I ended up sleeping with a guy on a very drunken night. At the time i had a boyfriend and he was 'sorting things out' with his ex, and we both agreed it wouldnt happen again (as he is friends with my boyfriend). But after a few days we spoke again and met up, me and my boyfriend broke up as it wasnt working and i have continued to see the other guy once a week or so, but at the moment im getting mixed signals, he doesn't really contact me, but he did at first, and doesnt seem as keen to meet. But when we do meet he says we have to stop meeting up cos he will start to really like me, and that he has been thinking about me loads and the reason he has not got back together with his x is cos we keep meeting up.If all this what he says is true then why doesnt he contact me anymore?he doesnt respond to my txts and if he does she is very blunt. is he just saying that stuff when he sees me cos he thinks its what i want to here?or is that how he really feels?
2007-03-16 00:08:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get rid, you deserve to be with somebody who wants you and only you, and somebody who wants to be with you all the time, the first few months are meant to be the best, you should be all over each other i know me and my husband were, if it's like that now imagine what it will be like in a couple of months...go get yourself a nice fella who you know loves you
2007-03-16 00:15:17 · answer #1 · answered by ♥~shona~♥ 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
He's just trying to let you down gently. The weight of what you guys did became a huge reality check when both him and you broke up with your now exes. You're a cheater and a liar. He has lost all respect for you and you should have done the same with him. Lesson learned? Hope so. Liars and cheaters don't get very far in life and they certainly don't gain meaningful friendships or relationships... not the ones that last a lifetime anyways. Move on... he has.
2007-03-19 00:17:53 · answer #2 · answered by THATgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not sending mixed signals, you are sending "I'll have an affair with you," signals. "...I don't want anything to come of it while he is married?" He isn't dating, he's married. He got off facebook, he didn't contact you, he isn't setting up time to be with you, and his comments are just merely, stupidly, flirtatious. Who cares if he thinks about you, he's married. You need to stop this; how would you like it if some woman was doing this to you?
2016-03-29 01:32:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're mixed up. He's a guy, and things are what they are with them. There's no gray area. What do you anticipate from this relationship, if it were to develop? That's what he's thinking. And so should you. We, women think idealistically. We start painting pictures of our dreams that will include this guy, no..this guy. Wait, wait..THIS guy. If a man wants YOU, he is coming to get you, even at the cost of shame, broken hearts, and all. Be available...yet reserved. You're worth it and let him see it...and him..and him..and him. Get it, there are other men out there. Don't waste brain matter on empty acquisitions.
2007-03-16 00:24:40 · answer #4 · answered by Leelee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say this but there is someone else in his life all ready .. Move on now and save yourself anymore issues . if he was really thinking about you ou would know he would have left messages at your home .. stopped by .. done whatever he needed to to see you . ... also when he is blunt as in short I'm guessing that's because he is with that other person at that point.
2007-03-16 00:16:29 · answer #5 · answered by bob b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's feeling guilty about messing with his friends' EX; it's never a good idea to date a friends' EX. Move on, and find someone that isn't his friend.
2007-03-16 00:15:43 · answer #6 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He liked you when he thought you were with someone else. It's very telling that he's friends with your ex. Do you really want to be involved with someone who likes screwing around with their friends' women?
Time to move on, I think.
2007-03-16 00:12:24 · answer #7 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mixed signals of any kind are bad. If he was really into you he wouldn't be able to help himself and would call you anyway.
Sorry to bring you the bad news.
2007-03-16 00:12:11 · answer #8 · answered by Snowth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He got what he wanted and now he's slowly blowing you off. I think he is already back with his ex and he doesn't want to tell you cuz he's a pig. Wake up honey, he's not worth it. Sorry.
2007-03-16 00:13:50 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think hes keeping you on a shoestring.you did right finishing with your bloke when it wasnt working .get rid of this bloke too and go and meet someone new.ive been there done that
2007-03-16 00:23:05 · answer #10 · answered by S H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋