ok so i found my first love. but now hes moving. not just to a different school. but a whole new city. we didnt know how it would work so we broke up but i just cant seem to get over the fact that he moved. everything i say, do, and see brings back a memory that we shared. i ache all over. what do i do?
2007-03-18 17:36:03 · 15 answers · asked by girl.that.loves.a.boy. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Time is the key here. You will continue, and find some others to date, possibly even love again. Just remember you are not alone, many people go through this, and live to tell the story. I even got a T-shirt from it. LOL Sorry bad joke. But seriously, I have been there, and she and I were together for 14 years, we had 3 children and one day she just walked out. The 3 children are grown now, and they continue to try to live with me, but I got over the X and moved on, just like you will. Good Luck and God Bless.
2007-03-18 17:44:23 · answer #1 · answered by Joseph L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww heart ache...
Doesn't it just feel like your dieing slowly?
The only way you can really get over it is by focusing your mind on other things. Something YOU like. Go out with some friends, Watch some comedies, go dancing, do what ever makes you feel amazing.
Guys come and go, all you really need to know is, ......ok I thought I was going some where with that one...but then I all of a sudden went brain dead...Hmf...
ANYWAYS!
You'll get over him! It just takes time :)
2007-03-19 00:50:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your in high school first of all. So consider first if you were ever really going to stay together a long time anyway. If he means that much to you and vice versa than I would try to keep in contact(email, IM,stuff like that) if that doesn't work I'm sure you will find another hottie. : )
2007-03-19 00:42:23 · answer #3 · answered by barbiebabe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you said your in school..im still guessing your around my age.. amybe like 14-17 and well think it could be worse... at least you guys got to date... i mean i liked this person ever since like 3rd grade and i asked him out a couple yrs ago and he said no.. and me and him ended up having a fight last yr.. 7th grade... and well i kept sending him emails say sry... but he wouldnt forgive me...I still dont think he forgave me... but during my summer i couldnt help stop thinking about it i felt sooo bad.....
* heres what i think you should do... you and your friends go to a massage place... and talk about it.. cry your eyes out.. eat ice cream and choclate... and if you got his number call him and tell him that you miss him and u think if you both try hard enough you can make it work!
2007-03-19 00:44:14 · answer #4 · answered by jenny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let fate work its magic - things happen for a reason - don't mess with destiny because in the end, everything will work itself out. Just stay friends with the guy - that way you'll never really lose him...
2007-03-19 00:49:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will get over it. It happens all the time. I can suggest you attend a vipassana meditation course as this should speed your recovery from the feelings of attachment.
2007-03-19 00:40:38 · answer #6 · answered by kicking_back 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
contact him and see if he feels the same way.
If not then you need to make yourself move on, stop remembering all those memories until you are past the emotional stage of breaking up and then you can look back with fondness of what you once had.
2007-03-19 00:39:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would say try callling him and see who hes do and see if u guys cant work some thing out u know cuz u really dont wante to hurt u know what i mean
2007-03-19 00:46:08 · answer #8 · answered by HEATHER J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on, too many people out there, he may have made you really happy, but if he is far away it aint gonna work... you need to stop associating things to him, start looking at other people to be interested in.... he is gone, find someone else to like
2007-03-19 00:41:50 · answer #9 · answered by jim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you able to call him?
at least stay as friends..
put a smile on.... if you still want to stay with him...
maybe it's your first time for long distance relationship
but what my friends tell me (that i really hate the most)
time heals most everything
2007-03-19 00:42:43 · answer #10 · answered by creastian909 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋