Please bear with me cause this question is pretty long:
about two months ago i met someone on-line. He is a friend i met in 360. Whenever he and me get together it is a total laugh feast! We have a completely compatible sence of humor and are about the same age and he is such a sweetheart and calls me his special friend. Problem now is that he wants to take our relationship to the next level through IM and picture sending but i am afraid to. Not that i don't trust him but i am just afraid to develop stronger feelings for him and then have to meet him or something, i have never had an on-line relationship am afraid to fall in love this way its just too bizzare for me, what should i do?
2007-03-16 04:08:05 · 12 answers · asked by mickeymousesucks50 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are kinds of dangers and potholes to online dating. The obvious is the long distance thing which never really works out well. There is also a danger issue. There are lots of bad people online and you put ourself and your family in danger if this person ends up being a nut.
2007-03-16 04:11:59 · answer #1 · answered by Devdude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this is a kind of your call type of issue. I've known females that have met guys online and have travelled all the way across the continent to meet them and it's been a wonderful experience. They did not formulate a long term relationship but they are still friends to this day. They stay in contact and still visit online as often as they can. On the other hand, I do not know about the individual to whom you speak. You need to assess for yourself if this feels right for you. I know, the nut cases out there makes it bad for the real people online that are seeking to meet like mates and to have a fulfilling relationship. You need to let this person know all of these things. If he means anything to you he will understand. Take care lovey and don't fret because there is someone out there for everyone even if they haven't been born yet. Good luck.
2007-03-16 11:21:56 · answer #2 · answered by Leona 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont have to be afraid. lots of people meet over the internet. A friend of mine was just the same when she met this guy on the internet and she decided to go out with him and know they have been together for 2 years and even have a little boy and still are sooo happy with each other. so if u think that u could really like him then go ahead and meet him. u have the chance to be happy here so take it. good luck.
2007-03-16 11:14:48 · answer #3 · answered by Finn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a chance .............. he might be the one.
Don't be afraid to take chances if you do your life will slip away and you will always look back and say What if....?
I dated someone from the internet and we ended up dating for 2 years he was a great guy. We split up because we were 200 miles apart and I didnt want to sell my house and he didnt want to sell his because we liked where we lived but neither one of us was willing to budge on that.
We seen eachother on the weekends .. we alternated he would come to my house for one then I would go to his the next.
2007-03-16 11:13:27 · answer #4 · answered by harleychickfatboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one here really is able to answer this but YOU. How do you feel about it? Do you wanna take it to a higher level with this guy? Do you see yourself meeting him in person in the future?
2007-03-16 11:11:41 · answer #5 · answered by RareBird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should probably be careful, but i mean it does happen all of the time people fall in love over the internet. maybe you should talk to him on the phone so you can hear the real him and get to know his personality better good luck
2007-03-16 11:12:15 · answer #6 · answered by ~ashley~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really believe you can fall in love with someone on-line--but that is my personal belief. You can fall in love with the idea of him, because to be honest you don't really know anything about him other than on-line.
Do what you are comfortable with.
2007-03-16 11:12:49 · answer #7 · answered by intewonfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it but make sure he's not some old pervert posing as someone your age.
2007-03-16 11:12:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN long distance relationships never work and you know absolutely nothing CERTAIN about this guy...
2007-03-16 11:12:27 · answer #9 · answered by geminihawgs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a fan of internet dating.... it's just not very safe. I would recommend stepping away from it. If you don't, just be careful.
2007-03-16 11:12:46 · answer #10 · answered by afwife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋