I am married to a man who I met on line, we knew each other for two years, he has 5 children from the previous relationship
age between 20 and 4 , after 4 months in marriege I read his mail which he forgot to sighnout about a woman who is expecting his baby,at thattime the woman was six months pregnant.I Asked him and he denied I didnot tell him that I read his mail;.I have been reading his mail since then I know everything{i know his password} up to now he has never told me anything about that woman.To make the matter worse, i found out that he is still searching for other women on the line.To make matter worse, iam from africa living in the US.I dont know anyone, am just lonely.What can I do?
2007-03-18 17:45:28 · 4 answers · asked by mimi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I heard that he abondoned that woman when she was 4 weeks pregnant, after knowing each other the same time he knew me.he was a timer
2007-03-18 18:45:13 · update #1
Truly you should not have ever read his mail as that is personal.However you did and found out some very disturbing things about him.
He is a cheater and a user and I feel for you ......especially being away from your family and friends.
You have to get out and socialize so you can meet some friends and not be alone.Do you work? If not get out and get a job.
Go to church,volunteer,join a women's social group or whtever it takes to meet people and make friends.
You need to leave this man and make a life for yourself. Can you possibly go back to africa or do you not want to do that?
I have heard so many horror stories about online relationships and marriages. It amazes me.
We never really know someone until we live with them.You don't need this but please get out and get to know some people. Don't always be alone.You need some companionship right now and someones shoulder to cry on.
I wish you the very best and God Bless.
2007-03-18 18:02:21 · answer #1 · answered by sonnyboy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only you will know what to do. I love my husband and I have left him before but only for three weeks because I found myself over there everyday for the last week, so even when I tried to leave I couldn't because I love him so much. If you love him then make him realize that you will not put up with that behavior and that he has basically fooled you because he said he was someone he wasn't. Tell him it is the computer or you. Then do what you have to do to be happy because life is too short and you don't want to waste your love on him if he will never come around.
2007-03-19 00:56:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look for help in the area that you live in. A women's shelter maybe ? You do need to get away from him. He will not change at all, and a liar to boot. Good luck !
2007-03-19 00:52:18 · answer #3 · answered by Lucky's Mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out while you still can.
He's no good.
2007-03-19 00:48:20 · answer #4 · answered by diannegoodwin@sbcglobal.net 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋