Do you really think it is a good idea to meet someone off myspace? Or would you rather meet someone at a bar? or a grocery store? or a coffee shop?, somewhere in public is what i'm trying to get at. Think about it, the longer the answer the better.
2007-03-16 04:00:10 · 10 answers · asked by Deformation Age 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I like myspace because I can talk to friends that have moved, but my boyfriend got mad at me when he found out I had a myspace and said I'm not allowed to have one so he made me delete it
But i'd never met anyone, but I know this one girl who did a couple of years ago and now they're married
2007-03-16 04:07:46 · answer #1 · answered by Peacen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think for young people that yes, they shouldn't be doing the online dating thing. Or trying to meet any strangers for that matter. Too many parents today don't keep track of what their kids are doing. (Not all of them just a large majority--I know plenty who do). For adults, however, I don't see how it is any different from the other dating sites. I prefer not to go to the bars, I live in a bigger town, so you don't just meet people out and about. I've never met anyone on "my space", I'm basically on their to communicate with my family and a few friends and we post pics for eachother. I have dated through online dating and met people and most of them are no different than people you'd meet anywhere else. There are definintely some weirdo's out there, but you just have to be careful in your screening process before agreeing to meet. I always meet them somewhere public for the first time and dont give them all my personal information upfront so it's really not a bad thing. I've met some great people on line. Sometimes you just don't know, maybe that's where your other half is...out there in cyberspace and unless you take a chance you may never meet.
2007-03-16 04:15:00 · answer #2 · answered by debrenee211 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would recommend somewhere in a very populated area that also gives you a lot of "outs". I've had a mixed variety - most people I meet are fantastic, and I can't wait to hang out with them again once meeting them. A handful of times, I was stuck with the most horrible/boring/whatever person known to mankind.
A coffee shop is a nice place to meet - or even something where you are actively doing something. Mini golf, bowling, whatever. That way, when you finish what you were doing, you can determine from that point on whether to continue hanging out or not. It gives you "ample" time to arrive at that conclusion, and have a plausible reason to also run out if need be.
2007-03-16 04:06:45 · answer #3 · answered by MBE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't want to meet a person off myspace because you don't really know that person. When you meet someone in "public" then you are going to get to see what they really look like and you can get to know that person in person not on myspace.
2007-03-16 04:10:14 · answer #4 · answered by AG3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your answer
(Honestly, I can't be picky anymore, I'm getting too old to be pick, The simplest way i could explain this is I have to have a connection, Physicaly and Mentaly with this person, which in turn allows myself to have an emotional attachment to them. I have to be able to go out with them and have a wonderful time. or just stay in the house and read a book in bed and enjoy a comfortable silence, Now looks are important to me, as i do pride MYSELF on looks. in other words, you could be my twin as far as your mind goes, but if your fat or somthing is wrong with your face, i really couldn't see myself loving you physicaly, which is a big part of a relationship. )
So what happens if a beautiful women you love gets into a car accident and messes up her face?Then she stays in the hospital and gains 30 pounds.Would you love her still or leave her.
Same goes for you, how would you feel if your looks go away and no one will love you. I understand looks are important because I obsess on my looks everyday
I dont like leaving the house until my hair is done and If Im too lazy to do myself up I wear sunglasses lol.I use to only date a guy if hes hott but I started giving guys whos mind attracted me chances to hang out with me.My current boyfriend is 28 and Im 19.He isnt physically attractive at all.When I first met him I didnt think of anything but a friend.As time went by I learned he had a good heart and I slowly fell in love with him.People call us beauty and the beast.
I know looks are important to you because you are a male species which means sex is important.Men are visual creatures and you have to be attracted to a women physically to want her sexually.You feel sex is important in a relationship right?It is
About myspace I prefer people not to meet eachother through that because things are not what they always seem.
I do love myspace because its fun to express yourself thru your page.
out of curiousity how old are you?
2007-03-16 13:21:26 · answer #5 · answered by eurasia 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its as ok as trying to meet someone off a dating website--you can only go by what they tell you at first. in public you get to see how that person naturally interacts w/ the environment. Pictures are worth a thousand words but they can also be deceiving. I rather meet someone in public, although i have tried dating websites.
2007-03-16 04:09:51 · answer #6 · answered by licydechorerra 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i think its a bad idea to meet sumone n myspace cuz they could be totally fake like the can tell u oh im hot and sexy and **** like that but they could be the ugliest meanest grl in da world i think its better to meet sumone in publice..in PERSON best place i think is at a grocery store or coffee shop..=]
2007-03-16 04:06:47 · answer #7 · answered by cutie wit a booty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that web like this 1 and myspace are just to just have fun
2007-03-16 04:11:07 · answer #8 · answered by RED ROSE 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea i do think its better if you meet someone in person because if you go tomyspace you dont know how they really are... the picturees they put up might be fake some really are.... but when you meet someone in person you know what to really expect and how they react to things.... i dont know if that really helps!
2007-03-16 04:07:12 · answer #9 · answered by jackysnumba1 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i like myspace it is kool
2007-03-16 04:09:01 · answer #10 · answered by shygirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋