Hi, I am that tall slim type of girl who gets the guys, when we are not even looking! But I have friends who are heavyset and they are always by my side. Nice and sweet. Very honest but easily hurt. I can fix a girlfriend of mine up with a total hunk and the next thing I know he is dating her to get to ME! what the hell? I am not wanting a relationship with no one at this time. (better things going on for myself than trouble) But anyways, WHY DO YOU MEN DO THAT? WHY DO YOU GUYS LOOK ON THE OUTSIDE INSTEAD OF THE INSIDE? DO YOU NOT KNOW THAT YOU WILL GET HURT MESSING WITH US? than you would being with a girl thats heavyset? WE DONT WANT YOU, WE JUST LIKE THE ATTENTION! god, i mean come on.... athletic guys and chubby guys drool over skinny women. where does that leave girls like my friends?
yes, you guessed it, crying, hurt and depressed. 'C mon, guys, give the big girls some credit, at least they have heart!
athletic guys, hello! take a big girl by the hand and help her, luv her.
2007-03-16 20:00:13 · 15 answers · asked by tekken185 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your right, just like you only date the fat guys, ugly guys, and poor guys. How much compassion do you have, those guys need loving too.
2007-03-16 20:05:23 · answer #1 · answered by shadycaliber 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear tekken18
Same reason the girls always take the bad boys and try and change them I guess. Why would you set up your fat friends if you are slim. Come on there is guys that like their women over weight. Your friends need to date that type of guy.I have know 3 guys that liked their women the fatter the better. They was not athletic. two was slim and one over weight. The one guy we had two play boy Bunny's walk by he was mad I was not paying attention to what he was talking about. But this girl walks by over 300# he got all excited.
What country do you live in? I would say most of the men where I live do not go for the slim girls. There is a joke A guy before he left-for over seas work gave all three of his girl friends $5000 the first one spent it on dresses and make up for him. The next one spent it on spa treatment for looking good for him. The last one invested it and made three times the money for him. Which one did he pick?
The one with the biggest breast.
Not the slim one
I like them slim with small breast so I can carry them. What is your longest dating boy friend.Slim can get them but bitchy can't keep them. Us men know that you women will gain weight after you have us so if we get the slim girls they will be perfect in a few years when they gain some weight. HAVE A WONDERFUL WEEK END
2007-03-17 03:35:29 · answer #2 · answered by Bruce M 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, I'm not any of these types of guys, you're describing here. In fact, I'm an honest hard working decent guy who has a professional career. I have an M.D and am currently working on my thesis for my research project. My girlfriend is a lovely girl, I chose her, not because of her beauty, not because she is in the same professional career as I am, but I chose her because she is a sweet, charming, girl who is very caring, understanding, faithful, romantic, and attentive to me. She understand me more than any girl that I've ever met.
2007-03-17 03:10:50 · answer #3 · answered by Infinite 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im on your side, im 21yrs 5'10" 155 lbs, and i like my girls with some chunk, some love handles, my last girl was like 200 which may have been a lil much i prefer them a lil smaller but you know gotta have something to cuddle with, and dont get me wrong, it's not like i cant get thin girls i just really like thick one's for some reason, so why guys do it.... probably because to have the hot chick is a trophy to all your friends, hope this is what you were looking for, p.s. send them this way lol
2007-03-17 03:07:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nice effort, Tekken, but I think you wasted your time. People will date who they are physically attracted to. From this group they'll pick what other traits they want in a partner and cull out what they don't want. There are guys that like heavy set women. But you aren't going to change the minds of others who don't find them attractive. That's just the way it is.
2007-03-17 03:06:56 · answer #5 · answered by Im Listening 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow I soaked thirty hankies thinking how horrible it must be to be you beating off all the guys and begging for dates for your friends as you're so exhausted from all the attention!! LMAO-get over yourself!!
2007-03-17 03:08:30 · answer #6 · answered by MAK 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because guy are more attracted to looks then personality...they think that if they have a girl that is acceptable (to everyone else) that the attitude should be part of the package
2007-03-17 03:10:13 · answer #7 · answered by declaar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a man is shooting for sex he pursues the best looking lady with the highest probability of getting sex........you --- If he's looking for a lifetime partner he will consider a larger spectrum of personality,looks, and goals.
2007-03-17 03:07:29 · answer #8 · answered by Yukon Cornelius 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Because tall slim girls are really hot and chubby girls are grosssss
2007-03-17 03:09:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
not all men fall for slim n bitchy females. and i m one of them. i like gals with some flesh and decent but they may be wild not bitchy
2007-03-17 03:04:47 · answer #10 · answered by coolguy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋