I met someone two months ago and i love her. (we have been talking for a year) I know that she is good for me and i know that one day I would like to marry her. When do i know to propose to her? I treat her good and cherish everything about her and she does the same. pls help give a time. she says that she would like a year at least before she gets a ring and three years to get married.
2007-03-16 03:53:26 · 10 answers · asked by chazzz 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your girl sounds to have a sound mind. I agree with her idea of waiting to get married. Even though you both have been talking for a year, two months going together is too short of time to decide on serious issues such as marriage. Continue to value your relationship with her and use this time to get to know each other better. By doing this and enjoying each others company you will be surprised at how fast the years go by. Before you know it you both will be walking down that aisle, saying "I do". Best of luck to you both.
2007-03-16 04:03:53 · answer #1 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slow it down a little. Sounds like she has a good head on her shoulders. There is no reason to rush if you both love each other. Is she in school? Just starting a career? Maybe is just wants to be sure you are right for each other. It is all new right now, give it time to really know each other. Maybe she would like a house and a family someday and afraid that if it gets rushed, things will happen and you will end up in a rutt. Are her parents still together? If they arent she may have bitter feelings for it. Just give it some time and approach it again in a few months. Let the relationship take its course. You love will only get stronger
2007-03-16 11:04:30 · answer #2 · answered by tcg7213 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have only been together for 2 months ............... You say you love her already? You don't even really know her yet ........... I think you are infatuated but not in love. You need to wait at least a year and see if your feelings are still the same. It takes a good year to really know someone. I would say if your still together in a year you can propose then. Set the wedding for 2 years after that.
2007-03-16 11:01:06 · answer #3 · answered by harleychickfatboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is a big issue. She just wants to be sure that the marriage will last if she accepts your proposal. In the meantime, take the time to get to know her better. Your love for each other will grow more in the future.
All the best!
2007-03-16 11:02:10 · answer #4 · answered by Grace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait it out. I'd also try living together for a period of time before committing to a marriage - the time you spend together can really determine how well you'd work together in a marriage.
2007-03-16 10:59:31 · answer #5 · answered by MBE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well wait her,that`s a good proof of your love to her, try to tell her with jokes and talks not very serious about your thoughts and then you can see how she reacts, otherwise there can be problems, maybe she wants to do more things before she gets that kind of commitment and it`s completely natural, :)
2007-03-16 10:58:43 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Madison♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a lady says she wants to wait then you wait
2007-03-16 10:56:23 · answer #7 · answered by deeshamon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love on a time line.... how interesting.
2007-03-16 10:57:34 · answer #8 · answered by QueenBean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait for her if u really love her and care about her
2007-03-16 10:58:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When she's ready. You don't want to ruin her wishes would you? if you love her then you would wait.
2007-03-16 10:56:46 · answer #10 · answered by vexen431 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋