Singles & Dating - 16 March 2007

Hi, I am that tall slim type of girl who gets the guys, when we are not even looking! But I have friends who are heavyset and they are always by my side. Nice and sweet. Very honest but easily hurt. I can fix a girlfriend of mine up with a total hunk and the next thing I know he is dating her to get to ME! what the hell? I am not wanting a relationship with no one at this time. (better things going on for myself than trouble) But anyways, WHY DO YOU MEN DO THAT? WHY DO YOU GUYS LOOK ON THE OUTSIDE INSTEAD OF THE INSIDE? DO YOU NOT KNOW THAT YOU WILL GET HURT MESSING WITH US? than you would being with a girl thats heavyset? WE DONT WANT YOU, WE JUST LIKE THE ATTENTION! god, i mean come on.... athletic guys and chubby guys drool over skinny women. where does that leave girls like my friends?
yes, you guessed it, crying, hurt and depressed. 'C mon, guys, give the big girls some credit, at least they have heart!
athletic guys, hello! take a big girl by the hand and help her, luv her.

2007-03-16 20:00:13 · 15 answers · asked by tekken185 1

What should I do??
I didn't pass my classes last term. I lost my weight, my appetite and I tend recently to be alone and listen to songs and remember every single word he said it to me. Even though it was simple conversation.


What the hell is wrong with me !!

Is it ok to tell him direct at his face:
" I like U" ??

2007-03-16 19:57:50 · 10 answers · asked by Sara 1

2007-03-16 19:57:41 · 19 answers · asked by sandy beaches 2

shes amazing and iv loved her for a long time, for a while we had an unprofessional FRIENDLY relationship...and i accidentally jokingly said "I love you!" over AIM/ email and she didnt respond at all.....then about a week later she said that we needed to keep a clear teacher/student relationship etc..... we hav lost contact outside of class but i still really care about her and miss her....what do I do? its not just a crush, trust me... shes 23, and beautiful, and PERFECT...to me, she isnt dating anyone and she has shared a lot of personal things with me

2007-03-16 19:56:47 · 17 answers · asked by just a girl 1

2007-03-16 19:55:32 · 9 answers · asked by tjs315 2

My partner went out 2nite & initially we worked out that he'd take the cash i had in my wallet - we later changed our minds - he'd take my card instead and leave the cash so i could get takeout for dinner.

He promised that he'd keep his phone on & it should have just enough battery for the night. (i'm 38wks) hes been gone bout two hours & I drove into town to get take out through the drive through. On the way i opened my wallet to find there was neither the cash or credit card - intentionally or not, he has both.

When I was in the drive through queue I realised and told the drivethru clerk the mistake & that i'd just drive straight thru when i cud. About five minutes later they came out and clamped my car and accused me of trying to get free food. A crowd gathered and I was *extremly* embarrased and in tears while it got worked out

I called him afterwards to try to get the money back - but his phone is off. I feel so angry that he wasn't there when i needed him. Am I overreacting?

2007-03-16 19:55:13 · 5 answers · asked by priestessofthepixels 4

I've been dating this girl for a while now. I've taken her out to eat dinner and what not, at first we were both shy birds but after a while we got to know each other a little more and we started to date more often. Its been about 3 months or so into dating and a while ago I asked her out and she said she'll think about it. Then the day after I asked her again and she said the same thing. Okay, So I cooled it off for a while and then after a month I asked her if she wanted to get together and she said "well... we are dating, were friends... lets just take it slow" that really boiled my blood, and the good thing was that I was driving her home and we were just like 2 minutes away. I never gave up though. A week cameby and I asked her out for a date and she said okay. Well, date day came by and she gave me the most stupidest excuse that she couldnt go... Okay, guys and gals, do you think im just wasting her time? because I certainly had fun on those dates and I also know she did too.

2007-03-16 19:55:00 · 3 answers · asked by Crash 2

what do you see physically in a person and what do you think is hot? height, weight, looks, piercings, hair color, etc.

2007-03-16 19:51:44 · 24 answers · asked by confused 2

I've just known her for less than a month and I'm looking for something subtle to tell her that I like her. I find love poems too strong for my purpose at the moment.

2007-03-16 19:51:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

looks?

2007-03-16 19:49:13 · 10 answers · asked by Carebear22 4

i feel like us women fall for the same mistakes over and over een when it comes to picking out a man? why why

2007-03-16 19:49:08 · 10 answers · asked by mickie1108 3

I am a college freshman dude, and I have a crush on this girl in my English class. I have had a crush on her since the first week of this semester. She doesn't seem that into me. I always strike up a conversation, and she never does. She doesn't really make an eyecontact. I met her at a techno party today. I wanted to dance with her, but she danced with this one guy the whole time. I am a very jealous person, and I admit I felt like beating the **** out of that guy. I feel so sh*tty right now. I never felt attracted to a girl this strong, and it's hard to get her out of my head. I've tried, but it's just not working. She and I seem to have different values. I am trying to be liberal and relaxed, but I've been raised by conservative parents. The girl seems like a hippy girl. She hangs out with hippy guys. I don't know why, but I am always attracted to girls who are very different. Even if I do get to date her, I will probably have problems because of the differences.

2007-03-16 19:46:58 · 1 answers · asked by What Wtasdcvg 1

nice, sweet mature loveable, but a freak and has a really good personitly I used to call him honey bear but he said he dont like like but this boy is mosstly a freak so give me a good name

2007-03-16 19:44:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I personally don't think age really matters, but I'd like to know what you think!

2007-03-16 19:43:50 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

We've been dating for almost two years, and still have a great time when we're together. Yet, I'm 19 and she just turned 18, I went to college for a semester, it tore her apart that i was gone, but I decided that college wasn't right for me so I left and am home working. Now i work near 40 hours a week mainly at night. We don't see eachother as often because she is still in high school and its driving her mad that we can't talk or see eachother as much as we used to because at college i could at least talk. She wants me to ask for less hours which is out of the question because i love my job. We're going to different colleges in the fall. I'm incredibly confused and need all the advice i can get.

2007-03-16 19:43:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-16 19:43:11 · 8 answers · asked by Ace 3

I'll never understand it. You say one thing,but then mean something totally different, explain please.

2007-03-16 19:41:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I dance on boys alot when im with my boyfriend all i do is shake my butt on him and bend over on his u no what . and on the phone i talk super nasty! to my boyfriend, and i love to have my *** on penis!

2007-03-16 19:39:28 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok so Me and my ex broke up a few weeks back, There was a lot of love there. So We talked a lot and hugn out afterwards, occasionally "hooked up". She said I didnt make ehr feel "needed". Not sure if this is the truth actually but.... It does kind of hurt to see her and not be with her. We are both very proud and that could hamper things. So does anyone have any input ? Back off and let her see what she misses or try to call her and make an attempt? I am a strong believer that people want what they cant have . Maybe I should try to appear unavailable ? Thanks a Million Everybody.

2007-03-16 19:38:36 · 5 answers · asked by johnny731@verizon.net 2

how do u tell an insult from a tease?

2007-03-16 19:36:06 · 9 answers · asked by joey 3

The first letter is what he wrote at first. He don't know if it would work and I told him it make him look weak. The second letter came from someone who shortened it for him, and I like it and I think it would work but problem is he ain't wrote it. Which should he use? Here they is:

2007-03-16 19:35:55 · 6 answers · asked by Curios 2

how do I ge trid of her

2007-03-16 19:35:45 · 13 answers · asked by sharkmann25 2

2007-03-16 19:29:59 · 13 answers · asked by Clint 1

after dealing with tons of drama from my last relationship i was finally moving on and started seeing this guy. i really thought things were going great. about five days ago he took me out to a really nice dinner and a movie and we had a really great night. well the next day i got a call asking if i knew where he was because he never showed up for work. now im really confused on y he left and what to do. i really dont know how to deal. im so hurt and worried and angry. and i wish he would just calll or something...contact me somehow. but i just dont know....how do i move on? cuz i think that he is not gonna come back.....how do i deal?

2007-03-16 19:29:45 · 18 answers · asked by JUSTME 2

she is in the hospital for being overweight but i really love her with all of my heart.... i miss her next to me. but i cannot stand her weight.... its gotten to where I have to wash her in the bath.

2007-03-16 19:27:46 · 21 answers · asked by Clint 1

open their minds and their mouths and talk to and ask questions of the nice guy and they should start spreading the word to all the women they know one by one. We nice guys have an edge, a bad side, spontenaity, skills, can be a jerk sometimes too, like motorcycles and hot cars...some drink and have a great sense of humor, and all that the same things most bad boy jerks do. Sorry to say this and I actually apologize before the fact to those who may get very offended, but.. many women just dont seem smart enough to figure this all out untill you have been used and abused for many years and have 3 kids and then want to meet and be with the nice guy and bring all the baggage to us...Spread the word all you young, single, smart, attractive ladies out there. Give the "nice guy" a chance for once..He may surprise you!
and now you all know why there are so many strip clubs, call girls and prostitutes in this world...
thanx

2007-03-16 19:26:06 · 22 answers · asked by Gary G 4

if two girls or guys for that matter depending on which you prefer had the same exact personality and all traits you value, except one freak dances, who would you date? and why

2007-03-16 19:25:41 · 10 answers · asked by confused 2

To make a long story short, my bf has been considering a military career for a long time. I didn't voice my objections b/c I thought maybe he'd change his mind. When he mentioned his idea tonight, I told him he'd have to do it without me and I couldn't promise I'd wait for him. I explained that I worried about the separation and him dying. He told me that he was considering a job in the Air Force where there'd be less risk. I finally said I'd reconsider. He told me he didn't want me to say no without knowing what I was saying no to, b/c I really don't know much about the military. As we were hanging up, I said, "I don't want to give up on us." He was silent, so I added, "If you don't agree, be honest with me." He replied, "I really wasn't even thinking of that." I really do want to marry him if at all possible, which is partly why I worried so much about the risks of military life. Should I worry that he's going to leave me? I really don't want to lose him.

2007-03-16 19:25:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a thing for an older man at my work who is nearly twice my age and even though he has been divorced for a couple of years now, he doesn't really seem overly interested in me. I have shown him I was interested and he has been friendly, but I wouldn't say he has taken it beyond the bounds of friendship.

Is it a problem with my age perhaps? I was always under the impression that older men liked dating young women, am I wrong? Does he perhaps view me as being too immature for him or think that we would have nothing in common? I am asking just so I can get an idea if there are any relationships out there have worked with this kind of situation.

2007-03-16 19:24:41 · 9 answers · asked by zeonchar 2

im grduating thiscoming march30..

2007-03-16 19:22:29 · 2 answers · asked by abby 1