should i dress sexy for him?

Question

my friend and i are staying at her brother's place for a week, and i've got the hots for him. lol.

he's involved, but i kinda want to steal him away. i dont like the idea of just interrupting his relationship, so should i just try to make myself as tempting as possible so he makes the first move?

what should i wear thats really sexy, but not overtly sexual? i dont want him to know i'm doing it. and i'll be sleeping there, so day and night wear will be needed.... what do i wear?

ok.... i guess i should clarify:

i've been in love with this boy for a long long time, years. i dont know if i'll ever get a shot at this again, and i wouldnt just jump into bed with him, because if something happens, i want it to last. i literally have dreams of this boy asking me to marry him.

so, yeah, i'd feel bad if i made a move to end his relationship. but if i can get him to make the first move... then its his choice to leave the girl he's with. and i know him, he wouldnt cheat on her, he'd break up with her, and probably wait quite a while before he dated again, just so he wouldnt hurt her feelings.

i do care about how she feels, but i guess i care about how i feel more. i've been in love with him for as long as i can remember.

Answer 1

Be careful honey, and don't take your clothes off until he definately breaks up with who is involved with. (otherwise you will never truly be his).

Guys usually like natural looking clothes, and not too much make up, Jeans and a white top always looks great. Make sure you have cute pj's. A top with thin straps that keeps falling off your shoulder will drive him wild. The most important thing to wear is a smile on your face!!!

Make sure you act natural and caring around him. Listen to what he says, and DO NOT bag his other half out.

If you just seduce him, then your fling will almost definately end when you leave his place. You want him to fall for you, for who you are, so you can have a long and lasting relationship!
On the other hand, if it's a fling you are after, just forget the clothes, climb in his bed naked, and wait for him. Just make sure he wasn't planning on bringing someone else home with him. You would look like a fool. Yes it's cheap, but it's honest.

Answer 2

I've found that MOST guys are into the whole "girl-child" look... you know, baby blue or pink cammies, flannel short shorts that provide a "pantie peep" at the right moments, an athletic style tank with no bra, teddy and knee socks, tight silk top with spaghetti straps etc. In other words, dress like a middle-schooler at a sleepover. I also suggest a pony-tail at times, maybe out the back of a ball cap (his fav team). Go light on make-up, if any at all... and NO perfume. A sweet smelling soap fragrance is good. Play coy. Quick glances and giggles are great. Pretend YOU don't know you're SEXY as hell!

Trust me, I've stolen away more than a few guys with this get-up.... and a few grrls too!

Answer 3

Hello,
Just remember if his heart is with someone else at the moment and you do steal him away, then what if one day the same thing would happen to you?
Don't do anything to them that you wouldn't want done to you. If really like him then wait until he is single.
Then you can have someone else's sloppy seconds.
Then again why should he want chopped liver when he has steak already?
If you do what you are thinking and telling us makes lady have a bad name. So for once think with big head and not some guys little head.
No you shouldn't dress sexy, get some PJ's on! (Not see threw)

Answer 4

I am *SO* going to be boooed to kingdom come for this.
Are You seriously ok with breaking up a relationship just to get in his pants? That is just downright MEAN. Do you *not* find this to be immoral? How would you feel if someone did that to you? And how exactly do you think doing something like that is going to effect your reputation? If you decide to do this, it cannot result in any good.

Just find someone else hotter to do your thing with, if you don't you may end up loosing a lot of friends, and having a easy reputation with the guys at your school.

Learn some manners, and think about this!!

Answer 5

Absolutely! And let him make the first move. Wear low cut tops with in reason, want to keep him guessing, nice tight jeans and skirts. shorts are a must. And a bathing suite. You want to let him get into small ares of the place too so you will have to squeeze by him. Look at him like, 'Oh , sorry" AND smile. Eye contact a must. and listen when he talks.

Answer 6

If he is involved, it is best that you leave him alone. Wait until he becomes available again. He will not think too much of you if you try to ruin his relationship. Dress as you normally would. If he is interested, he will make the move when he is ready. Never throw yourself at anyone. You are worth a lot more than that!!

Answer 7

Aren't u the devious one!! lol, if i was his girlfriend, I'd instantly dislike u, or think u a devilish minx!! lol...

Anyway (I'd know how it counter act ur plans)....so what u do is, wear something revealing, like a low cut shirt, with a tight jeans, or short skirt with a normal top...the aim is to be teasing, not a skank

...&night wear...lol...get the one with a message, like "im hot even while sleeping"..u know a cheeky message (it will have him smiling)...it its hot get the short shorts type (cotten) silk is overdoing it. Or a satin night dress one...but make sure they look like ones u would normally wear...

Answer 8

Come on as a sexual being, that's all you'll get out of him. If you're looking for a one-night stand - it shouldn't be terribly difficult. The better card to play would be a "oh poor me, my life is horrible, save me" while wearing some nice revealing clothes.

Answer 9

No.. you should not dress sexy for him! If you two feel a connection, it shouldn't be because you dressed sexy and caught his eye. If he likes you, it should be for you.. Even though I think it's a bit wrong to try and steal him away. Dress what you would usually wear so you are the most comfortable and confident.

Answer 10

i dont like the idea to dress sexy for a man that is involved with someone, but if you really like the guy then wear something that you think is pleasing to the eye!