Singles & Dating - 18 March 2007

There's this guy who has said a lot of bad things to me when we fight (over petty and not so petty things). He said the ff: "You're not my loss", "You are desperate that's why you're like that" , "You are making things up", etc... what do you think? i dont think he likes me, it think its the other way around...

2007-03-18 18:08:12 · 6 answers · asked by Nikki 1

One of my colleagues set me up to meet this guy. We are both in similar professions, but I'm not sure what else to talk about. We are going to meet after work for dinner. What should I wear? What should I say?

2007-03-18 18:06:07 · 11 answers · asked by random 3

she is ALWAYS with her friends..what do i do?

2007-03-18 18:05:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you decide to take a "break" with a relationship, how long should it last?
Because I want it to be enouph time to allow thinking and time for ourselves, but not too long so that we dont fall out of love or just something like that
Any advice??
Thanks in advance!

2007-03-18 18:04:13 · 9 answers · asked by bArBiE 1

wut could i do im not tired...

2007-03-18 18:04:06 · 11 answers · asked by Tinkerbell eats Yahoo! 5

2007-03-18 18:03:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you were with a woman who you got a long great with, would the fact that shes not the race you envisioned yourself with hinder your ability to give in to those feelings?

I was dating an English guy for a year...it was great, but as I was the first black ANYTHING (friend, lover) he'd been with, he couldn't wrap his head around it...it seemed I was easy to forget once he went back.

Is it that important????

2007-03-18 18:02:41 · 16 answers · asked by Lotus Phoenix 6

whats ur opinion

2007-03-18 18:02:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well I just met this girl the 2 weeks ago. I really like her personality, morals, and we seem to get a long great. She has let me know she is interested in me and I have told her the same.

The only big thing I am worried about and that bothers me, is she likes to drink and go to the clubs with her friends....and I don't. I'm very outgoing, but hate clubs and I don't drink. I really would like it if she just didn't but I dont want to be a dictator. I feel like this may be a problem later on if our relationship continues.

My question is, should I accept this and just try to trust her and let go of it, or stand by what I want and not date a girl who drinks? Other than the drinking, I really like her.

2007-03-18 18:01:24 · 23 answers · asked by Socially Challenged 2

Okay, Im a teenager so w/e the hell that means to u it does.
but i like this girl in my class and heres our history so far:
fall last year we became good friends
went out a month; she didnt actually like me; broke up; asked out my best friend
she likes me in december; we go out for about a month and a half; i give her a good bday gift (braclet) and she likes it; 2 weeks later she breaks up w/me and makes out w/my best friend (i never kissed her)

and now: im helping her get over her depression over my best friend hating her now, and i like her... a lot, but should i just do nothing about it? or should i go for it?

help plz; although its a stupid teen problem id still appreciate it

and idk if she likes me; she might; but i dont think so (im also self-depricating if that helps ne)

2007-03-18 18:00:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

When i was 22 (and unmarried), I met a married woman at a bar/ club. She was older, but still relatively attractive and our personalities just clicked. she was out with her friends. seemed to be happy enough about her life, and wasn't outto pick up a guy - she was taken aback by the whole thing.

It turned into a romp in the back seat of her truck.

So now my wife, 43, and a 7 out of 10 for her age, goes out with her freinds dancing once a month, more or less. They have a real blast. She’s come home tipsy. At least one of her freinds, I know, has a small reputation for fluziness. I come to learn she carries a rubber in her purse. i ask why . . . she said she and her freidns agreed they'd all always carry one because of a scare that happened to a mutual freind. its not to use, she assured, it 'just in case'

just in case of what?

i think about it - we’ve been married 17 years and we are very stable, but we don't have a whole lot of sex anymore. i highly highly doubt she'd ever leave me -she’s not going to throw it all away - but could she have gotten boinked or be open to the possibility?

and if so should i get mad? On the one hand, I think what goes around comes around. More importantly, crazy as it sounds, I feel like good for her . . . don't she deserve some?

So, 1) help me assess the liklihood she is, 2) she I stick with the progressive attitude or shift back to a more traditional approach?

2007-03-18 18:00:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

this guy broke my heart and i thought i lost all interest in him...i think im falling for him again. what do i do?

2007-03-18 17:59:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to ask out this greek girl but im not sure how to go about doing it... Im not sure if i should ask out her father first before i ask her, or if i should ask her out first to see if she wants to go out with me and then ask her dad, either way im pretty sure i have to ask her dad because greeks in general tend to be pretty family oriented i talk to her all the time sometimes on the phone, on aim, and on facebook a lot. She is a year older than me, a sophomore in college and by far the most mature girl i have ever met in my life, i remember her saying that this was all happening at a bad time because she is very dedicated to her schoolwork and said that if she had a boyfriend she would be afraid that she wouldnt be able to give him the time that she wanted to

2007-03-18 17:59:18 · 5 answers · asked by Da C 2

I worked with this girl 2 summers ago and I had a huge crush on her and I regret not asking her out. I was planning on asking her out last summer but she didn't work there anymore. I saw her a couple times over the summer but I thought it would look weird if I just asked her out after I hadn't seen her for like a year. I doubt she is gonna work there this year but she does live in my town and I still work with her best friend but I don't really talk to her friend that often. What should I do?

2007-03-18 17:59:00 · 2 answers · asked by Jason C 1

Hey. How are you? From the moment we stopped talking, I missed you. I still remember what you said to me the last time we talked, the things you were mad at me about. I've worked on those things to improve myself. A special girl like you is hard to find, you're unlike any friend I've ever had. No other girl is as amazing, wonderful, smart, talented, funny, and beautiful as you. No one else has your light brown eyes that sparkle when you're happy and fade away when you're sad, or your bright smile. I miss when we used to talk and I would really like to work on things and get to know you again. I really care about you and like I said, you're special to me. I'm tired of playing silly games around you, trying to act like you're not when you really are. Without you, I just had to admit that I must be really stupid for not understanding then what you were trying to tell me, that it wasn't anything wrong with me that you didn't like, it was you just didn't share those feelings for me that I

2007-03-18 17:58:11 · 6 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5

The girl who is jealous of me has just about got me to the point I am sickened by the sight of the guy I'm in love with! I hate seeing him spend one second talking to her. He says I've let her get to me and she'll accomplish what she's set out to. He doesn't know the parrt about me feeling sick to my stomach to see him even speak to her. We all work together. He's friends with both of us. He swears he's not dating her or wanting to, but I still am angry. she has riduculed me for liking him. She's asked him what he sees in me. I swear she's way overstepped her boubds. I bet it's illegal to do all the stuff she's done. All her harassing!!!! She doesn't want me to have friends at all. The guy says she can't pick my friends...but she's trying awfully hard!!!


What do you think I should do?
Should I still love him or let her take over?

2007-03-18 17:56:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my best friend are going to hold hands tomorow, and I have a crush on him!

2007-03-18 17:55:56 · 14 answers · asked by Britney M 1

He asked me would i be willing to do that. Then I said no and he said okay, thats fine. Then the next day he started asking me again about it. One day he called me and asked if i was still on my period, because he wanted some. One night he came over real late for some! Whats wrong with him

2007-03-18 17:54:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm going to go see my ex today and see if I can maybe work things out between us. But I'm so nervous have no idea where to even start. Any advice on what I should tell her? Keep in mind that she broke up with me and based on what she's told me she doesn't want to get back together but won't tell me why.

2007-03-18 17:54:01 · 2 answers · asked by Confused as hell 1

He has used and abused me mentally and physically. I can honestly say that everything he has right now, he has because I helped him so much start his life over after some very serious problems. I loved him so much, and he used me so badly it kills me to think about it. I am so hurt and humiliated. I have the power to make his life like it was when I met him, he will have nothing, no job, no money, no car. Is it wrong to want to take all the things away from him after he did me so wrong. Lies, cheats, betrayal, even hurt me badly financially and refused to help me when I needed it. Should I do it? He is in this country illegaly, working with a wrong SS number, driving an uninsured car with no drivers license. Should I turn him in? He lied to me something terrible, and hurt me so bad. I am dying just thinking about it.

2007-03-18 17:53:19 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im in a regular and "perfect" relationship just like every one els ,but the thig is that after more than 2 year of going out with my girl she still won't give up here virginity and im at a point where just like any human" that I what to make love to here and there is always respect between us and there is also love" so why say "im not ready" when i trie to make love to here ?? does she not really like me?? should I just forget about here or wait ? but till when? why wont she whant to do it with me?

2007-03-18 17:53:00 · 4 answers · asked by Jose 1

What is something I can do for my boyfriend that is romantic and shows him that I care?? I'm 19 and he's 24. He's very romantic (he's Latin and passionate!) but nothing sexual please. I just want something nice I could do for him that would show him how much I love him. Thanks!

2007-03-18 17:50:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been single of the past 3.5 years. I have a daughter who is six years old. I have dated guys in the past but it has always been casual and usually the relationships only last about 2 weeks. Now I am a very opinionated woman. I say what I think and I can be extremely blunt at times. I have heard from friends that guys like me and they think that I am attractive but they know that I wont like them back.
Many of my guy friends tell me I am intimidating. As well as my female friends.
I know it sounds stupid but how can I not be so intimidating? I am so used to just being myself.
I am to shy to make a move on a guy, but I don't want to be alone forever.
I catch guys looking at me but they never ask me out..
I smile, I am sincere, I am giving.
I NEED HELP..
I am not a super gorgeous girl.
But I guess I am average. I have short golden blonde hair and tan skin. I am a little chunky I wear a size twelve pants, but I work out a lot. I take care of myself.

2007-03-18 17:48:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know this is totally weird, but I LOVE the black clothes that they wear. I think thats what really gets to me, because I also loooove Gothic guys, and guys with black hair and/or eyeliner *blushes*. But what could it mean??? Other than me being weird lol.

2007-03-18 17:47:38 · 2 answers · asked by +VeryFemale+ 1

give examples

2007-03-18 17:47:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

they call u names when they are mad or would u dump them even though u luv em

2007-03-18 17:46:51 · 9 answers · asked by Ask ME 3

Is it normal?......... after being in a relationship with someone for a year..... then to the "let's just be friends" stage......now to the point that we can't be friends at all.

2007-03-18 17:46:47 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

and do you constantly feel yourself up.

2007-03-18 17:46:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i been workin at my families store recently and most likely am goin to continue. and i havent been having luck with women. i have 2-3 differnet women come up to me everytime and try to hit on me. at first i thought it was me just thinkin that but then the same women would come back and persue it further. one even told me she wanted me to lock the store and take her to the back. now i know you are wondering why im complaining. my store happens to be in a prodominantly african american nieghborhood. its not i dont like the race. i actually do but their older women. im sayin in their 30's. i am almost 20. i like the african american women that come in but i want the age to be sumwhere between 17-24 something i would like to persue. what should i do because it is becoming an harrasment to me.

2007-03-18 17:46:28 · 3 answers · asked by t bone 1

Would this be wierd or rocking the cradle?

2007-03-18 17:46:17 · 21 answers · asked by justellemJimsaidhello 1