Singles & Dating - 16 March 2007

I'm very sorry this is so long I'm just VERY UPSET and need to let this out so please read!!!!

PLEASE I'M SO UPSET RIGHT NOW PLEASE!! i'm sorry i didn't mean for it to be this long i just need to let this all out!

PLEASE TAKE THE TIME TO READ THIS PLEASE!! I AM CRYING SO MUCH I CAN BARLEY TYPE!!!!

I have two best friends "Tori" and "Rachel." I'm a senior in high school. Tori and i got into a fight in the beginning of the year. She made fun of me because i thought Abraham Lincoln was black! (HE IS BLACK!!) I know i am right! I accident "swung at her" and hit her in the face. She had to get ice but it was on accident. I apologized to her about a million times. After that she went around to the whole school and told everyone how I had hit her and people have been making fun of me ever since! I am crying all the time because of that! Anyways recently within the past month she did apologize for her actions and has been sticking up for me quite a bit.

…this is where all of the problems start…Tori, Rachel, and I was all supposed to go to prom together with a group of other people! We had to buy tickets this week. Rachel Told me Tori and her boyfriend and everyone else to buy tickets on Wednesday. That was the last day to buy tickets. We all agreed to bring our money then. Tuesday while we were walking up to the field house for track practice Rachel was talking really badly about Tori calling her dumb and etc. Little did we realize that Tori was right behind us. So we get into the field house and Rachel dropped the bomb on me that neither me nor Tori nor her boyfriend were invited to prom anymore. She told us that she had already filled her table with 10 people, the limo was full and the hotel was booked already. She apologized for forgetting to tell us all of this. I was crying hysterically. I don’t have many friends and Rachel is my only one true friend. Now at that time I couldn’t go to prom because of it.

Tori then flipped out at Rachel and told her that she heard everything that she had said about her while we were walking to the field house. She then told me that Rachel was talking really really badly about me! She told me that Rachel said she did not want to go to the college she got into because she found out I would be attending there too. Tori then admitted that she had not always been the “best friend to me” but was recently sticking up for me. (WHICH SHE HAS BEEN) and that’s the truth. Any who Rachel denies ever saying that. She told me why she would ever say a thing like that if she was rooming with me at college. Which makes sense? Rachel then said she hadn’t always said “nice” things about me but she would never say anything like that.

I don’t know what to do now!! I’m so upset…now Tori said she’s not going to prom and going to go to her boyfriends prom at his school because she wants nothing to do with Rachel and is upset by what Rachel had done and wants to avoid drama. Tori invited me to go with her and her boyfriend to Virginia the day of our prom.

But…then Rachel said she had enough room for me in the limo and such on Wednesday the day I was buying the tickets so now I am going to prom! But I’m still upset by what happened. She wouldn’t Allow Tori to come but Tori said she doesn’t care anymore because all of this is childish drama that she refuses to get involved in.

2007-03-16 04:09:29 · 7 answers · asked by Jackie R 1

i dont want it to look too much like a date. thing is i asked him if he wanted to do something over easter (otherwise i wouldnt have seen him for a month or so) and he gave me his number. we work in the same company and about 2 or 3 times a week we are in the same meeting (but other than that i dont c him all week, big company, work in different buildings). the meeting is normally at the end of the day so we (all work people, bout 20) sometimes go to the pub so i have talked to him and we get on really well, and well im afraid if i ask him on a real date he might say no or it goes all wrong and then it will be weird everytime we c each other.
I really dont know what i could ask him out to. And if i find somethign than what do i talk to him about? Its so hard to get a conversation started because i cant ask those simple things like "what do u like doing?" or even "what do u do as a job?" or something like that because i already know those things.
Please help.

2007-03-16 04:09:25 · 1 answers · asked by Finn 3

I dated a man for about a year. We broke up about five months ago and have recently again started talking. He would like to be friends and see where things go. I am all for that, I've missed him as a friend but am not sure if it is possible once you've had a romantic relationship with someone to go back to JUST being friends without the other benefits. Anyone have any good advise or gone through anything similar??

2007-03-16 04:08:28 · 5 answers · asked by T C 3

Please bear with me cause this question is pretty long:

about two months ago i met someone on-line. He is a friend i met in 360. Whenever he and me get together it is a total laugh feast! We have a completely compatible sence of humor and are about the same age and he is such a sweetheart and calls me his special friend. Problem now is that he wants to take our relationship to the next level through IM and picture sending but i am afraid to. Not that i don't trust him but i am just afraid to develop stronger feelings for him and then have to meet him or something, i have never had an on-line relationship am afraid to fall in love this way its just too bizzare for me, what should i do?

2007-03-16 04:08:05 · 12 answers · asked by mickeymousesucks50 1

W.h.o.r.e?
there is this girl in my class who called me a wh.o.re.
what do i say to her?

2007-03-16 04:07:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am with this guy... which I really love him and he lives in Texas and I live in Iowa... its not that far but still is that a good thing or a bad thing? I just thought I would get other people's perspective and see what they might have to say about it... No we have not met yet but we are working on that right now..

2007-03-16 04:07:46 · 14 answers · asked by glitt002001 1

Would you rather have a girl who is close to your height at eye level or would you rather have a girl who is smaller than you and has to look up to you to talk.. I know some men like tall women and some like the petite statured.. what is your preference and why??

2007-03-16 04:07:03 · 16 answers · asked by *starrynight* 1

I still love my ex-boyfriend darrin and he single but he wants me to ask him out. I'm a shy girl. I also think it's easier to ask a girl out cause i'm a female myself so I know how to aprouch them but the male sex I don't understand. how would i ask him out without being to strong or not strong enough.

2007-03-16 04:04:57 · 4 answers · asked by hotlocaangel16 1

I'm Gonna Make This To The Point:
-Boyfriend and I very happy, Madly in Love.
-Talked on the phone EVERY night.
-Put me before everything.
-Said I was the most important thing.

....Ok now however, he got this new job and he works from the time he finishes classes until 12 am sometimes 1..
he doesn't call anymore, he only texts..and sometimes I don't hear from him at all. He doesn't make any free time for me. When he's not working, I still don't see him. I told him that I felt like our relatioship was fading and falling apart...and he said that he's doing everything he can to make it not fall apart (but he's not doing anything) and then he said he was sorry I felt that way but that's not how it is. He said if anything was wrong he would tell me and to stop feeling that way. I've hardly seen him in a month. I don't feel loved/important/cared about...anything. What should I do? He doesn't even tell me he misses me anymore but INSISTS that it's just temporary! Help! I feel lonely.

2007-03-16 04:03:44 · 13 answers · asked by imperfectsimplicity 1

I've been with the same man for 3 years and every 6 months or so I obtain evidence that he is talking to, having sex with, or emotional relationships with other women. He denies it, blames me for being nosey and gives me the cold shoulder. I love this man and if it wasnt for being absolutly terrified of being alone I would leave.

2007-03-16 04:02:41 · 21 answers · asked by Kim O 1

alright mates what does it mean when a girl is mad then sad then happy between in the same hour. my gilfriend has gone somewhere in the zone. she is always fussing then forgeting what she did i have no idea to get this deal done. and i want to stay with her. she is my first if you know what i mean and she says she loves me but i dont know. it is diffucult to know what is wrong i am about to go nuts. last night she came in and broke my flatscreen/ fishaqurime / and tried to shoot me and she still always comes back for more support that her parents didnt give her / her parents hate her. and they curse her out for everything so i need all the advice i can get mates. Please................

2007-03-16 04:01:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

we have been going out for a month, and we kiss all the time, but we never actually make out. there were a couple times when we kiss with our mouths open, but everthing else is just pecks on the lips. i know she is not prude because she has had a lot of boyfreinds before me. i just don't get why she doesn't go for it on me. i try on her, but i don't want to force her into anything. i just don't know if i should talk to her about it, or if i should just go for it. how do you think i should handle this?????

2007-03-16 04:00:35 · 17 answers · asked by rubickmaster 1

does this hapend to any one elase why does this happen to me ????????????????????? i always dream im having sex with my boyfirends brother and i seam 2 like it wats wrong with me

2007-03-16 04:00:11 · 3 answers · asked by ciara 2

Do you really think it is a good idea to meet someone off myspace? Or would you rather meet someone at a bar? or a grocery store? or a coffee shop?, somewhere in public is what i'm trying to get at. Think about it, the longer the answer the better.

2007-03-16 04:00:10 · 10 answers · asked by Deformation Age 4

My ex is making me confused. Sometimes he will be very concerned about me, sometimes he will just ignore me totally and sometimes he said he has moved on already and we are just friends. He once said that there will be a chance for us to get together but he's not sure when.

He keeps changing his mind!! I'm going crazy. HELP ME. AHHH

2007-03-16 03:58:22 · 7 answers · asked by Grace 3

My girls cooter smells like dead fish and I wish it wouldn't. I don't have the heart to tell her but it burns my nostrils everytime I go near it. The problem is...she is soooo hot. What should I do to let her know?

2007-03-16 03:57:56 · 9 answers · asked by Patsfan34 2

I met someone two months ago and i love her. (we have been talking for a year) I know that she is good for me and i know that one day I would like to marry her. When do i know to propose to her? I treat her good and cherish everything about her and she does the same. pls help give a time. she says that she would like a year at least before she gets a ring and three years to get married.

2007-03-16 03:53:26 · 10 answers · asked by chazzz 3

ok my friend tried to hook me up with this guy that i dont even know! on myspace he always messages me sayin im in love with******** its getting so annoying! i tried once and told him that i didnt like him but he refuses to stop! what should i do>?

2007-03-16 03:51:19 · 15 answers · asked by britt 1

2007-03-16 03:50:44 · 11 answers · asked by ya ok....sure 2

I am 17 years old about 5'9 and 150 Ib. I am a very compasionate person and easy to talk to. Any girl interested
My email adress is Sk8erdude89@aol.com

2007-03-16 03:50:13 · 10 answers · asked by sk8erdude89 1

thats what my bf said yesturday we didnt go all the way but he said "you thrusted so hard that i'm hurting it's hard to get comfortable when sitting" is that bad am i bad or is it just chafing please i need to know so i can change for the better THANKS in advance

2007-03-16 03:49:48 · 5 answers · asked by Big girl 2

How can you tell if your relationship is over?

2007-03-16 03:49:32 · 20 answers · asked by nc 3

Do you think that people in the office are getting made at me because everytime they walk away I'm using their PCs to set up new yahoo accounts?

2007-03-16 03:48:16 · 33 answers · asked by The Real Karen 1

Making a deep connection quickly with a woman is a skill that most guys lack. They speak in logical ways, do not listen, and relate everything the woman says to themselves instead of trying to understand things from her point of view. This makes it difficult to establish a connection, evoke feelings in her, and make her feel like she has had a great conversation. so would u plz tel us what can we do?

2007-03-16 03:45:17 · 6 answers · asked by blacksince 1

Okay, me and my ex girlfriend broke up a many months ago I asked her out again a little while later after the break up and she rejected me and we started talking again months later having fun with each other that it's ending up just like before we started going out. Now I have some feelings for her but I feel like I'm getting lead on. Another problem is that her mother is a religious lunatic. I have a strong faith in Christ but she's just way out there that it she seems more like a cult follower than a Christian. Her mother tried to "Convert" me or whatever and that went horribly for her and about 2 weeks later we broke up. I have no problem with what denomination of Christianity she is, cuz I love her for who she is not for "what" she is. But I don't get the same in return. Her mother's convinced her that "I'm not one of them". She shows interest when she's around me but ignores me when her family is around, even when she invites me over to be with her family. What's the deal??

2007-03-16 03:44:27 · 9 answers · asked by Jose L 1

Not real hard as to to leave a mark...but just to make it jiggle.

2007-03-16 03:43:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i've had a crush on him for about 6 months. he has a girlfriend. i used to be jealous. but i got over it. i tried and find another person to crush on , but i don't like anyone else at my school. how do i get over my best guy friend. i don't think about him that much anymore. i want to get all of him out of me though. We've been knowing each for 3 years. I assume if he didn't try to go with me by now. he does not like me, so i have to move on. please tell me how. we take all our classes together.

2007-03-16 03:43:09 · 7 answers · asked by North Cali Girl 1

I need some help..I don't know what to do..Our 6 month anniversary is coming up..I'm going to buy her flowers and dinner but I need a gift..I'm looking to spend probably around 100 dollars..Any ideas? Plz help No bed and breakfast..I'm saving that for a year!

2007-03-16 03:42:07 · 6 answers · asked by sliggy04 2

know this guy have a crush on me. When I am speaking to another man, this is at work, he always calls my name to go do something or when I am playing around with a man the guy just walks off. When we are in a group and theirs nothing but men their and little old me he makes it a point for me to be recongized.

2007-03-16 03:41:20 · 10 answers · asked by curious 2

ok i do no what sex IS and how dangerous, and im not gonna get pregnant, he WILL use a condom and i am on birth control, nothing i havent woriied about before..and every time i see him he ask when when when..i have been with him since 5th grade and im ready but i just dont no much about it just how dangerous it is..i dont no haw to do "it"

2007-03-16 03:40:49 · 27 answers · asked by Katie H 1