I have a REALLY fat girlfriend ... hod do I make her skinny?

Question

she is in the hospital for being overweight but i really love her with all of my heart.... i miss her next to me. but i cannot stand her weight.... its gotten to where I have to wash her in the bath.

Answer 1

Do you knead her ?

Answer 2

Obesity this day and age is due largely to a glandular imbalance in the individuals chemical make up ,,,, there are some people born with this problem and they are over weight their whole lives ,,,, Others might develop this problem in their teens and then others later in life ,,,, There's nothing you can do about this except continue being her friend ,,,, You didn't mention your age but it's a sad state of affairs regardless of the persons age ,,,, Chronic obesity is the root of allot of emotional insecurities of one kind or another also ,,,, I think the best thing you could do is continue with what you are doing ,,,, She might not say so but she depends on you emotionally more than either of you realize ,,,, People shouldn't judge a book by it's cover and they shouldn't judge a person by the out side exterior ,,,, There's a slim to skinny person trying to get out of that body ,,,, I know people who are over weight but it's not due to their over eating ,,,, They eat no more than they ever did but what they eat now turns to fat ,,,, They are known to have a chemical imbalance in their system ,,,, The doctors are treating that ,,,, Once they get that figured out the weight will eventually reduce to the persons normal body weight ,,,, From the way you've described it ,,,, Your friend is facing the same thing ,,,, I hope things turn out ok ,,,,, You've posted an interesting situation ,,,, You got a star from me for it ,,,,

Answer 3

That is so insensitive of you. You can't just make her skinny over night. If if has gotten so bad as to you can't stand seeing her the way she is then maybe you should breakup with her. You obviously have some insecurity issues going on. But if you want to help her in a more positive way, try sitting down with her and talking about it. Then try together to make out a workout plan and diet for the both of you to do together. You would be surprised at how things would go for her with your support, if you truly love her. Even if you two decide to just walk a mile every night before settling down for the evening. As long as you are doing it together, things should prevail. And girls hate to be called "REALLY FAT", try changing your words up on that. Don't be surprised if she cries or gets angry if you call her "REALLY FAT". Try saying something like being very unhealthy and you want to help her by the two of you getting healthy together. Also try to point out some of your unhealthy habits, don't try to put all the blame on her, showing your down falls will kinda even the playing field. Good luck.

Answer 4

hmm, must be pretty bad, exercise is probably out, she could hurt her ankles, i think that a diet would be best, let her slim out to the point that she can really start losing weight and exercising, the whole thing is about patience, eventually she can lose weight by taking in low calorie foods, and other foods that are beneficial, like celery for fiber. In later years, while i wouldn't do nothing until then, a wave of drugs that limit food, bolster metabolism, and transform fat cells into muscle will come, just hang in there and guide her into shape

Answer 5

OK ill tell you a story thats true. THERE was this dentist in the bay area in calif. I went to school out there a few years back. WEll he had a nervous break down and his wife was 325 pounds she was only 5-5. HE moved to the mountains ands semi retired. Every nite instead of dessert after dinner they took a walk. IT started short distance, then built to 2- 3 miles a nite. She was 135 pounds the next time is saw her.I WAS shocked out of my mind. SHE was beautiful.IT was because the DR loved her and decided to eat right and walk every nite. I pray this story helped you because it has stuck in my head 4 months. good luck just believe in her.

Answer 6

Wow. Try slowly and cleverly devising a healthier, leaner meal plan. If that doesn't work, try purchasing Kevin Trudeau's: Natural Weightloss Cures. He's undergone the weight loss protocol and he's been able to lose alot of weight, stay at a normal weight and eat all of the foods he loves. Try introducing her to that.

Answer 7

If she is in the hospital she is getting some help? Get a dietitian and a counselor involved. Abnormal weight is an expression of feelings. You don't HAVE to do anything - except be honest and you can't MAKE her do anything unless she wants it enough to work for it.

Answer 8

I have bought 3 stationary bikes for friends and neighbours who needed to lose weight
I worked as manager and before that instructor and a member of that spa for 32 years and i KNOW that riding bikes is the best and fastest way to lose weight
set it in front of her TV and tell her to ride and ride
and she MUST eat whole natural foods, not junk, no white flour products and of course no sweets
and get her a positive thinking type book to read
I wish you both the very best

Answer 9

well if you serious (which it doesn't seem you are) then since you have to bathe her she must be unable to do certain things, right? one of those things is probably cooking, right? get your weight goal for her, her height, current weight, amount of excerise daily, and find a website that calculates about how many calories she needs to achieve that goal. Then buy like a weight watches recipe book and try cooking her some healthy meals. also, tell her your worried about her health.

Answer 10

i say go with her walking start small like walk to a store or walk to a place u both like. and make sure she dose not eat after 6pm make sure she eat 3 meals a day make sure she eats the most in breakfast and a lite dinner. and walk with her once a week for like 15min clock 8min one way then 8mins back and increase the time every 2 weeks and if you live in cold weather then get work out videos or join the YMCA or a health club to get out of the cold. and just keep loving her.

Answer 11

I have so much respect for you over this issue. i wish everybody would be like you. But anyways. try to tell her that you love her and that you are conserned about her health. Because overweight cause a lot of health problems, espesially with heart. So tell her that no matter what she lookes like, you will love her no matter what, your main consern is her health, which i bet it is. It also reflects you relationship, because i bet, she might be deppressed or locked in herself over this issue. tell her you will be with her, throught all her strugles, but that she have to take her weight problems in control for the sake of your(you and her) future. God Bless You and good luck to her.