked by daniale 1

a child she says that she is unsure about our relationship and about having a child. It is now 12:00 am and we tried to concieve this afternoon at 4:00. I love this girl very much but we have argued alot lately because of the fact that i was unsure about the child deal what is going on. is this a problem that can be solved. Do you think she is frustrated about the fact that I was unsure what can I do? Help Please Thanks

2007-03-31 17:34:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

ive liked this guy for a while. what should i say to him? i get so nervous around him! help!

2007-03-31 17:32:05 · 9 answers · asked by miranda r 2

2007-03-31 17:31:05 · 12 answers · asked by jamies72292 1

I'm wondering if I have some real issues. I met this awesome guy way back in 4th grade, and we went to the same school until 7th grade. I really liked him. The problem is, I'm a junior in high school and I still like him... It's not that there's a shortage of hot/sweet/smart/funny guys at my school or anything, but none of them really measure up to the standards this guy set. Oh, yeah. And I also haven't seen or talked to him in a little over a year. Am I a wreck?

2007-03-31 17:25:13 · 6 answers · asked by swimmer2 2

my best friend was dating this guy (lets call him josh) and they dated for about 6 months then he broke up with her. during the confussion of whether he liked her anymore or not, him and i, we got super close. after the break up, we were talking nonstop and he considered me his only best friend, and at the time he meant it. but when we started talking more.he started to be more romantic towards me. nd then i fell for him. i didnt want him to know that i liked him at first because i thought that it would ruin the relationship we already had. but then i thought that if he really is my best friend, it wouldnt matter. well...he found out i liked him, and started going around to everyone in school saying that i annoy him and that i ruin his day. and that got me pissed, so i backed off and let him have space. and then about a month later, he came up to me and said that im obsessed with him,&that i need to check into a mental hospital. i cried, and he just laughed and walked away.wt do i do?

2007-03-31 17:18:23 · 10 answers · asked by Stephanie 2