ok, let's face it. we all do stupid things when we're "in-love" or infatuated. let's see...... I had a boyfriend who I broke up with on the day I said yes to another guy and guess what? it was our monthsary. I know it was harsh, but I thought I liked the other guy better. after a few months, I realized, I loved my old boyfriend, so I broke up with mr. # 2 and chose my old bf and we have been together now for 5 years. what I did was foolish but it turned out to be a blessing... how 'bout you? what's your story.....?
2007-03-16 00:24:52 · 7 answers · asked by aeijae 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay you asked for it...
When i was 15 I dated a 17 year old. He was really sweet at first, and seemed to really care about me. But...then he started to become someone else. He began to orally rape me...(forcing oral sex when I said no...telling me he hated prudes.), and he molested me(which he had even done when we were friends). But I didn't know what all of that really was so it happned more than once.
He also started to control my life, forcing me into a church chior when I wasn't really ready for church in my life. He even hit me once upside the head at school in front of a good number of people because I didn't wait to walk with him when it was getting late and he still wasn't at our meeting spot. He tried to control who I talked to and when, who I saw and when, and just basicaly made me feel horrible if I chose to go out with a friend over talking to him on the phone.
When I finally had enough and broke up with him he guilted me into staying friends....but once I figured out what he had done to me with the help of an online friend I cast him away compleately and he turned a few of my friends against me.....they told me I was lying about the rape and that he would never do that even though they were there though all the abuse he put on me.
Because of all he did I had fallen into a deep depression, almost became anorexic because I was just to depressed to eat. Eventually I came out of it all.....but yeah that was my the worst thing to ever happen to me in a realtionship.
2007-03-16 00:43:48 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Mommy to 3 year old Jacob and baby on the way♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The worst thing that happened was...I had a beautiful life with a beautiful woman. My own insecurities are what ultimately drove us apart. We were, and are so in love, we got married in 04, been together since 00. Have two beautiful kids. Girl and boy. Now we're goindg through a brutal divorce battle, I can't see the kids, and we're forced to hate each other, even though we love each other. Love is the most beautiful, yet disgusting human emotion, and marraige should not be taken lightly. Not to mention the mental strength of two innocent kids is at stake. It's very surreal. If you'd known me or my wife together, you would never have guessed in a million years we'd be where we are today. You just don't know. Life is getting through a day one risk at a time...Peace
2007-03-16 07:38:01 · answer #2 · answered by Donnie Darko 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got married at 16 after a month of knowing my dude... A year later, we had a little girl.. Three yrs later, he left for a stupid chick.. He came back. Then I left. Then he came back but I never took him back.. I guess mine's not all that funny... I did break up with a guy 6 months ago because he proposed..
2007-03-16 07:30:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost one of the loves of my life by not realizing she didn't really want to get married. C'est la vie. That was 13 years ago.
2007-03-16 07:30:02 · answer #4 · answered by A Military Veteran 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Had a girl get me to ask her out, and when I did we went to a bar, and guess who shows up? Her boyfriend(whom she failed to mention). She was using me as a reason to make her bf jealous.
I'll never date another Asian girl.
2007-03-16 07:30:38 · answer #5 · answered by guy o 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the most stupid thing i ever did was take my ex back after he cheated on me, i was so stupid it took him cheating on me 7 different times with 7 different girls for me to see " dang i guess he really dont love me!" i had to be the most clueless female on the planet.......... but its ok, b/c it made me stronger and .......IM SMART NOW
2007-03-16 07:36:28 · answer #6 · answered by jazzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i got married and had a kid,found out later the idiot was still married
2007-03-16 07:30:03 · answer #7 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋