Ok my gf almost had sex with my brother tonight and she told me cuz she said i was being to so sweet to her and she didnt want to lie to me. SO I got mad and she told me it was a little thing and I did much worse things to her like doing her best friend. At that point I had to tell her the big diff between a friend and a family member but she still said I shouldnt be that mad about it and just be with her. I told her to move on and she told me that I didnt mean it but I told her I did then she flips out on me and says that I set it all up so I could leave her for good for a better girl. What in the world is her deal? Don't I have a right to be mad and hurt? What should I do?
2007-03-18 17:26:09 · 9 answers · asked by spayhappy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah, I would say you do have the right to be mad. I'm not really one to try to break people up, but If you're off sleeping with her friends and she is trying to sleep with your brother it sounds like things aren't going well and you guys should probably see other people.
2007-03-18 17:37:01 · answer #1 · answered by fleisch 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first off, you slept with her best friend? I'm surprised this chick is still with you. You need to end it, now.
There is obviously no trust in this relationship if both of you are going to cheat. Without trust, there is no relationship. You're basically just F-buddies at this point who can't let go of eachother for whatever reason. If you can't even stop sleeping with other people for eachother - you don't belong together.
as an extra note : sleeping with ANYBODY is the same thing. Cheating reflects a lack of intimacy in the relationship, especially when the woman does it ( men can be dogs).
2007-03-18 17:37:18 · answer #2 · answered by axe happy juggalo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you do have a right to be mad at her, despite the fact that you slept with her best friend. If she was still with you after that, then that's her fault because obviously she forgave you. She has no right to throw that in your face now. She's trying to say that it was a setup to turn the situation around and make it about you instead of what she did to you. Dump that b***ch and move on. If she'll sleep with your brother, there's no telling who she's already slept with.
2007-03-18 17:46:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is cheating regardless of who it's with, the only difference is you feel more jealous because it's your brother in question. So you were being a hypocrite by being mad at her. But if you're going to have a relationship where you're cheating you've got to expect that sort of drama anyways.
2007-03-18 17:54:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have a right to be up set about what happen but it sound
like both of you need to take some time to deal with what the
really problem is, there are some issues that both of you need
to deal with so the best thing to leave it along for a while and
then you can fiqure out if this is worth it.
2007-03-18 17:34:19 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have right to be mad at her I mean its also your brothers fault too not just her and she didn't sleep with him either but the thing is how can you trust her I mean what if she does sleep with him or any guy she going to have to earn her trust back with her if you stay with her. But you do have all the right to be mad at her
2007-03-18 17:33:38 · answer #6 · answered by theonlyreba 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah She'll end up doing it anyways, so ya'll might as well pull a train on her so you don't miss out. Plus ur brothers an idiot for hitting on your ole lady.
2007-03-18 17:31:11 · answer #7 · answered by todd 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You did sleep with her friend. Its almost the same thing because our friends are like family to us. You have a right to be mad and hurt but.
2007-03-18 17:30:00 · answer #8 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 2⤊ 3⤋
no, first off she was honest with you and didnt try to hid it. pluse you cheated on her and she is still with you. it really doesnt matter who you cheat on her with its the fact that you did it with some one eles. you have ever right to be hurt but not mad. sorry
2007-03-18 17:33:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋