ok so I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 1/2 years....I'm 21 and as well as he.....he tells me he loves me and yatta yatta yatta....well we were dating for a year when he broke it off because he wanted to date because he didn't get to....and than we got back togther....and now at 3years he did it again....and he's dating just this one girl who's 18 and he talks and texts her everyday like 20 times a day........he tells me that he wants me to wait for him. that he loves me but he loves me to much and that scares him, he says hes not ready for marriage.....but i have been nothing but the best to him. I've never cheated, lied etc....and always honest. I think sometimes I spoil him way to much, and I think about him before myself....I'm not sure what to do anymore....he tells me the truth, and i know he isn't lieing....i want to wait because i love him and have never felt this feeling before....i know if it was about being with him so long i wouldn't wait around. it isnt. i'm in love
2007-03-18 17:30:36 · 4 answers · asked by Auddie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are in love with the wrong guy.
The man you should love will never ever hurt you and make you watch him date another girl! Never ever ever. Get away from him. If you are supposed to be together, and if he loves you, he will chase after you.
you deserve someone who will fight for you, not ask you to wait for him to get lazy and settle down.
Start today. Don't waste another day. Good luck!
2007-03-18 17:35:41 · answer #1 · answered by imnotachickenyoureaturkey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please try writing a little better next time. It is very difficult to understand most of what you are saying. The only thing I understood is that you are kind of lost in knowing what to do. If you have no clue how you should act or you for some reason feel you have gotten too dizzy and too involved to think clearly, than I recommend "All the Rules"...by Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider. They give a very complete picture of why and how men react/think in these situations in opposition to what you feel and want, and it will help you avoid a few mistakes.
2007-03-19 00:42:42 · answer #2 · answered by olmega 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the question you need to ask your self, what is love to him
sound like he does not know how he feel., he broke up
with you then got back together but now he dating someone
one else. time to let this man go and find some one that
want to ge with you and only you. he full of it.
2007-03-19 00:38:11 · answer #3 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a kid to make him stay. kind of hard to answer a redundant statement
2007-03-19 00:35:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋