Hey. How are you? From the moment we stopped talking, I missed you. I still remember what you said to me the last time we talked, the things you were mad at me about. I've worked on those things to improve myself. A special girl like you is hard to find, you're unlike any friend I've ever had. No other girl is as amazing, wonderful, smart, talented, funny, and beautiful as you. No one else has your light brown eyes that sparkle when you're happy and fade away when you're sad, or your bright smile. I miss when we used to talk and I would really like to work on things and get to know you again. I really care about you and like I said, you're special to me. I'm tired of playing silly games around you, trying to act like you're not when you really are. Without you, I just had to admit that I must be really stupid for not understanding then what you were trying to tell me, that it wasn't anything wrong with me that you didn't like, it was you just didn't share those feelings for me that I
2007-03-18 17:58:11 · 6 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
had for you.
I've found out for myself it was better when you didn't like me in that way. Now that you don't like me at all, it's alot worse. For the things I've done, I'm really sorry. I was just afraid of losing you, so I did. I only want us to start over, pretend this whole thing never happened. I just want your friendship back, if it's ok with you. If what you want is to never see me or speak to me again, I will just try to let you go just because I only want to make you happy. (END)
2007-03-18 17:58:49 · update #1
Two sides of me are telling me to try because I love her and the other is saying there must be a good reason for my benefit she's gone and let her stay gone. Her 17th b-days in two weeks. I'm 17 as well. I've liked her since I was 15 and she was 15, when we met, and 4 months into the year 2006 (we were both 16) we talked but after that I did something by mistake, she got mad at me, and I gave her space. When I tried to talk to her she said she didn't want to talk to me anymore. I've tried to move on but I feel like I need her friendship back. Could I have given her too much space (a month and a half), to where she'd think I must not care since I didn't try my hardest to get her back, and that's why she said she doesn't want to talk to me anymore. By the way, when I talked to her online after that about it, she always responded when I said something. Should I post the conversation so I can get some interpretations of it?
2007-03-18 18:01:19 · update #2
You could streamline it a bit but seriously, saying something is always better than saying nothing. If it's what you feel, better to say it than not. If she doesn't respond positively... well, what did you lose by putting it out there? People regret more the things they didn't say or didn't do, then things they did or said that didn't go right. Honesty counts for a lot.
2007-03-18 18:13:18 · answer #1 · answered by duckofdarkness 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not attempt to verbally say all those things... you won't remember. I would send her what you wrote above in a paper hand-written letter. It's beautiful. What will it hurt? Go for it!
2007-03-18 18:03:51 · answer #2 · answered by ohbrother 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww YES!
Say it to her!
Ever last word, as long as you mean EVER word!
It'll make her feel real good about her self & about you.
Good luck!!
2007-03-18 18:03:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you should. Speak from the heart. Not your mind. It only tells lies.
2007-03-18 18:01:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds ok to me. You will probably have her melting with words like that.
2007-03-18 18:02:47 · answer #5 · answered by kicking_back 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you have to lose.
2007-03-18 18:01:44 · answer #6 · answered by StevieMo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋