their hearts broken.have you ever felt like you hate the person for broking your heart or hate that they chose to be with some other girl then to be with you?
2007-03-18 18:54:21 · 10 answers · asked by Carebear22 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Time heals all wounds.
2007-03-24 10:41:53 · answer #1 · answered by space boy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you. Something similar to your situation just happened to me about six weeks ago. I know it can seem like things won't get better or that you'll never find anyone better. But you will. Give yourself some time just to be sad. It's okay to want to mope around for a little while. I gave myself about a week just to be sad, and then I started to become angry.
What I've done is just completely avoid that boy and keep a good distance. Then get out and meet new people! Ask to tag along with some friends who are hanging out with people you don't know, maybe from another school. Get involved in clubs and church. It sounds like "typical" advice, but it helps. Not only may you meet another boy (I think I have!), but you'll make new friends. Making new friends reminds you that, YES, you are awesome!
Another thing I can suggest is have a Girl's Night. Just get all your best friends together. The bond between a girl and her friends is incredible--you'll realize there's more to life than the boy that broke your heart.
And even though you feel as though you hate him, what you may actually be feeling is hate toward the situation (i.e., you don't hate him for choosing someone else, you hate THAT he chose someone else). Unless he is taunting you or showing off his girl in front of you puposely, he is only doing what he feels is right in his heart. You cannot blame someone for who they like--it's not something that can be controlled.
Once you begin to get over your broken heart--and you will!--you will experience a happiness like no other. SO get out, try to find someone new, and treat that poor boy with as much respect and fairness as he deserves.
Good Luck!!
2007-03-27 02:02:14 · answer #2 · answered by YouDon'tEvenKnow! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I've had a couple of b/f's in the past that broke my heart but there was one in particular that took me the longest to get over with. Each time we broke up we always made up again. I was so in love with him and he played me each time like I was his little toy.
I finally let him go after he had told me he had fathered a baby after she was born. So, the whole time the other girl was pregnant, he never told me about it. I felt so much pain inside I really didn't think I could go on. That was the last straw for me.
And yes, it does take time for those feelings to go away. All them sleepless nights, the empty feeling in your heart, and the images that keep playing in your mind. You just have to keep your-self busy. Go out w/ friends, meet new people,make time w/ your co-workers and your family. Be around people that care about you and are not out to hurt you. That's how I got over him. And now I've been with my b/f for three years . Good luck, stay strong!
2007-03-26 23:28:39 · answer #3 · answered by madori890 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wish i had a spare hour to tell you all of my heartache as many girls would be extremely more aware of what guys get up 2....some guys not all....anyway about i had the boyfriend the best friend the great friend and 4 other friends that was basically my social group i used to feel so blessed thinking i had the greatest friends and boyfriend untill i found out he was BANGING every one of them as for my best friend of many many years might i add i would go to her house after an argument with my boyf and she would tell me she'd go sort it out and calm him down so left me with friend number two while she banged him to "calm" him down.... do you think i can trust many people these days no way i like many others have had my heart broken many times and ive been stupid enough to have it broken many many times by the same guy it really hurts but you learn or at least you hope to learn!
2007-03-27 00:55:24 · answer #4 · answered by www.girl2mum.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes yes yes,that really sucks.u feel betrayed and would like some kind of revenge-well atleast thats how it was 4me.In due time you,ll 4get cuz someone better will come along and u might even end up thanking the person who broke your heart.
2007-03-26 14:24:35 · answer #5 · answered by Baby Doll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my case it gets to a point where all you can feel is pain, everything hurts, you laugh just to hide your tears, it´s awful. The most pathetic thing is I don´t hate him, I hate myself, I blame myself even though I know I did nothing wrong.
2007-03-26 23:33:35 · answer #6 · answered by Cristina O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I break hearts, but I like this boy and his friend told him I liked him and he hasnt said anything, he's the "i dont care" type. but then if he doesnt like me, I'll just think "he's just not the one for me"
2007-03-27 01:21:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure its very frustrating but when you get in a relationship thats the risk you take..
2007-03-26 17:03:07 · answer #8 · answered by Parachutes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never felt heartbroken. Because im willing to let go the one i love. If ure heartbroken, u hurt urself. Ur willingness to let go, makes you feel more relieved and happy for him/her.
2007-03-26 05:46:45 · answer #9 · answered by aNjAsMaRa 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
yes very much so it is vry hard but it does get better over time you might not think so but it does
2007-03-19 02:05:39 · answer #10 · answered by oz_girl70 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋