this guy broke my heart and i thought i lost all interest in him...i think im falling for him again. what do i do?
2007-03-18 17:59:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
walk away from him. If he broke your heart once, don't give him a chance to do it again. If he wants you...tell him to go through what you did first...then get busy doing other things...new interests...new hobbies...etc. Keep busy. Time will heal.
2007-03-18 18:04:07 · answer #1 · answered by ladeemist 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think I can answer this, it's pretty broad but I'll give an example, even though im a guy and it might not work. All right, I broke it off with a girl and it was a real painful break-up where I changed my mind lol after we broke up bc I realized that I didn't have her anymore. It didn't work out that well though because she wouldnt let me take it back and had found another person. I still love her a lot and worry that she'll come back to me and try to get me to take her back (which i realize now is not right for me so i don't want that but I'll always have a soft spot (weakness) for her that I cant seem to get rid of)
2007-03-18 18:08:51 · answer #2 · answered by Matt M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How are you falling for him again, have the two of you had contact? Life is full of twist and turns as you will learn, why did he break up with you in the first place? If it was for another girl I say keep looking for someone else, if not I would just be friends with him and see where it takes you, you don't need another heartbreak
2007-03-18 18:04:57 · answer #3 · answered by celesta_palmer2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go back that same thing happend to me and i decided I wouldn't go back with that guy that hurt me so bad. So what i did was joined a gym and got busy with friends so i didnt have time for him. I really thank God because I found a new true love about 4 yrs after that and now i am getting married in two months. I am so happy and i know that you could find a true love that you wont have bad memories with. So go out and find a new true love. Good Luck
2007-03-18 18:08:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably best to try and break yourself of this type of behavior, namely, giving in to someone who hurts you. Whether it be a small thing or a big thing, it seems to set you up to put up with all sorts of terrible things in the name of "love". Nobody who hurts you can truely "love" you. Why would you even want to waste yourself on someone who doesn't even care about you as much as you do them?
He's hurt you before and most likely will again, it's a behavioral pattern, just like putting up with it is. Break the habit. Move on, and find someone who deserves you.
2007-03-18 18:06:00 · answer #5 · answered by Kurius_Kitten 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This time when you fall just don't hit your head . The last time you fell something happened to your memory and you forgot what he did to you.
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2007-03-18 18:06:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like you will get your heart broken again. If you dont want this to happen, get another crush.
2007-03-18 18:02:24 · answer #7 · answered by StevieMo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
RESIST RESIST!!!!! when you see him, i know this is painful, just remember that this jerk broke my heart, and i'm not falling for his crap again, because chances are, you're meant for someone better then that heartbreaking loser
2007-03-18 18:02:54 · answer #8 · answered by Gale 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stay away - it's natural for you to fall for someone so fast after it happened because you're not completely healed and over it - don't get your emotions all tangled up again.
2007-03-18 18:02:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sexual Dave to the rescue! Fall for me sweetcheeks, I will not let you down or dissapoint. No female as been let down by the one and only sexual Dave!
2007-03-18 18:02:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋