This is a weird question...that's why I'm coming to yahoo answers for advice lol
My boyfriend of 4 years sent me a text message around 4 in the morning telling me he had a confession to make and went on to tell me that the other day when his best friend (male) was there he performed oral sex on him. I assumed he was just trying to see what my reaction was so I asked him if he was serious a few times and he assured me he was serious and wasn't lying. I ended up calling him and he said he was just playin trying to "turn me on" We got off the phone and he sent me a few texts telling me he was just messin around, then I told him I had forwarded all of those messages to his friend and he called immediately then sent me a msg asking why I'm so mean. (I didn't really send them to him)
Anyway, I don't know if I should be concerned, mad or what. I'm assuming it probably didn't happen but it kinda worries me that he would even say it. Any advice?
2007-03-18 23:03:23 · 10 answers · asked by LLTTF 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah, somebody that loves you shouldn't tell you something like that to get you all riled up. Either way he lied. He either lied about doing it or he lied about not doing it. But that is a terrible thing to lie about.
2007-03-18 23:09:50 · answer #1 · answered by Patrick E 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask the friend to come over to your place one night with your bf there too and start making out with your bf really good hot stuff then just get up say you have to go to pee and say oh .... insert bf name there why dont you keep things going by giving ....... insert other guys name here. when you come back for the pee if there doing it or it looks like they are going to then you know your bf is atleast bi and you should either have a 3some then or wait and have both of them tested or dump him
2007-03-20 15:20:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
k, then,
thats weird
first of ull, it might not be true, cause u know guys at times,
can be stupid, so maybe hes just pulling a trcik on u, and yet maybe it really did happen,
i think that u should talk to ur bf first, cause why would he send it to u so early for?
then i think that u should go to his friends and ask him what really happened and if it did happen at all,
and if its true,
iam sorry to say but it looks like ur bf turning gay,
2007-03-19 06:15:16 · answer #3 · answered by emily j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he may of been testing you or may of really done it. Either way he is having thoughts about being with another man. I would try to talk to him about it, that is the only way you are going to know for sure. Most guys wouldn't joke around like that.
2007-03-19 06:12:01 · answer #4 · answered by sss_1122 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that is alittle freaky but most guys are turned on by lesbians like if you were to "do" a girl for him hed love you mroe lol and maybe he thoguht a girl would like the smae thing so he was not lien... i would never say it though
2007-03-19 06:10:40 · answer #5 · answered by d-lion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think no body has the guts to say a thing after doing it
it just a prank dont worry be happy
2007-03-19 06:15:57 · answer #6 · answered by w32(virus) -- am'back 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What boyfriend would say this to his girlfriend?It's wierd. I might consider moving on to a more normal guy.
2007-03-19 06:10:54 · answer #7 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is sick, he must be gay, get rid of him and if he is even saying stuff like that, then he is thinking about it. I think he did do that, and that he is going to do that again. You don't want to ruin your future with someone who is't sure who he is. Let him go.
2007-03-19 06:43:30 · answer #8 · answered by chez006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need a new bf; he has mental problems.
2007-03-19 06:12:35 · answer #9 · answered by supertop 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has no respect and no appreciation...immature..
2007-03-19 06:10:59 · answer #10 · answered by chaminda l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋