i dont get girls? (im kinda lookin for more answers)?

Question

ok so like mabye 6 months ago i sarted liking my best friend. and wed been good friends for more than 2 years. i think shes liked me a couple of times, but im not sure. then once she found out i liked her she was fine, but then we started arguing all the time and **** for like two months and then she just ended our friendship. i was devastated and didnt know what to do. so i kept trying to get her to give me another chance and stuff but she didnt want to. i really love her and i once thought she was the one. but now its been months since weve talked and i dont know what will happen. has this ever happened to anyone? should i just move on, or wait for her to come to me?

Answer 1

if she is your true love she will love later

Answer 2

What a painful situation. But look at it this way: after the way she's been acting, do you honestly think that things will be all bright and sunshiney if she did come back and ask to be with you? Sometimes it's best to just let the ties hang severed. You deserve better than someone who would end a fairly long friendship with you over something that did start so trivial. Let her go. Good luck, best wishes.

Answer 3

You don't give the ages--but if you are teens--forget it --the girl guy thing is always a mess---young emotions that just don't mix together very well--because you are kids--no experience and no smoothness--you get a gal and BOOM she is the one---NONSENSE---what are you gonna do, marry at 15?? Love??--you don't know what love means or is---you are kids---go out find a gal, forget the last one---this time date for fun, be cool, grow up and show some respect---watch your mouth and learn how to communicate--if you argued with me, I'd smack the crap out of you----you are just a typical kid--now next time do it all different--talk nice, smile, be a good guy....show the girls respect and have some class. If you act like a jerk, you will always be a jerk----This happens to millions of kids--BUT THEY DO GROW UP. Now get smart and be cool--keep your mouth shut for a change--got it???

Answer 4

you haven't talk for months for one and if you both argue all the time you just aren't post to be. It's hard to lose something you love so much and think about all the time I'm guessing. Maybe write a letter and explain your feeling and ask to talk over things and say you dont want to end things like this.

Answer 5

I may get alot of thumbs downs on this one from women, but here goes. I have deducted this much about women:

1) They think we are all up to something.
2) When they choose to be friends with you, they are deciding to disregard question 1.
3) When they find out you like them...refer back to number 1.
4) They then wonder if the entire friendship was BS to get in their pants.
5) Therefore, they think you are a bigger scumbag then if you just grabbed their boobs and stuck your tongue in their ear, because.....

You see, it is an honesty issue. If you like the girl, you should just let that be it, then let her decide if she wants to be friends with you after.

Point number 1 above is also the reason girls like guys who are jerks over nice guys. Generally they think we are all pretty much jerks to some degree, but guys who become their friends hide their jerky side. So it really is dishonest to be friends with a girl when you wanna bag them. And honest to tell a girl you want to bag them and let them form their own opinion of you with more accurate information.

Answer 6

If you truly love her...than you'll fight for her and try to get her back in your life...let her know how you feel and if she still doesn't wanna give you a chance try to be friends instead and if that doesn't work then it would be time to move on don't give your love to someone who won't share an equally amount...or attempt to give more back...hope everything works out

Answer 7

let it go,move on. start looking else where she's not ready for u to be more than a friend . maybe arguing was giving her an easy way out

Answer 8

They like you when you dont care. They dont like you when you do. Thats just chicks man. They want to talk w/you. But then dont when you want to talk about something that doesnt interest them. They want the opposite of whatever you are doing. I'm not bitter just realistic.

Answer 9

Heyy there!! Hahaa. Thats a humorous subject and perplexing actually :P nicely, me and my acquaintances try this plenty and im guessing its in the character of giirls to act that way. you comprehend girls could be very perplexing to understand. besides on your subject, its the two that the girls are in basic terms fooling around, such as you comprehend in basic terms fooling around with you. OR considered one of them the single you think of likes you, ought to truly such as you. I dont comprehend why yet i think that she does such as you, yet her acquaintances dont comprehend that. Like as in its a mix of the two techniques i gave you. i think of her acquaintances are fooling around with you and her acquaintances assume that girl1 (the lady who likes you) are fooling around too. yet girl1 has fallen for you and is no longer telling her acquaintances :/ nicely thats what i think of so yeah. anyhow, now you shouldnt problem approximately this too plenty and in the event that they shop drawing close then act known. And iif and whilst they proceed the guffawing then then in basic terms pretend such as you in no way observed them . nicely sorry for making it SO perplexing =$ wish I helped in some way :D

Answer 10

I think that you should move on. Thats why they say dont date ur best friends cause it will cause you to break up with them.

Answer 11

Don't wait dude- go to her and tell her your feelings. Take her or send her flowers- Make your feelings known to her and her friends. If she wants you, she'll come.