open their minds and their mouths and talk to and ask questions of the nice guy and they should start spreading the word to all the women they know one by one. We nice guys have an edge, a bad side, spontenaity, skills, can be a jerk sometimes too, like motorcycles and hot cars...some drink and have a great sense of humor, and all that the same things most bad boy jerks do. Sorry to say this and I actually apologize before the fact to those who may get very offended, but.. many women just dont seem smart enough to figure this all out untill you have been used and abused for many years and have 3 kids and then want to meet and be with the nice guy and bring all the baggage to us...Spread the word all you young, single, smart, attractive ladies out there. Give the "nice guy" a chance for once..He may surprise you!
and now you all know why there are so many strip clubs, call girls and prostitutes in this world...
thanx
2007-03-16 19:26:06 · 22 answers · asked by Gary G 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YEA, YEAH YEAH THATS GREAT YOUR A NICE GUY. THERES A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN BEING A NICE GUY AND SOUNDING LIKE A P@$$Y WHICH IS WHAT YOU SOUND LIKE..........
2007-03-24 17:58:17 · answer #1 · answered by fuchetrookbies 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
nice guys are great, but they do tend to be on the socially inept side of the spectrum. You say that you have "an edge, a bad side...etc" Well, why not show it off a little more? Ladies like men who are charismatic---those who are likable but have a sort of forcefulness, a confidence surrounding them. I mean, I like nice guys, but the thing that I find myself doing is feeling a little sorry for them because the ones I know have a somewhat quirky air about them. I mean, I don't want to like a guy just because I pity them and I don't think you would want that either. And I'm sure there are nice guys out there who don't act like this, but remember, women (not all, but many) tend to be shallow sometimes, and if it's not the personality, then it's the looks (hey, I'm just stating the obvious).
To nice guys out there: why don't you start being proactive and do something about your love life instead of expecting the women to do all the work? We have enough drama in our lives as it is, so why don't you be the ones to step it up and show us what you've obviously got to show? Because many times women are too caught up in their own little world to notice every single pebble on the ground. Sometimes we need something/someone to slap us back to reality. It's just getting the confidence and social skills to do it.
2007-03-17 03:06:19 · answer #2 · answered by pharmdcougargal12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HUNNY, I'm spreading the word, if ur in CT...shot me an email I got some great girls who are smart, pretty and have great jobs and there own homes and all under 30 with no kiddos and college degrees. There are some "winners" out there do, i think girls get comfortable and just take whatever the current boy throws at them, b/c they are scared and don't want to risk being alone, or going back into the dreaded "rat race" . There are so few nice guys out there and you will meet Your LADY soon enough! Don't date or deal with the "baggaged" ladies...move on...try new places to meet the HOTTIES and try online, match.com, eharmony.com ...ya know...the world may never know! :) good luck!
YOUR GETTING a MUAH from a LADY over here!! :) YOU are just telling it like it is...BOTTOMLINE! :)
2007-03-17 02:34:38 · answer #3 · answered by a a a a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have often wondered what constitutes a "nice guy". apoligizing before you say something that even you deem as possibly offensive, but saying it any way makes you a nice guy? what do the strip clubs, call girls and prostitutes have to do with anything your talking about? sounds to me like you havent had many girlfriends in your life, so you blame the women that have passed you by, and now you are bitter about it. but thats just my opinion. i often wonder why the hot women in this world end up dating jerks also. guess they see something that you or i dont. you are right, eventually that they want the "nice guy" in their life. eventually the right girl will come along and talk to you, you just have to be patient.
2007-03-17 02:38:22 · answer #4 · answered by mcfly_lives 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really do think that it so stupid for girls to pass up the nice guy. I love nice guys and I like to be treated well. Girls who want bad boys who will treat them like crap are just blind of the fact that there are some really nice guys out there.
-Carmen
2007-03-25 00:48:51 · answer #5 · answered by punk_rock_chick_92 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes a girl is scared because maybe they went through something where it included a nice guy. Sometimes their is a really nice guy out there but sometimes their are only fakes.
2007-03-17 02:34:05 · answer #6 · answered by Lebanah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes nice guys really piss women off. They believe they have to go about being "Mr. Perfection" when all you want is for them to be real. Like this friend I have who insists that he needs a degree, car,house and cash in the bank before he gets a girlfriend. Who's gonna wait around for that. Stop being a sucker, whining and complaining and be a go-getter. Go get what you want... It won't come to you.
2007-03-25 02:00:19 · answer #7 · answered by gedaclue 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it'd be easier to find the "nice" guy if there weren't so many of you jerks!!! i just had a male "friend" tell me the other day that women deserve to be treated like sh_t!!! if you are such a nice guy you wouldn't be trashing those of us grls who have been hurt and abused so many times!!! a little tip: maybe you're not such a nice guy after all and that's why you haven't been given a chance!!
2007-03-24 18:27:21 · answer #8 · answered by yahoo!Answers addict 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's not true that nice guys finish last-they just dont seem to have the self confidence to speak up and put themselves 'out there'. Fear of rejection has held them back.
2007-03-17 02:30:38 · answer #9 · answered by MAK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im only 18 & i have figured that out a while ago.. i only go for the nice guys because i know they have theyre fair share of bad to them as well.. unfortunatly only bad guys seem to like me back.. i have never honestly & truly attracted a nice gy(the type i usually go for).. i dont know why, because im as nice as pie & as sweet as anything.. i know im pretty, everyone tells me all the time, & well lets just say im in compitions for my beauty.. it sounds condeded & such, but like i think im pretty, but i dont have a big head about it. its liek bad guys want a good girl(sweet & innocent & cute) because its arm candy & they can try & get them to be bad.. & im totally going off topic & ranting & raving but this question made me feel good about hearing there are good buys out there looking fr a good girl.. i have my fair share of time ahead of me i suppose to find the right one for me. i just wish for once, a good guy would like me back.. kinda stinks. but i wish you the best of luck! <3 in due time im sure the right one will come around for you!
2007-03-17 02:33:55 · answer #10 · answered by Lor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Convince women that the biggest mistake they'll ever make is turning you down...yahoo answers is a start... but get out there and do it, they're too stupid to realize it themselves, so give them a hand
2007-03-17 02:31:52 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋