Singles & Dating - 18 March 2007

Should I commit to the guy I've loved for three and a half years (three of which were spent in a serious relationship with him), or distance myself from the relationship to allow for more opportunities to experience others? We care for each other a great deal, but I long for something new. On the other hand, no other relationship seems to compare to the happiness I feel when I spend time with my first love. I don't want to lose him all together; but I want to be open to something new. Is this even possible? Should I stick with what I know to be good? I'm a sophomore in college and I first dated this guy in eleventh grade.

2007-03-18 16:59:12 · 7 answers · asked by Swedish Meatball 87 1

I was dating my daughter's music teacher. and I thought he dumped me about month ago. I was angry and sad for awhile but, I have overcame the pain of losing him.
I had to continued the lesson with him for my daughter meanwhile.
I am friend with all his music network which makes me difficult to strive in the music community without talking to him. and m fact he is very high quality teacher which I will not be able to find one like him.
but, I feel ackward to be there on her lesson days.
what should I do?

2007-03-18 16:57:44 · 1 answers · asked by pain in the neck 1

We're both 18, almost 19. He's in the army. We've been dating for 1 year. They never let him out of the house during the week, even though we leave school at noon. All he does is sit at home. Is it normal to control your kids that much, or am I over reacting? It seems to me that since he is an adult and enlisted in the Army that he should be able to make his own decisions. What should I do? It bothers me that our time is so limited.

2007-03-18 16:57:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

We've know each other for a year now. We met each other last year through a store that he manages and I usually shopped in b4 he came into the picture.
Anyways over time we've become close, but the thing is we spend time with each other instore never outside the store cause he works days and i work evenings anyways.... My 21st is coming up and Im making a guest list and Im not sure if I should invite him.
1:I do have feelings 4 him, but I hide it 2:We have a close bond. Hes very open with me. Ive never been able to talk 2 someone the way I talk with him. I mean when we talk instore we like talk 4 like 1-2 hrs just talking about anything and everything yknw?? Customers could be walking in and out and we'd still be just talking away like no one else in the world existed just us two anyways.

Should I invite him or not?

2007-03-18 16:56:35 · 4 answers · asked by ¸¸.•*´`*♥ Selah 21 ¸¸.•*´`*♥ 4

and now he keeps trying to get me to have sex with him all the time...it was magical the first time but now its really getting annoying...so what am i supposed to tell him???

2007-03-18 16:56:11 · 6 answers · asked by Allen J 1

Me and my friend Nita have been friends for about 2 years now and about 1 year ago we moved to Idaho together and I eventually moved back cuz I was unable to find work. She has a boyfriend who lives in Alaska and they never talk to eachother, but she thinks she loves him. I know she doesn't love him though cuz she doesn't really like talking to him. On the other hand she spends hours a day on the phone with me. Since wednesday we have spent 15 hrs on the phone together. So do I tell her I love her or not tell her anything? Also how do I tell her?

2007-03-18 16:55:09 · 8 answers · asked by brutus maximus 2

Ok, here’s my story. I’m a high school senior and I had a crush on this girl in my class since about the middle of my sophomore year. It wasn’t until this past summer that I told her how I felt, she then told me she felt the same about me. Well this summer, she moved, and now she lives about 2 hours away. And in spite of that fact we decided to try dating. And we went out for about 4 months.
At first we got to see each other every weekend, but then she started playing basketball, and I had wrestling, and she got a job; so we started not being able to see each other for weeks at a time. Eventually she decided that we should break up; she told me that she just couldn’t take not seeing me every day. And at first I thought maybe she was right. We decided to take a break from talking for a while.
After about a month I realized I wasn’t getting over her, and we started talking again. At this point wrestling and basketball were over, she quit her job, and now I have a car. So I thought maybe we’d get to see each other more often, and maybe we should give it another chance. But before I got to say that she told me she has a new boyfriend. Now they’ve been dating for about a month, and I can tell she really likes him. I want to be happy for her, because she really is the best person I’ve ever known and she really deserves to be happy. But there is a big part of me that wants them to break up, because I’m still hoping I can be with her some day.
I can’t stop thinking about this girl, and I honestly can’t find any flaws within her. I know nobody’s perfect, but she definitely is the closest thing to perfect I could imagine. So, my question is how can I fall out of love? How can I bring myself to be happy for her and her new boyfriend?

2007-03-18 16:50:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

and that you will never never ever do it again, or if you do, of course there were no intentions of hurting him like that again..argh coz i feel really stupid right now. and it wasnt even THAT big a deal cept if i was in his shoes i would just be a little upset. this isnt a very helpful question to answer...

2007-03-18 16:49:57 · 12 answers · asked by bii. 1

my best friend meagan is dating tyler and he really likes her and hes talking about marrying her and they have only dated for 2 weeks and he always says i love u over and over again and i think its alittle werid what should i tell her 2 do

2007-03-18 16:49:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

She had been into some relationship in the past, now we are serious into our relationship and planning to get married, I have heard from her and her family lots of stuffs about her past. Most of the stuffs are problem brought by her relationship with her ex's and one of them even cause her leave her parents and find an apartment for her own and it has cause lots of pain to her parents as she was only 23. She was uncontrollable that time due to their influence.

The problem i have right now is those ex's of her keeps on calling her and asking her out for drinks and meet up someitmes even barrowing money and worse is when we are out on a date. I am not happy with that and was telling her to get rid of them as they are not the type of friends that can do good for her and even for our relationship. No matter what i told her she still thinks that they are good friends and will keep them.

I have my trust in her but i do not trust her ex's who still wants to be with her. How to take it?

2007-03-18 16:48:45 · 5 answers · asked by Joe 1

Ive never asked a girl before, had a gf or even kissed one before...and im in high school, i know its pathetic. Ive liked this girl for so long and enough is enough! I'm gonna ask her tomarrow, any words of encouragement or any ideas on what to say because i have no idea.

2007-03-18 16:48:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

It seems like girls always say pretty and guys always say cute. Do they mean the same thing but guys feel weird saying something is 'pretty?'. How are 'cute' and 'pretty' different? Just curious.

2007-03-18 16:48:26 · 9 answers · asked by Alexandra F 1

My ex came back into town for spring break. He didn't call me to hang out until saturday night, he left today. Anyway, on saturday I thought we were just going to hang out as friends. He invited his boys and was acting very discusting/mannish with them in front of me.
Then we get to this party and for like 2 hours he's being friend-y. Then all of a sudden he steals my cigarette and forces me to play fight with him to give it back, at which point he kisses me, suprisingly I kiss him back.
Then he told me that he told his father that I was the only person he's ever dated that he's had a strong connection with. He told me that he thinks about me alot. He even asked me what I thought it would be like if he didn't go to UCF last august.
He's very touchy feely the rest of the night and after I drop him off at his house I think about how much I really haven't gotten over him, and how much we CANT be together cause he's in college.
I cry the rest of the way home. What are his intentions?

2007-03-18 16:46:54 · 8 answers · asked by Whitnae 3

i rily think i am theres this girl and i dont stop thinkin about her i wud give my life for her were dating and i just i think i love her but im not sure if i no wut love is

2007-03-18 16:44:46 · 8 answers · asked by rocker 1

I could never have a relationship with any woman who would be willing to have someone like me in their life.

2007-03-18 16:44:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-18 16:44:01 · 6 answers · asked by LadyLista 1

2007-03-18 16:40:26 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

An ex and I ended things very badly. We we were very close. it was special. However, something happened and he became very cold and hrtful to me. Much was involved including a child he had with someone else, before we met. I helped him thru much of this. Anyhow, we exchanged hurtful words and have not spoken in over a month or so. I didn't expect him to call me, although I hoped he would. But everyday, it ate at me, the things I said to him and the way I behaved. So tonight, I called him and I got his voice mail. I left him a message and told him that I was sorry, and that no matter what, as a friend, I only wanted him to be happy and I should have backed away, knowing a child was involved. I will admit he was wrong about much, but there was much confusion involved. I dont know what he thinks, but I feel a sense of relief. Was I stupid? Should I not have called? I also said that I don't expect to hear from him and its ok. And I think I will be, if I never hear from him again. I just

2007-03-18 16:40:17 · 10 answers · asked by maria s 2

How often do you have crushes on real people. I've only have three with a big 7-year gap between my middle school crush and my most recent two university crush, and was surprised to experience those kinds of feelings again. Are there people who are constantly crushing on people? Is it strange not to have had a crush for so long at such a young age?

2007-03-18 16:38:59 · 8 answers · asked by Cybele 1

How did you catch them and what was the outcome of the relationship?

2007-03-18 16:38:44 · 6 answers · asked by Love always, Kortnei 6

Its usually we give each other oral and then he does his thing once in a while i will get on top what more does he want?

2007-03-18 16:38:36 · 8 answers · asked by MzL 2

i am in a class with this girl, and we talk all the time, (friendly conversation) and were always saying that wee gonna party together or drink together sometime, she has a bf of 2 years and she flirts with me, we were at a hockey game and i put my arm around her, gave e a big hug right away, and told me that her bf was boring. is she into me?

2007-03-18 16:38:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've spent some time with this guy. We've flirted, smiled, and laughed together. So, I asked him out, and he said that he'd think about it. But, I got the notion that he's going to turn me down. HELP ME!!! How do I get him to change his mind?!?!?!

I'm in desperate need of advice. Please help me.

2007-03-18 16:37:57 · 2 answers · asked by Hopeless Romantic 1

Whenever my partner does something that bothers me a bit, i can't find the confidence to talk about it. I feel like I might be pushy, or annoying, or needy. Should I be completely outspoken? I feel weak to admit that the other person has such influence on me. How should i handle this?

2007-03-18 16:36:17 · 13 answers · asked by Fastforward 2

I haven't met for a month as I broke my leg and was out of the soccor team we both played on.
I have her email now and I really really like her(she may not know that as she did not reply me when I sent out the team picture last time)
is that ok if I send her an email

2007-03-18 16:36:15 · 3 answers · asked by LB James 3

is there even anyone?

2007-03-18 16:36:06 · 7 answers · asked by poisonberries 5

2007-03-18 16:35:09 · 9 answers · asked by dumdum4eva 2

Whenever I kiss the guy I'm currently dating, our faces just don't seem to fit together right and it blocks my nose and I feel like I'm suffocating. Has anyone ever had a similar situation? I've kissed quite a few guys and have never had this problem before.

2007-03-18 16:33:51 · 3 answers · asked by Schleppy 5

2007-03-18 16:31:07 · 15 answers · asked by porky 1

I have been with my bf for almost 3 years. We were in the same state and I asked him to move in together, he said he is not ready. So I decided to move back to where I was from originally, for financial reasons. I knew I should have broke it off then, but he wouldnt let go, and we kept seeing each other, long distance relationship.It became very difficult for me to keep this relationship, as I slowly lost friends, I felt I was married to him but never could do anything with him ( because he is not here) and because my friends are gone ( he is jealous). He kept talking about marriage, and wanting me to move there. So I told him, propose to me and I will move. He wouldnt, saying it is either the money, or we argue too much... etc.. I became so angry w him all the time, b/c he wouldnt give me what I wanted, I wanted to be with him, and by his side,but he always acted ok with the distnce. I was the only one with the urge to be 2gether. Why didnt he propose if he loves me ?

2007-03-18 16:30:39 · 5 answers · asked by Mx2 4