it all startd one fine day. i was just chatting over internet and i found this lovely girl.accidently we joined in the same college.
we used to talk, we used to hang out at the college cafateria, we used to text each other till late nigts n all of a sudden we broke up. i dont know why but we haven't talked to her since a long time{about 2 months} .i have got feelings for her. i feel for her. i wish i say her that i love her. but when i tried to contact her she never replies. whenever i try to talk to her at the college she avoids me.
i have never been rude towards her. i haven't even told any one about our relation. then why is she avoiding me?
i am really confused.
plz do help me out
2007-03-18 23:20:40 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she must have heard something about you..you need to mak her listen to you...Good luck.
2007-03-26 23:20:44 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take a break. Anything that comes easily do not have value and since you were easily available, she has started taking you for granted. Just move away. That is the best way to attract her back. May be you are overcrowding her. Giving a gap always help. Moreover I do not believe in your conincidence theory. Somebody has worked towards this coincidence of both joining the same college. so let that person make the move, if it is not you.
2007-03-24 17:34:27 · answer #2 · answered by krish g 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She has possibly decided that you are not a person that she wishes to have a relationship with.
Send her an email, asking her if she no longer wishes to be friends with you. Try not to be threatening, pushy or portray any anger towards her while writting...or she may not respond. Give her time to respond without sending emails over and over.
She may also feel that you aren't the person she 'thought' you were via the net. That happens a lot, because we tend to invision someone differently when talking via the net....then we do when we're face to face.
Good luck and I hope you find out why she's been avoiding you.
2007-03-18 23:25:50 · answer #3 · answered by Carlene M 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
This means that she really loves and avoiding because you might have accidentally or incidentally expressed your desire and she is avoiding you. She is expecting that studies are to be given prime importance and next earnings and then settlement in life. So, exprressing love has to take all these steps and you both then come together. First prove that you are bright student and also need her company for good cause and future get together only.
2007-03-26 22:36:54 · answer #4 · answered by sr50kandala 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It might be a hard thing to d but let her go her own way and you go your own, worry about your schooling and think of nothing but the good times. If she contacts you one day and decides to give you a reason to why shes been avoiding you then she is a good woman, but if she doesnt then she's no good...
2007-03-26 23:07:24 · answer #5 · answered by elsuicidareydecorazones 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
remember if u have done somthing wrong to her just say sorry to her and try to ask her about the matter ,...if it dosen't work just do the same as she do,.if she loves u or she has any feeling for u she will try to join u ....be tight for sometime then replied her if she is still avoiding u then forget her she is not the correct one for u ..............ANYWAY YAAR DON'T LOSE HOPE everything will be fine best of luck..... hope for the best for u buddy..........
2007-03-23 00:20:11 · answer #6 · answered by Paddy.da.heartwinner 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
did you tell about your relationship to any of your friends who is her friend also? maybe this is because of this reason she avoids talking to you. maybe her frriends tease or discourage her, saying that you are her boyfriend. maybe she is not feeling comfortable with you. whatever it may be but if you love her, then in my opinion better don't tell her this time. let some time pass and then try to contact her again. never ever try to enforce her to talk to you. just try agin calmly. i am sure she will talk to you
2007-03-19 00:39:46 · answer #7 · answered by Kanishk Rawat 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe she realised ur not the same guy u were when youll talked on the net and since u guys were in the same college and stuff ... the mystery died and she knew u for who u really are and she doesnt like u anymore... simple as that !!! let her go n u move on as well....
2007-03-26 22:14:53 · answer #8 · answered by I V X 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
most likely she realized where the relationship and/or your feelings were headed and wanted to avoid the situation without having to indirectly hurt your feelings. though she has done so a little bit already
2007-03-26 16:11:07 · answer #9 · answered by LuvUrGirl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Fate's here to put both of you together. Dont worry. Be confident. She needs time to get over it. Soon, you will find that love is standing next to you, holding your hand and walking with you.
2007-03-25 22:52:16 · answer #10 · answered by aNjAsMaRa 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It seems, She is no more interested or attracted towards you. Just forget her and concentrate on your studies.
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2007-03-24 01:21:11 · answer #11 · answered by dil se 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋