Or is there always going to be hidden sexual feelings on one or both parts? call me skeptical
2007-03-18 23:27:12 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sweetabex i emailed you, i cant access my inbox at work though...the race is on though...although im full of questions today, i'm shooting myself in the foot i think!
2007-03-18 23:47:51 · update #1
another one i'm leaving for voting...lol i'm just a chicken when it comes to choosing a good answer!
2007-03-19 21:56:28 · update #2
yes, i have lots of male friends that there is not any sexual relationship between us.
but in my opinion best friendship it should be between a couples. some one who you trusted in and like him or her and now you would like to share with him or her your sextual feelings.
my husband should be my best friend.
2007-03-18 23:38:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is possible for a man and a woman to be just real good friends! That does not mean that the guy will not have the odd thought about sex with this woman just because the two of you are such good friends he will wonder what sex would be like with that lady. Good friends might mean even better sex? The obvious trick is to not follow through with the thoughts in any way, or even show that you have those feelings towards the lady, because it will change the entire dynamic structure of the friendship!! Which is more important to the guy? The really good friendship that will last a long time, or one or two nights of sex-that might not even be that good and then no friendship at all with the woman?
2007-03-18 23:34:53 · answer #2 · answered by dragondave187 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
on no account interior an identical way 2 human beings of an identical gender (hetero) could be acquaintances. That being suggested those with self administration and understand for the different can look after a brother sister courting inspite of the undeniable fact that spending quite some time with somebody you like as a chum very almost perpetually finally ends up in some thing romantic arising. this is why putting out with your acquaintances boyfriend each and every of the time isn't a sturdy concept. inspite of the terrific of intentions human nature maintains to be an identical.
2016-12-18 17:34:22 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible.. I have a few female friends that are among the closest group of friends I got. One of them has a boyfriend but I still go to her and ask her about problems with females when I have trouble with them... Of course there maybe hidden sexual feelings but usually that won't happen or manifest if there's a clear mutual understanding.. just what I think :)
2007-03-19 12:38:46 · answer #4 · answered by Shadow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I have several male friends and there are no hidden sexual feelings on my part and I'm sure not on their part since I'm not exactly the kind of prize a guy lusts after (not putting myself down, just being realistic). Anyway, I do believe male and female can be friends without all the sex going on.
2007-03-18 23:37:52 · answer #5 · answered by jingles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope so because I would like to be friends! Seriously though, yes I believe so, do you have a sister, if so then you might know what I mean. I have brothers and they are great friends and obviously sex is never an issue. There is only going to be those feelings if you are attracted to a woman in that way, or her attracted to you.
btw did you get my latest email sent today, i want to race you to level 3!
2007-03-18 23:36:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think male/female "good friends" is a myth. There is always this underlying sexual tension and one of them will usually have hidden feelings for the other. So, I'm with you. Godloveya.
2007-03-18 23:31:15 · answer #7 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so, unless you grew up with each other and thought of each other as say cousin or brother/sister. I have met men that I enjoy the company of, and who I would like to be friends with, but am not attracted to. But they have wanted more from me. I currently am attracted to a man who I really like, but I am not sure how he feels about me. So we have been 'friends' for over a year now. Too confusing!
2007-03-18 23:34:34 · answer #8 · answered by ( . ) ( . ) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've set up a false dilemma. You assume that good friends can't have hidden sexual feelings.
In any case, the answer is yes and no.
2007-03-18 23:30:49 · answer #9 · answered by Chris A 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah unless they are both too ugly to be attractive to the opposite sex, then yes there are always sexual and usually very emotional feelings by atleast one of the parties involved.
2007-03-18 23:32:59 · answer #10 · answered by ap 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I have tried to have many guy friends in college and it always led to other things. It's not possible for me. Maybe it's because I never had a brother though. I bet that has something to do with it!!
2007-03-18 23:34:49 · answer #11 · answered by Dovey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋