Singles & Dating - 16 March 2007

I posted this same question a number of months ago now... and it all calmed down... now it's all fired up again with some extra's.

Since I became single after a long term relationship about 4 months ago I have this one girl that I once dated who wont get off my case.

She keeps inviting me out for drinks - I constantly decline
She calls me up asking to come round for a chat - I pretend I'm already expecting friends round.
She calls me up randomly saying she needs to talk, like we're best friends or something.

Also!

As we both go to some of the same places together she's now purposely asking me for lifts home and because I'm a nice chap and don't want to see her left with no-way of getting home but the last couple of times she asks me to go in for a drink, or to listen to some music she's been putting together, and I keep having to make excuses. . . . . . . . . . .

I would have thought she'd have got the message by now!
In the nicest possible way..... HOW do I get rid of her???

2007-03-16 00:26:13 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok, let's face it. we all do stupid things when we're "in-love" or infatuated. let's see...... I had a boyfriend who I broke up with on the day I said yes to another guy and guess what? it was our monthsary. I know it was harsh, but I thought I liked the other guy better. after a few months, I realized, I loved my old boyfriend, so I broke up with mr. # 2 and chose my old bf and we have been together now for 5 years. what I did was foolish but it turned out to be a blessing... how 'bout you? what's your story.....?

2007-03-16 00:24:52 · 7 answers · asked by aeijae 1

Here am I stuck with this girl.She s real hot and I like her.The problematic part is that I ve never talked to her.But one thing I ve noticed is that she keeps staring at me and looks away when I look back. this s been happening for months.

MANY TIMES IT HAPPENS WITH OTHER GIRLS TOO!!

DO YOU THINK SHE LIKES ME???
DO YOU THINK I LOOK GOOD???

2007-03-16 00:24:06 · 8 answers · asked by him h 1

My real name is kathleen and i am a boy. Anybody thinks kathleen sounds good for a guys name?

2007-03-16 00:23:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

add me to your allow list (tempushull63) to give me a decent answer, if you're a Mistress then let me know

2007-03-16 00:22:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

if ur single then we can date here how eh u like it.... im 18 handsome, muscular, strong, soccer player, pretty i'll let on u to judge, so put ur yahoo or wateva u prefer n i'll jump to you, please care i've got some feelings here to share haha

2007-03-16 00:20:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Last summer I made friends with this girl. We worked together and had a really great relationship. I am 21 and am at college. She is 18 and at a boarding school at the other end of the country, and so I only get to see her during her school holidays. However I am still in touch with her by text messages and emails. At New Year she invited me to her party and we had a great time, and it was then I realised I was in love with her. The only thing is I am not sure if she loves me or not, and I want to tell her I love her, but don't want to ruin our friendship, what should I do? Also how shoud I ask her out, should I wait till her next school holiday and ask her in person, or should I do it by text or email?

2007-03-16 00:19:59 · 9 answers · asked by Matthew H 1

I tried the relationship thing but I got tired of all the bs that goes on. I never found any physical intimacy there.

2007-03-16 00:18:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-16 00:16:06 · 17 answers · asked by Reem 1

GUESS WHO IS HE ?

2007-03-16 00:15:32 · 10 answers · asked by mubashar jan 1

this greek guy just moved in next door,he is so loud,i had a little chat with him and thought would be nice of me cuz he id new here, he asked me about my origins so i told him that i am half french half turkish( but that was waaaaaaay too back and thats a long story) when i told him the word turkish he said "u r a turk?! " in a very bad and rude way , i told him that was way back and i am a baptist " u r a turk, that explains what u r, it doesnt matter if u were muslim or a christian u all act the same...( its a bit long)" i said to my self "huh? what is wrong with him" and why did he forget my french part?,so my qs is>>>>>>>>> do all greek ppl behave that way? or this guy is just rude and racist?<< <<<

2007-03-16 00:15:19 · 6 answers · asked by jimi 1

look i cant find a gal of my choice but im trying my best, but now theres no way to control on myself i really gotta find a gal to DO!!! so help my feelings please...

2007-03-16 00:11:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Even if your straight to the point and very clear about what you are trying to say.

2007-03-16 00:10:36 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2

hey guys, please post ur opinion, i need to know,ans.

SO I work with this girl. (Really like her) she seemS interested in me too.
she gave me her number.

I call her after few days.

no ans.

i call agian. we talk for few.

next week we're fine. (we talk, smile) at work

Couple of days later i call her again, she doesn’t ans.
she calls back after few hours. (i was going to bed, but wasn't sleeping.)

she says. "someone called me?" i said, “NO” but after a sec. i said “Yes, I did, I was just kidding.”(GOT me thinking she didn't save my number) so we talk for 2,3min then she says, sorry to bother you, I’ll let you go back to bed.

Next day at work, she try to avoid eye contect, didn’t talk. She try to ignore me. (that's so unlike her with me)

SO I DID THE SAME.

BUT TODAY SHE TRY TO TALK TO ME AGAIN.
she TRY TO START THE COV.

I REALLY LIKE HER, I WANT TO ASK HER OUT.

SHOULD I DO IT THIS WEEKEND? MAYBE TEXT HER?
what do i say?

SHOULD I WAIT?

2007-03-16 00:08:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ideally free, but maybe as high as $10 for the whole date.

2007-03-16 00:08:23 · 8 answers · asked by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6

I ended up sleeping with a guy on a very drunken night. At the time i had a boyfriend and he was 'sorting things out' with his ex, and we both agreed it wouldnt happen again (as he is friends with my boyfriend). But after a few days we spoke again and met up, me and my boyfriend broke up as it wasnt working and i have continued to see the other guy once a week or so, but at the moment im getting mixed signals, he doesn't really contact me, but he did at first, and doesnt seem as keen to meet. But when we do meet he says we have to stop meeting up cos he will start to really like me, and that he has been thinking about me loads and the reason he has not got back together with his x is cos we keep meeting up.If all this what he says is true then why doesnt he contact me anymore?he doesnt respond to my txts and if he does she is very blunt. is he just saying that stuff when he sees me cos he thinks its what i want to here?or is that how he really feels?

2007-03-16 00:08:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Women tell me they are different from men. They dont need visuals (porn etc etc) for them to get aroused...they need more of touch, feel smell etc for them to climax...

But i have a chat friend likes to get aroused by showing herself off to me on cam...ofcourse i do arouse her with my words & fantasies...

Is it that all women are different?

2007-03-16 00:06:04 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-16 00:05:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a boyfriend and we both love eah other so much but we arent thinking of marriage right now bc we are still in college the prblem is that he wants me to know his mother and she wants to talk to me what can i do i am confused and afraid from this step help thanks for all the people that would help me

2007-03-16 00:03:11 · 12 answers · asked by oh no 2

We dated for 2 yrs. Things were good initially. In this period i was cheated on, lied and disrespected . Now im seeing this other guy and have hurt him a couple of times by lying to him and meeting my ex. He took me back everytime. I have done it again to him and the reason is again my ex. My ex wants me back and promises to treat me right and also is willing to marry me and speak to my parents. What is the right thing. Forget the new guy in my life who has only given me love or give my ex who i love deeply for 2 yrs another chance. Am confused. Cant get myself from moving on with anyone else??

2007-03-16 00:00:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous