The relationship that I share with my fiancee is in strain. We are going through financial troubles where we can barely meet the important bills (house payment and vehicle/insurance). I'm doing all that I can working two jobs but it's still not helping as I wanted and as we thought. We are still strained. Due to the finances our relationship is tearing apart. I view it as, yes while we need money to thrive, true relationships does not and should not revolve around money while he said it relationships does revolve around it. Everyone goes through their low financial points either as single or not single. With my 2 jobs we are very slowly (snail like) getting back on our feet. I'm doing all that I can yet the stress is still there. Should I take this situation from him as a major warning sign to leave because he says relationships all revolve around money? Should we stay together, I know this won't be last of our financial strains. Any advice?
2007-03-18 17:35:12 · 4 answers · asked by Amanda D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would dump him, simply because of his view on relationships. That's completely shallow. What happened to love and commitment being the center of a relationship? I'm wondering while you're working two jobs, what is he doing? His view is not one that is aimed towards making a relationship work, leave him
2007-03-18 17:42:05 · answer #1 · answered by First Lady 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 21:46:18 · answer #2 · answered by sanda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him, relationships dont revolve around money. He is blaming you for his short falls. If you want to be blamed the rest of your life for his mistake, stay with him. If not take whats left of your sanity and leave. You are not his walking bank account.
2007-03-18 17:53:30 · answer #3 · answered by another journey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How is it that your finances depend only on your working two jobs? Is he working? Personally, I think that many marriages fail because of finances, whether it should be that way or not. Clearly, you should get financial counseling immediately, and marriage counseling before you marry.
2007-03-18 17:44:54 · answer #4 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋