shes amazing and iv loved her for a long time, for a while we had an unprofessional FRIENDLY relationship...and i accidentally jokingly said "I love you!" over AIM/ email and she didnt respond at all.....then about a week later she said that we needed to keep a clear teacher/student relationship etc..... we hav lost contact outside of class but i still really care about her and miss her....what do I do? its not just a crush, trust me... shes 23, and beautiful, and PERFECT...to me, she isnt dating anyone and she has shared a lot of personal things with me
2007-03-16 19:56:47 · 17 answers · asked by just a girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's obviously not interested. Move on
2007-03-16 19:59:56 · answer #1 · answered by Ya-sai 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HEY, me too! I once had a crush on a teacher too! And she was 23 also! The difference is that I never really talked to her. But yeah, I just thought she was beautiful and perfect for me! As time went on though, my infatuation for her started fading. Now I realize that given enough time, I can get over any crush. If I were you, I'd come back to her after graduation. By then, you should be 18 and her ex-student. Once you're not her student anymore, then she wouldn't have to worry about losing her job. Right?
2007-03-16 20:04:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to tell you this, but this could be serious for her career. She is thinking long-term and you are not. She really could lose her job over this, haven't you heard of student/teacher relationships in the news? It's always a huge scandal. If she has already voiced her opinion about you, there is nothing you can do. Just be a friend and respect her wishes. You probably feel this way because you see her as a strong independent woman and probably need something in your life fulfilled that you think she can do.
2007-03-16 20:04:49 · answer #3 · answered by zeonchar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I am a teacher and trust me any relationship with a student outside the classroom is a big NO. As teachers we are supposed to set examples and be role models for students, being in a relationship with a student is plain corruption of the student.
Please I beg you to move on and don't try to get anything with her. If you really care about her, then leave her alone. She could end in prison. Is that what you want?, for her to lose her career, her freedom and possibly her life because you have a crush on her?
2007-03-17 03:19:24 · answer #4 · answered by wisv2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Are you a minor? Are you in College? Without these details it's hard to answer but generally speaking you could cause her to lose her teaching license at the very least if those boundary lines get blurred. This is why she's backing off. I suggest you do too-at least until you stop being her student.
2007-03-16 20:00:26 · answer #5 · answered by MAK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BACK OFF!!! You're jeopardizing her job and career! Get over your crush before you get her into serious hot water. She has made it known to you loud and clear that she will not entertain a relationship with a student; don't make her regret ever speaking to you in the first place.....
2007-03-16 20:06:37 · answer #6 · answered by STEVE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep it as she said teacher/student relationship and when you graduate and you are of age then you can get to know her as a woman and not as just your mentor. when i say of age is because i don't know who old you are like if you were in college you know that you can't have a relationship with your professor until you graduate if someone find out she would lose her job. Wait until you leave the school or graduate. ~Mo
2007-03-16 20:06:26 · answer #7 · answered by mo1979ca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you doing AIMing her in the first place? If she gave you the address she DEFINATELY sending out inapropriate signals but that does not mean you need to continue. I would be upfront and say you think you took it to an inapropriate level and would like to maintain a healthy friendship.
2007-03-16 20:15:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We first need to know your age.. And she does not seem to be interested in you, or willing to put her career on the line for a relationship with you. You would have to graduate from that school, then make a move. best of luck.
2007-03-16 20:14:15 · answer #9 · answered by mcb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are You capable of maintaining her
Taking her to good eat outs etc
Better keep off from her
2007-03-16 20:01:43 · answer #10 · answered by sudha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋