The girl who is jealous of me has just about got me to the point I am sickened by the sight of the guy I'm in love with! I hate seeing him spend one second talking to her. He says I've let her get to me and she'll accomplish what she's set out to. He doesn't know the parrt about me feeling sick to my stomach to see him even speak to her. We all work together. He's friends with both of us. He swears he's not dating her or wanting to, but I still am angry. she has riduculed me for liking him. She's asked him what he sees in me. I swear she's way overstepped her boubds. I bet it's illegal to do all the stuff she's done. All her harassing!!!! She doesn't want me to have friends at all. The guy says she can't pick my friends...but she's trying awfully hard!!!
What do you think I should do?
Should I still love him or let her take over?
2007-03-18 17:56:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
One, dont ever let the haters win. Trust me, "the more haters you have the more successful you are" most times its true.. But don't let her bum you out. Anyhow, you can probably do mucho mucho better than this guy who is just watching you get stepped on. But if you really feel that there is a connection or something then go for it. Dont let this envious chica get in your way, she's only jealous of you and that must mean you have something that she doesn't have. ^.^ hope this helped sweetheart.
2007-03-18 18:19:23 · answer #1 · answered by Kihara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I ask you a question, Sista Girl, Do you love him? If the answer is yes then you need to just think about that and not this other girl because if she can get your attention, then you've stopped loving and started hating. What might help you is when you see them talking maybe somehow get his attention, not noticeably but just where he can see, and just mouth to him, that you love him. And when she says, you don't deserve him, say you right and he don't deserve me either but we are together and loving every minute of it. In other words, Sista, you turn it around, no matter what she say, agree with her and say, but I love him and he loves me. No matter what she says. That's it, Girl, you take your control back. You keep your sweetness, don't stoop to her level.
2007-03-19 01:20:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not serious about you. If he truly liked you and wanted to be with you, he would not stand back and enjoy the other girl torture you. FInd another job with more mature coworkers and dont date coworkers, as you can see its only drama.
2007-03-19 01:02:45 · answer #3 · answered by another journey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be stupid to let her tae over!! If you love someone then learn to fight for it! Letting go is not the option girlie!
2007-03-19 01:02:19 · answer #4 · answered by dreamgurl_01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOVE HIM!!! u should let NO GIRL steal your man and I mean NO GIRL!
2007-03-19 01:00:22 · answer #5 · answered by 'PK Nelson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋