Singles & Dating - 18 March 2007

I am married to a man who I met on line, we knew each other for two years, he has 5 children from the previous relationship
age between 20 and 4 , after 4 months in marriege I read his mail which he forgot to sighnout about a woman who is expecting his baby,at thattime the woman was six months pregnant.I Asked him and he denied I didnot tell him that I read his mail;.I have been reading his mail since then I know everything{i know his password} up to now he has never told me anything about that woman.To make the matter worse, i found out that he is still searching for other women on the line.To make matter worse, iam from africa living in the US.I dont know anyone, am just lonely.What can I do?

2007-03-18 17:45:28 · 4 answers · asked by mimi 1

ok so like mabye 6 months ago i sarted liking my best friend. and wed been good friends for more than 2 years. i think shes liked me a couple of times, but im not sure. then once she found out i liked her she was fine, but then we started arguing all the time and **** for like two months and then she just ended our friendship. i was devastated and didnt know what to do. so i kept trying to get her to give me another chance and stuff but she didnt want to. i really love her and i once thought she was the one. but now its been months since weve talked and i dont know what will happen. has this ever happened to anyone? should i just move on, or wait for her to come to me?

2007-03-18 17:44:58 · 12 answers · asked by thefruithatateitself 1

2007-03-18 17:43:19 · 4 answers · asked by bigjake a 1

2007-03-18 17:43:11 · 13 answers · asked by mizz_starks07 1

2007-03-18 17:42:39 · 6 answers · asked by bigjake a 1

2007-03-18 17:42:19 · 4 answers · asked by bigjake a 1

I know this is a really random question lol, but i was just wondering if anyone had any idea why this was, or if they even think its true. i have had a lot of friends fall for boys who are "bad" and i was wondering if anyone had any idea why. thanks for any help!

2007-03-18 17:42:13 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

the guy i really really like likes my friend! we found out at the same time and when i got home that day, i actually cried (thats how much i like him)!! she likes him- so they r more than likely goin 2 get 2gether. im so sad. wut should i do 2 keep from bein jealous and everything (and im tryin 2 get ova him but its soooo hard)

2007-03-18 17:39:35 · 6 answers · asked by Omgitsme 2

In a nutshell:
best friends for 3 years, just recently found out we've liked each other the whole time but didn't know. feelings are mutual BUT decided not to risk everything now and have a relationship. Said he wanted a "long lasting real serious" one when the right time comes - not now.

He's HAPPY that we're best friends again because he said he can "talk to me about everything and anything again" and not like before where he didn't know what to do, say, and was more nervous around me. He mentioned (hinted) that beautiful girls intimedate boys and says that guys always check me out b/c i have "looks". He "fishes" for answers to see if i'm interested in anyone. He says, "would u get mad if i went out w. someone in a month, 2 months?" just to get my reaction - he responded, "if i ever break up with someone, at least you'll still always be here"
when i said, "everything's gonna be normal again - guys will be at me & you'll be the friend always there" - he sounded sad

2007-03-18 17:39:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was best friends with my ex-fiance before we actually started dating but even when we were just friends i knew that i totally loved him. I finally got the courage to tell him on his graduation night. But he moved to Philly a couple of days after i told him, he didnt even respond to what i had told him. So i moved on and started dating another guy. Then one day my phone rang and i picked it up and it was him on the other line. He told me that he had moved back because he couldnt stop thinking of me and he told me how much he had always loved me since the day we met. At that point in time i was engaged to another man and told him that it was too late. But it wasnt i could not stop thinking about him and ultimately it ruined my relationship with the other guy. So i called him and we started dating. After a while we moved in together, and then he asked me to marry him. Everything was great, or so it seemed. I still do not even know what happened to end our relationship. But somewhere along the way something went wrong and I mean VERY wrong because it was a bad breakup. Somehow we managed to work through it tho and are still good friends. But Now he is with another girl. I knew it would happen sooner or later and i would have to find a way to deal with it. But it is so hard. I still love him more than anything in this world, and i guess up until now i was ok with us just being friends because there was still that chance that maybe we could rekindle the flame and try again. But now he has a new girlfriend, and he looks at her the way he used to look at me. So i know he really likes her. I am confused tho because there are times occasionally when i will catch him looking at me that way still but as soon as he sees me looking at him he runs right back to her. I dont want to be jealous of her and i am always nice to her because she is his girlfriend and i know that if i am mean to her he will get mad and i will lose his friendship as well. But the truth is that I hate her!!!! It is obvious that he still feels something for me or I would not catch him looking at me like that. But he claims to love her and it is definitely obvious that he does care for her very much or he would not look at her like that, and he is the kind of guy that will not say i love you unless he has analyzed it completely to be sure that he truly does, and he tells her he loves her all the time. he has even joked about making me his "Best Woman" whenever he gets married. He tells me that i am the best friend he could ever have and that he doesnt know what he would do if he ever lost me. He has thanked me for not letting our history come between us and ruin our friendship. And he is always telling me how great she is and even that she kinda reminds him of me sometimes. And i must admit she is really nice, the kind of person that under different circumstances i would be friends with. I cannot keep going on like this, it is killing me and every day it gets harder and harder to keep up the happy mask. So my question is what should i do? And how can i bring myself to be truly happy for the man that i love and the other woman? Will i be forced to feel this torn apart forever, always playing the loyal friend while my heart cries out in agony? How do i just hand over the love of my life to another woman without tearing my own heart out in the process? After everything that he and i have been through how am i supposed to just let all that go now? Somebody please help! I am lost and confused and slowly breaking down. I need advice desperately.

2007-03-18 17:37:00 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so i found my first love. but now hes moving. not just to a different school. but a whole new city. we didnt know how it would work so we broke up but i just cant seem to get over the fact that he moved. everything i say, do, and see brings back a memory that we shared. i ache all over. what do i do?

2007-03-18 17:36:03 · 15 answers · asked by girl.that.loves.a.boy. 1

I'am 20 years old and I have known my roomate since high school. After highschool me and him moved to Cleveland Ohio.
Do you think it's wierd that me and him are'nt together?
like a couple.
He's not gay and, I'am single and he is to.
Do you think we should be a couple?
I have been having some "Lovey" feelings towards him lately.

2007-03-18 17:35:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I still want to try to make this relationship work, but I don't know what to say to him. I found out from a friend that he was moving. And when I tried to text him, and ask him he told me to call that same friend and get the whole story. He's the one that still really likes me. And I feel the same way. I'm just a little confused, and would like some advice.

2007-03-18 17:35:39 · 9 answers · asked by rekcinnibs 2

The relationship that I share with my fiancee is in strain. We are going through financial troubles where we can barely meet the important bills (house payment and vehicle/insurance). I'm doing all that I can working two jobs but it's still not helping as I wanted and as we thought. We are still strained. Due to the finances our relationship is tearing apart. I view it as, yes while we need money to thrive, true relationships does not and should not revolve around money while he said it relationships does revolve around it. Everyone goes through their low financial points either as single or not single. With my 2 jobs we are very slowly (snail like) getting back on our feet. I'm doing all that I can yet the stress is still there. Should I take this situation from him as a major warning sign to leave because he says relationships all revolve around money? Should we stay together, I know this won't be last of our financial strains. Any advice?

2007-03-18 17:35:12 · 4 answers · asked by Amanda D 2

Are you more attracted to sweetness or a sense of humor?

2007-03-18 17:34:56 · 11 answers · asked by Swedish Meatball 87 1

who makes you feel so special in many ways you never thought possible, who makes you feel safe, you can trust them with your heart and know that they wont break it. They show you awhole new world of possibilities & idk you can just point out just lookin at them "whos a player, whos a shy guy, whos good and who isnt... and you dont have to look anymore yknw.... youve tried but it doesnt work cause theyre not HIM or HER. Yknw??? This person makes you feel beautiful and free.

How would you describe this feeling.

2007-03-18 17:33:11 · 8 answers · asked by ¸¸.•*´`*♥ Selah 21 ¸¸.•*´`*♥ 4

Okay, so here it is. I've been fingered before but there has always been other people in the room (we were under blankets, etc.) so I haven't been able to react really or do anything. How should I react? What should I be doing?

Anyone's answer is appreciated.

Also, please don't treat me like I'm 12. I'm not.

2007-03-18 17:32:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-18 17:31:09 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 1/2 years....I'm 21 and as well as he.....he tells me he loves me and yatta yatta yatta....well we were dating for a year when he broke it off because he wanted to date because he didn't get to....and than we got back togther....and now at 3years he did it again....and he's dating just this one girl who's 18 and he talks and texts her everyday like 20 times a day........he tells me that he wants me to wait for him. that he loves me but he loves me to much and that scares him, he says hes not ready for marriage.....but i have been nothing but the best to him. I've never cheated, lied etc....and always honest. I think sometimes I spoil him way to much, and I think about him before myself....I'm not sure what to do anymore....he tells me the truth, and i know he isn't lieing....i want to wait because i love him and have never felt this feeling before....i know if it was about being with him so long i wouldn't wait around. it isnt. i'm in love

2007-03-18 17:30:36 · 4 answers · asked by Auddie 1

This guy is my partner in class and he thinks I'm hot and touched me on my back, like my bra strap area very gently. but he doesn't hold a decent conversation with me and when I try to start one, he wouldn't say much. Though he smiles at me often. I'm just wondering does he like me as a person or just acting this way because I'm just another "thing" pertaining to sex?

2007-03-18 17:29:05 · 10 answers · asked by yennay 3

2007-03-18 17:28:57 · 6 answers · asked by lal89 1

2007-03-18 17:27:24 · 13 answers · asked by udhay .msc 1

With big muscle, big bones, tall, and naturally very healthy, or an average guy?

2007-03-18 17:27:20 · 9 answers · asked by Nik S 1

Ok, so I am 20 years old and have never had sex ( I am waiting for marriage) or really even kissed a guy (A quick peck on the lips doesn't count in my book)
But...I have met this incredibly hot guy, we've gone out once so far and we seemed to have really hit it off. My question is...when we do kiss, do you think it will be really obvious to him that I've never been kissed before? He's older and more experienced, what will he think? I mean, if it's not good will he just write it off as our awkward first kiss and try again or will it be clear that it was my first time ever?
As you can tell, I've really been stressing over this! Part of it is just because he's so hot that I feel almost unworthy (horrible I know) and that I will have to be a really good kisser to impress/keep him.

2007-03-18 17:26:14 · 4 answers · asked by sydneysaver 1

Ok my gf almost had sex with my brother tonight and she told me cuz she said i was being to so sweet to her and she didnt want to lie to me. SO I got mad and she told me it was a little thing and I did much worse things to her like doing her best friend. At that point I had to tell her the big diff between a friend and a family member but she still said I shouldnt be that mad about it and just be with her. I told her to move on and she told me that I didnt mean it but I told her I did then she flips out on me and says that I set it all up so I could leave her for good for a better girl. What in the world is her deal? Don't I have a right to be mad and hurt? What should I do?

2007-03-18 17:26:09 · 9 answers · asked by spayhappy 4

I'm 20 years old and I work with a 30-something year old man who constantly hits on me. I'm trying to figure out if he is playing me or if he geniuely interested in me. He claims I am the only person he likes but he shows all of the signs of a player. He is very friendly, flirty, charming and sly. He knows exactly what to say and how to say it. He always asks to visit me at my house but never invites me to his, only calls from his cell phone when he is alone and doesn't want me to call him. I can't explain everything because I don't know how to but he always compliments me and is just completely charming; but I knew guys like him, players, so I'm not falling for it yet. I also overheard another guy telling him that women don't like working with him again after he went out with them (the guy that may like me). Should I be concerned that this guy is a player?

2007-03-18 17:25:25 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-18 17:25:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

ive kisssed guys but im still kinda unsure about making out.. wat exactly is it? and wat happens??

2007-03-18 17:24:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just a little advice though...if you want to be taken seriously don't saying anything like, " he needs to play the piano and sing." Just indicate what would really make you happy, excited, whatever in a man. Thank you for playing...

2007-03-18 17:24:27 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

what do you find attractive? is there something that guys do that is irresistible? how important are looks?

2007-03-18 17:24:20 · 6 answers · asked by chuck 2