Singles & Dating - 18 March 2007

I am a single young woman and the guys that I meet all seem creepy. They all say or do creepy things when I first meet them and then I am not so thrilled to hang out with them again. Am I sending out weird vibes or something? Why do I always get these guys coming up to me and no normal ones? Please help.

2007-03-18 18:58:41 · 14 answers · asked by J 4

My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months and we love eachother very much. Lately, though, I have been feeling like something is missing. I know that it is the intellectual side of the relationship that is lacking. I like to read all kinds of books, I love art, photography, films, and I can't really talk to him about any of those things. I tried to show him the movie Magnolia which I love, and he couldn't stand more than 15 minutes of it. Of course, I know his movie choices are not a reason to leave him and I knew all of this about him when we first got together. So, I guess my question is if I stay with him will it not last because we don't have that intellectual connection, or is it possible to be with someone based on emotional and physical connection. Is the intellectual connection necessary to make a relationship work? I'm talking about long term... Thanks in advance!

2007-03-18 18:58:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was at my best friend's house this past week and I came home and had a startling realization. We have been dancing around "dating" for about 9 months now, and out of the blue in January he told me the reason he couldn't pursue a relationship with me was because he realized that I was someone he could spend the rest of his life with. That whole situation really astounded and scared me. I really doubted him. He also said that this was the reason he couldn't date me right now. He isn't ready for that long of, or serious of a commitment and right now he wants to be the college boy. I understand that. We're both young. But what happens now that after this week, I realized that I am whole-heartedly sure that he is the person I will marry? That I am not doubting it any longer? What should I do while he "enjoys his college experience?" I know I am not ready for that level of commitment either. I know dating around would be good. But how can I when all I think about is him?

2007-03-18 18:58:00 · 3 answers · asked by Christie F 2

2007-03-18 18:56:38 · 8 answers · asked by J.t 1

There's this guy I REALLY like and he's all I think about once every 5 seconds!! He is really hot and nice and funny....so its hard to 4get him and i dont get to see him til spring break is over in 1 week and thats too long!! I have to see him and luckly he lives rite by the park but theres no one that lives by me that is willing to go with me to at least sneak a peek at him and it would look weird if he caught me in the act. Please help me!! I feel like I'm gonna cry and then die if I dont see him soon!!!

2007-03-18 18:56:31 · 9 answers · asked by Jessica 1

2007-03-18 18:56:13 · 5 answers · asked by oz_girl70 1

My boyfriend and I broke up a long time ago. He hates me and ignores me but why would he keep my stuff? I haven't asked for it back but he hasn't sent it. Do you think he threw it out? I don't care what he has done with it I just wonder what he has done with it.

2007-03-18 18:56:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

so me and my borfriend hadent done it for a really long itme. and today i was kinda sick. like a really small cold.but we done it today. we used the "HER pleasure" condom. wnewver we are finish with our business he goes into the bathroom to check the condom. usually he uses warm or cold wter. but this time he used hot water. he squishes the condom to see if theres any leak out spots. and at this one area he squished it and there was a TINY AASSS leak and then it popped open. so wat if this leak was in me u no? but maybe it wasnt. could it be that he used hot water and that caused it to pop? or wat. im just worried. tomorw im going to get EC pill just in case.but can anyone help me??? i really dont want to be pregnant, obviously im using protection. but any one help please? id really really apreciate it.

2007-03-18 18:55:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-18 18:55:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

if a guy is singing and he know he can't but keep going anyway then he is just a poor sprung fool



Any truth to the SPRUNG FACTOR?

Have I got this guy sprung????

2007-03-18 18:55:04 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

and we got into another fight last nite. We were both tipsy and I said some mean, hurtful things to her. I grabbed all my stuff and left. Pretty much leaving there thinking i wouldnt ever be back. Of course now i'm regreting it seeing as how we havent been getting along very well. Now, weve broken up before and I stormed out, but I've always regreted it the next day or 2. But she is the type of person that likes to be left alone after an arguemnet like that and I am opposite, I like to talk things out. Now, I know im gonna get some "o just leave her" remarks but I really love her and want to work things out. Lately she's been saying that I need to give her more space My question is: What if i gave her the space she wants? We just had a bad fight, Its obvious she needs to be away from me for a while. In that time, she'll either realize she wants me and misses me in her life or she'd be better off. I've never given her appropriate space and think if i gave her a week, she'd come around

2007-03-18 18:54:54 · 5 answers · asked by Carlos 2

ok, lol, there is this guy.... that i really like, and i was wondering how to tell if he likes me or not. im pretty sure that he knows i like him, but im not sure. Guys what are some signs that u usually give girls if you are interested or not, like how would u stand and act and talk and stuff? just like what you would do if you did like herand what you would do if u didnt like her

2007-03-18 18:54:49 · 3 answers · asked by aggiegrl 2

2007-03-18 18:54:38 · 14 answers · asked by noori_jha 1

their hearts broken.have you ever felt like you hate the person for broking your heart or hate that they chose to be with some other girl then to be with you?

2007-03-18 18:54:21 · 10 answers · asked by Carebear22 4

I'm 20 years old and I work with a 30-something year old man who constantly hits on me. I'm trying to figure out if he is playing me or if he geniuely interested in me. He claims I am the only person he likes but he shows all of the signs of a player. He is very friendly, flirty, charming and sly. He knows exactly what to say and how to say it. He always asks to visit me at my house but never invites me to his, only calls from his cell phone when he is alone and doesn't want me to call him. I can't explain everything because I don't know how to but he always compliments me and is just completely charming; but I knew guys like him, players, so I'm not falling for it yet. I also overheard another guy telling him that women don't like working with him again after he went out with them (the guy that may like me). Should I be concerned that this guy is a player?

2007-03-18 18:53:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you would kick a dolphin on its head instead of saving the stupid fish-- you are cool

2007-03-18 18:52:47 · 12 answers · asked by Cyrill sneer 2

Does the woman still expect the man to pay or pay it herself? Or split the bill?

2007-03-18 18:51:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous Blogger 1

2007-03-18 18:51:21 · 2 answers · asked by _•JhUZrInX•_ 1

Hey. How are you? From the moment we stopped talking, I missed you. I still remember what you said to me the last time we talked, the things you were mad at me about. I've worked on those things to improve myself. A special girl like you is hard to find, you're unlike any friend I've ever had. No other girl is as amazing, wonderful, smart, talented, funny, and beautiful as you. No one else has your light brown eyes that sparkle when you're happy and fade away when you're sad, or your bright smile. I miss when we used to talk and I would really like to work on things and get to know you again. I really care about you and like I said, you're special to me. I'm tired of playing silly games around you, trying to act like you're not when you really are. Without you, I just had to admit that I must be really stupid for not understanding then what you were trying to tell me, that it wasn't anything wrong with me that you didn't like, it was you just didn't share those feelings for me that I

2007-03-18 18:49:16 · 7 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5

I have been dating this girl from my university for about three months and she admits that we are in a relationship. When I try to kiss her she just bury her head into my shirt and she starts to cry. I have not told that I love her and I am her first real boyfriend. She did not even date a guy in high school because her friends told me that the guys at the school did not ask her out to a movie or hang out. So I am really stuck in the gutter with this and please help me with this situation because all the girls I dated had boyfriends. So I am new to this situation and please give me some great advice and please no teenage answers, Thank you!

2007-03-18 18:47:38 · 10 answers · asked by avenger 2

They like to borrow things without asking....and not return them?

2007-03-18 18:46:29 · 11 answers · asked by Direktor 5

i liked this asian guy named Joel and my friend that knew him for 2yrs said he liked me too. we made out when time when i was drinkin with him but it was the nxt day so we were both sober. he's 19 and i'm almost 16 and i've been out with 19 yr old before. but he thinks i'm too young and now he doesnt talk to me. so i was like wat the hells with that?? but anyway i though i try and get over him and gave this guy a school my number and he's asian too and i year older that me. he seemed really nice but i feel like such a tool after it happen and didnt know why i did it. he's gonna call me later but i dont whether i'll answer the call or not??

2007-03-18 18:45:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was talking to my crush who "used to like me, but denies having feelings for me now because of reasons" and after talking for a while he said he told me "i have to go finish chemistry and review for english but i will talk to you later"

does that mean he intends to speak with me later, or its just a way of saying goodbye?

2007-03-18 18:44:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-18 18:44:00 · 7 answers · asked by ames 3

2007-03-18 18:42:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

so this guy at work really likes me and asked me out a couple weeks ago. i said yes but we never really ended up going out because we're both pretty busy. he asked yesterday what days are good and we both agreed friday would be good.

the problem is i have dated this other guy a few times over the past semester and today he asked me to be his gf and i said yes, but we're sort of keeping it quiet for now, but i don't know what to tell the guy from my work. I hear he's kind of sensitive and i don't know what to say and not hurt his feelings.

2007-03-18 18:42:26 · 9 answers · asked by :) 3

ok let me start out by saying this, im not a bad looking dude, but i know i dont have really great looks. i get pretty girls from time to time, but this girl i met who came onto me 100% is like obsessed with me, and she is sooooo beautiful, like she's one of those girls that every guy try's to get with, she's a 10... every one of my friends i bring her around cant believe she likes me like this, and i cant either. but the first time we hung out she basically threw herself on me, offering me sex, and all the other goodies... so my question is, do you think this girl is a slut? is it possible she really likes me alot like she says? i only knew her for a week and she's telling me she loves me, and all this crazy stuff and im getting really scared that she might be sick in the head.. anyone have an opinion on what i should do? im 24 and she's 20.

2007-03-18 18:42:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

well theres this guy at work he is constantly teasing me such as making cute but silly comments (not mean). He helps me or lends me anything i want with a bat of my eyes. He is constantly checking when i work and if we are working in close departments and then if we are he constantly checks if im busy and if im not he asks if i can help him and then when i come he only wants to talk. he hasnt asked me out but has my number and we sometimes talk on msn. all his friends tease me in a nice way as well. The only down to this is that my best friend says he likes this other girl. but i never see him hanging around with her very much. I am also going to germany soon and he will be going in june and says he will come visit me there. oh yea he also wants me to walk with him constantly and tells me how he doesnt want me to go because he is going to miss me too much. tell me what i should to to win his heart if you think he does like me.

2007-03-18 18:42:10 · 6 answers · asked by tiffers 3

my friend and i are staying at her brother's place for a week, and i've got the hots for him. lol.

he's involved, but i kinda want to steal him away. i dont like the idea of just interrupting his relationship, so should i just try to make myself as tempting as possible so he makes the first move?

what should i wear thats really sexy, but not overtly sexual? i dont want him to know i'm doing it. and i'll be sleeping there, so day and night wear will be needed.... what do i wear?

2007-03-18 18:39:02 · 30 answers · asked by SuperChick 2

What can I do to get him out of my head for the night?

I've already dedicated 3 songs to him tonight:
Madly, truely, deeply - Cacada
Bad boy - Cascada (sorta)
The way you do me - JoJo

2007-03-18 18:38:42 · 6 answers · asked by Jessica 1