Singles & Dating - 18 March 2007

this is what she said
James, I've been thinking... would u ever consider dating other people? We wouldn't break up, we'd just have sort of an open relationship. Because, as hard as this is, it's going to be a long time before we ever see eachother again. You don't have to do this. I just want u to be happy and i want u to date whoever u want. I know there must be at least one girl you've had your eye on. Please don't feel bad. I won't be jealous at all, i promise.
But like i said, if you're too uncomfortable to date other people, you don't have to. I don't want to break up with u. I want u to live a happy life without worries about what i'll think. If we see eachother in the future at all, then i know we'll be happy. Right now, i want u to do whatever u want. I just think it's time to face the truth. It's probably going to be at least 3 years before i even have a CHANCE of seeing you again. Have u been thinking about this too?
Please please please james, PLEASE be happy and i'm telling u, i won't be jealous or mad if u want to date other people. How can we go three years without ONE DATE? I want u to date other people. Who says we can't and then find eachother later?

baby, i still love u so much and u mean everything to me. You're my best friend and the person i'm closest to. I mean it. Please do this for me.

i love u so much omg SO MUCH.

2007-03-18 23:59:34 · 5 answers · asked by JC MI 38 1

I work with this girl.

I really like her.

I want to show her I like her.

2007-03-18 23:59:18 · 4 answers · asked by S. 1

The guy I liked just found out I like him, but I dont like him anymore, and practically the whole year knows and no one will listen to me!! HELP!

2007-03-18 23:57:44 · 8 answers · asked by hello 2

I was with him for 8yrs we where engaged we hadn`t seen each other for 4yrs then out of the blue he phones me at work to say hi and that him and his wife are moving back to Blighty.
He really hurt me in the past but for some reason we have an incredibly strong bond and i can`t forget about him.

2007-03-18 23:56:08 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Arhh....
It is my husbands birthday next week and for his gift i am going to give him sex he will never forget!
But what would be a great idea?
Im thinking about dressing up as a french maid with a g-string on and a sxc bra with high heels and when he walks in ill serve him dinner and ill act as a maid and i will be like " oh you cant start without a napkin on your lap!" and ill place it down with abit of a feel ( if you know what i mean ) ;).
What would your most sexiest thing you would want your Wife/Husband to do to YOU!
please i need help we already have sex 4 times a week but i want this to be friggen SXC!!! lol,
ta ta xx

2007-03-18 23:54:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

right ok, my friend realy likes this younger boy, *she 25 he is 18* and she told me she feels she has fallen in love with him,

they have spent (from what she has told me) some realy nice dates, texts, emils ect and she wants to know how he feels about her, but the problem is that there is another girl he likes, he has been honest with my friend and told her about the other girl, *the other girl lives 100 miles away*


he said he might be falling for her too

i just dont know what advice to give her, she realy hs fallen for this time, and im just dont wnt her to get hurt, the boy says he likes her a lot, but...

i just dont know what to do to help

any advice would be cool

2007-03-18 23:54:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

LAST WEEK I WENT TO THIS PARTY. I SEEN THIS GIRL AND WE TALK AND AFTER A WHILE WE WENT TO A ROOM AND HIT IT OFF.. BUT FOR SOME ODD REASON I FELT BAD AFTER. WHAT DOES THAT MEAN???????

2007-03-18 23:49:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. we live together. He has suffered from depression for years even before I met him, and since the beginning of our relationship it has caused him to not be able to hold down a job and function. He's anti social, and it worries me. I love him very much, but i really wonder if he is good for me, I'm trying to go back to school and I have been working and paying the bills. When we talk about things he is quick to bring up my faults, when I don't even think they are on the same scale. we all have our faults. He complains that I don't show him love and cuddle or anything, and honestly, I'm not attracted to him when he is this way, I want a man, not a blubbering baby. But when we met, his tender side is what attracted me to him. am I just a dumb ***** that doesn't know what I want? or is this really a problem of his and he needs to fix it? I'm at a loss, I just know that it makes me depressed and miserable.

2007-03-18 23:44:20 · 10 answers · asked by KAJ81 2

Is it money, looks, personality, his hobbies or his amount of social activities?

2007-03-18 23:43:12 · 12 answers · asked by ghidrahbebop 1

My best friend is in high school and she has a bf in college.they have been dating,off and on,for 3.5 years now. and she claims they used to have a really good realtionship.now he emotionally abuses her and it kills me.and hes not afraid to grab her.he tells her who she can hang out with and stuff.she claims shes in love with him but I dont think she is.shes been having really bad dreams lately and i think they relate to him.He tells us that she only needs him and im afraid hes going to take her somewhere.She doesnt tell her other friends about him either.just me and when i talked to her today she showed me that she is engaged.she said she would think about it and he got mad and broke it.shes probubly going to end up saying yes.please i dont know how to help her.i love her to death.i dont know if i should just be there for her.or stop her.im really afraid hes going to do something. please help.

2007-03-18 23:41:36 · 4 answers · asked by ryanssdfisufd 1

What happens if the reason that he fell out of love with you because you weren't yourself or the person he did fall in love with in the first place. I wasn't myself for the last year (we were living together this year) of a 3 year relationship because of me being scared of losing him. I did extreme measures to make him happy, like being available to him all the time, letting him do what he wants avoiding any serious conflict (basicly losing my independence and identity). The reason why i did this was because he had committment issues in the past with me which made me think that if did everything to make him happy i won't lose him, but then he dumps me teliing me that he wasn't happy in the last couple of months and doesn't feel the same way by doesn't know why. I still love him and I regret in what I have done (in my case in losing myself first and then second, losing him)

2007-03-18 23:41:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My bf moved back to Turkey in October last year to work as an engineer. In January I moved to Bodrum,Turkey+took a great job in real estate.This is where the problems started.

My boyfriend lives in another city.He insisted that he meet me at the airport even though I explained to him that the company had arranged everything...I just wanted to feel settled. He keeps visiting at short notice and I feel bad saying no all the time. To cut it short- I've been here 10 weeks and he's visited 5 times.

The first 2 weeks he called me every day without fail, just complaining about his job, which really wore me out. He left the company and is looking for a job.He wants to apply to my company, but I said 'no'. We had an argument the other day and he called me selfish.

He called my company this morning cos he couldn't reach me on my mobile all yesterday. I thought it was a bit weird.

We used to be so happy but I'm really starting to get cold feet about this whole relationship.

2007-03-18 23:38:11 · 16 answers · asked by heyjude 2

Actually I will give you TWO since you opened this up to read it.
A. Being honest with us women will go a million times further then lieing ever would. And yes guys, even in that area.
B. A man who is sensative to our emotional needs (not just chocolate needs) is very likely to get, shall we say, treated VERY nicely.
Are there any questions?

2007-03-18 23:37:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay I am starting to see a guy that is 6'6'' and really thin. I'm expecting him to have an enormous "johnson" although I haven't seen it or felt it, he is just so tall. I've never had anything in me larger than 7 and not much girth. Too be honest i'm afraid of the pain that it may cause. Is there anything i can do to ease the pain?

2007-03-18 23:35:34 · 7 answers · asked by ap 1

My female friend has been in a long distance relationship with a guy for a bit over a year....He can only come to see her rarely but they seem in love. Her complaint is that he has never given her any sort of gift. She insists its not the material aspect she is after .
He came recently after her not having seem him for quite a long stretch and she had some gifts prepared for him. She was quite wounded he came and left without giving her anything. He is well off by the way...
My first reaction was to tell her that he is the one coming to see her so he does incur travelling expenses, hotel and such...but she keeps insisting this has nothing to do with how expensive the gift is, just the thought....I really don't know what to tell her? What do you think?

2007-03-18 23:31:59 · 13 answers · asked by Wicked_One 2

Ambitions or something else entirely different ?

2007-03-18 23:27:20 · 11 answers · asked by DAVE 6

Or is there always going to be hidden sexual feelings on one or both parts? call me skeptical

2007-03-18 23:27:12 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've known this guy friend for almost 3 years now and he hinted at he likes me every now and then, I was out of a long term relationship 1 year and a half ago and we started talking more at that time.

Last month he hinted at it again and I told him straight that I liked him then he backed off saying he likes me back but he's not ready for a relationship and sorry for that(he's out of a relationship 6 months ago), then I said ok we'd stay friends

now I still talk to him sometimes but he becomes very weird, sounds jealous and scornful all the time, the point is if you don't want to talk why the hell you im me? every time it's he says hi to me on messenger first, and asks me where I went what did I do, like he asked where did I go clubbing in the weekend I told him no I didn't go clubbing he'd say 'c'mon stop lying to me' and a lot 'a ha'..you know.. what does he want?!

If he's going to be like that should I just not talking to him awhile?

2007-03-18 23:24:34 · 16 answers · asked by jeannieC 1

I don't

2007-03-18 23:21:34 · 12 answers · asked by lilsaumei002 1

it all startd one fine day. i was just chatting over internet and i found this lovely girl.accidently we joined in the same college.

we used to talk, we used to hang out at the college cafateria, we used to text each other till late nigts n all of a sudden we broke up. i dont know why but we haven't talked to her since a long time{about 2 months} .i have got feelings for her. i feel for her. i wish i say her that i love her. but when i tried to contact her she never replies. whenever i try to talk to her at the college she avoids me.
i have never been rude towards her. i haven't even told any one about our relation. then why is she avoiding me?
i am really confused.
plz do help me out

2007-03-18 23:20:40 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I dislike the basic format of a dating site, still i am human at heart and want to love and be loved in return. Do I have someone as lonely as me( have been alone for 7 years) and we know each other and see what lies ahead in future? I am looking for someone in Miami, sunny isles or aventura or nearby.

2007-03-18 23:19:08 · 2 answers · asked by Brave Heart 3

Ok i went out for coffee with this girl last saturday and we had a had a pretty good time, we hav kept in contact over the last few days and shes asked me to plan our next outing on friday night, Can somebody please help me with some ideas? much appreciated ;)

2007-03-18 23:16:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

what are the girls opinions on dating a guy 4-5 years younger than you?

2007-03-18 23:15:51 · 12 answers · asked by Alicia E 3

2007-03-18 23:15:19 · 9 answers · asked by dolphin 1

How can i be romantic and creative in a relationship. I've been with my gf for couple years now. I've bought flowers, send card, leave notes, surprise here and there. but it becomes repetitive. what else can i do? please help. thank u very much

2007-03-18 23:11:55 · 12 answers · asked by Chuck T 2

2007-03-18 23:11:54 · 7 answers · asked by wraithwindlover 1

I met this guy that I really, really like and I know that he likes me as well. We get along and have a lot of fun together. I really would like to move things forward because I feel that he has real potential and we would be good as a couple, but I am not sure whether I should make any attempts to move things along. I would like to know if there are any telltale signs that he is as ready as I am to take things to the next level.

2007-03-18 23:10:55 · 3 answers · asked by Jazzy 1

A really funny guy (e.g Mike Myers - Austin Powers) or a good looking guy (e.g Brad Pitt) personally i think i'd prefer to spend a night laughing and having fun... what do you think ?

2007-03-18 23:10:49 · 26 answers · asked by Curls 2

This is a weird question...that's why I'm coming to yahoo answers for advice lol

My boyfriend of 4 years sent me a text message around 4 in the morning telling me he had a confession to make and went on to tell me that the other day when his best friend (male) was there he performed oral sex on him. I assumed he was just trying to see what my reaction was so I asked him if he was serious a few times and he assured me he was serious and wasn't lying. I ended up calling him and he said he was just playin trying to "turn me on" We got off the phone and he sent me a few texts telling me he was just messin around, then I told him I had forwarded all of those messages to his friend and he called immediately then sent me a msg asking why I'm so mean. (I didn't really send them to him)

Anyway, I don't know if I should be concerned, mad or what. I'm assuming it probably didn't happen but it kinda worries me that he would even say it. Any advice?

2007-03-18 23:03:23 · 10 answers · asked by LLTTF 1

you wanted to slobber and drool over it?

2007-03-18 23:02:58 · 23 answers · asked by Stu 1