Singles & Dating - 12 March 2007

i am 18 yrs old, the person said i was good in bed should i tell him i was a virgin or just leave it alone

2007-03-12 08:42:41 · 12 answers · asked by kadeah 2

how can i get over a guy i loved for 2 years? it's so hard. when i think i don't love him anymore, i always dream about him and think about him. and it doesn't help that he has a muscular body and is gorgeous.

2007-03-12 08:42:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

A good friend of mine was molested by two of her cousins when she was young, both of which are several years older (the younger of the two is 6 years older). It may have been three. She is not sure of exactly when it happened or exactly WHAT happened for that matter, but she does know that she was between the ages of 5 and 11 years old. She has never told anyone but me, but I think she needs to tell SOMEONE. She will be 19 this year, and had it not been for the two of them, she would still be a virgin. She told me that she feels responsible, because they would make her act sexually with them in return for things she could not do herself (i.e. cooking), and she agreed and actively participated. What can we do to get this off of her mind?

2007-03-12 08:42:02 · 14 answers · asked by kdd_angel 3

Long story/question--- I met my ex here where I live because he was visiting from Miami (about 3 hours from where I live). He stayed up here at his cousin's house for 3 weeks. I met him the 1st day he got here, we started going out for days later April 25th or 26th (one of those).When it was time for him to leave 3 weeks later we knew we were going to have a long distance relationship. which from the beggining i told him it wasnt going to work out but I decided to try it. 2 weeks after him going back over there he cheated on me several times and i didnt find out until July 1st...I was devasted and I still am. we stopped talking for a little while but then he started calling me again in the middle of august. He asked me if I would give him another chance.we got back together in September.on 02/28 I find out he slept with a gurl and he told me he just found out she's 4months preg. Today I find out he moved in w/her. He still wants to be friends. Im not strong enough what should i do?

2007-03-12 08:41:40 · 10 answers · asked by ? 4

My friend likes my boyfriend! Me and her liked him together and we would giggle about him (a year ago in April 2006). It was really fun. She has liked him for five years and I have liked him for four 1/2. (we are 14). The thing is we three (me, her, my bf) were all friends then...we would all hang out and talk and stuff...but then I started wanting something more w/ him and my friend wasn't doing anything to show her interest in him--so I started flirting a lot with him and he flirted majorly back. And then we started going out and being bf/gf a few months ago. The thing is we three don't hang out anymore (we were in drama together not this year though) and my bf is coming to my drama rehearsals tomorrow...where my friend will be and I know it will hurt her b/c me and him will be hanging out and I know he doesn't like her more than a friend b/c shes not his type and she's a little chunky...help! What can I do so she doesn't find out that he is my bf?!?!

2007-03-12 08:40:45 · 15 answers · asked by horsesareforever 3

me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 6 months on the 20th of this month and we will be leaving each other in september going off to college. I really LOVE him but i feel as though we need to be apart because i don't want him to miss out on all life has to offer. I feel i will be hurting him a lot but i just don't know wats best.

2007-03-12 08:39:49 · 6 answers · asked by balla32 1

Ok, why is that men always say that they tell women up front that they aren't looking for anything serious but then they start to call alot & spend a lot of time and then when the women starts to catch feelings & wants something more they don't understand why she feels that way. If all you're looking for is a casual affair then you shouldn't put in so much time & send kind emails or call for conversation so much. Why can't you only call when you want a date or a booty call? Why don't men understand that they are sending mixed signals when they spend a lot of time & act like they're enjoying a woman's company & then when she starts to express her feelings he doesn't want to hear it or be bothered with her anymore. It's always, I told you that I wasn't looking for anything serious. Why can't guys like that just stick to one night stands?

2007-03-12 08:39:46 · 3 answers · asked by geminig 1

My gf just broke up with me the other day. How long did it take for the pain to go away from your experiences guys?

2007-03-12 08:39:24 · 12 answers · asked by Matt 3

would you date someone who has a drug problem, smokes, drinks, no job, stays home alot, but was really really HOT...?

2007-03-12 08:39:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok...so my current relationship has me evaluating a lot cuz basically he's not nice---really mean and he has issues. It's not healthy. I am convinced i'd be happier in dating a Christian man and have a Christian realtionship---including being abstinent before marriage!!! But are there Christian men who both love Jesus and have an urban sense ( likes hip-hop, graffitti art, loves dancing, R & B, dresses urban/ghetto/thug)---this is what i'm attracted to.

2007-03-12 08:38:18 · 10 answers · asked by SUGAR 1

what do youll think i should do. and another thing is that i only see her at school so how should i ask her

2007-03-12 08:37:59 · 7 answers · asked by shoaib a 1

I've known this girl for a couple of months now, and we have hung together a couple of times and we have had fun when we did hang out, but lately I'm starting to think she might be using me. When we do hang out she has offered to pay but I always pay because I think I should since I'm the guy. when she needed a ride to school I gave her a ride, when she needed cigarrets which I don't like when she smokes, but I bought her some. I have sent her two texts these past few days and I highly doubt she is busy all day every day, she hasn't returned my text to see if she wanted to hang out. I really like hanging out with her, but I'm starting to think she dosen't like to hang out with me that much. I'm tempted to just delete her number so that I can just move on from her, but I really like her and its really hard. What should I do? I'm hoping she calls or texts me back, but if she dosen't should I take a hint and just forget about her?

thanks

2007-03-12 08:37:53 · 7 answers · asked by BAS 2

love

2007-03-12 08:37:22 · 14 answers · asked by Robert G 1

I'm in the school play and we went up to another place to show it this weekend (said place is three hours away) and so...yeah. The guy I like was in the play too. well...this one girl is a total blabber mouth and she kept asking me what was wrong. well...she kinda figured out that I liked this guy and that I was upset about something. He talked to me thursday...friday and then stopped talking to me on saturday which was wierd, so I was kinda upset and mad and wanted to cry and everything. I don't think he knows...yet anyway. i don't want him to find out but she's gonna say something to some one and then everyone will find out and I'm kind of freaking right now because i don't want everyone to know! What do I do? What if he does find out? HELP!!!

2007-03-12 08:36:58 · 15 answers · asked by Lola 5

I mean found this out while you were still engaged to them, as far as you know?

This happened to me a few Christmases ago and I want to see how prevelant this is.

2007-03-12 08:36:01 · 3 answers · asked by tailos 1

well if you've read my posts today you'll know i was cheated on...im the type of person that needs to say whats on her mind... i have so much to say to him so many questions...but i dont know if i even want to give him that much. i dont even want to talk to him ever again, but i want him to feel the pain i felt that day. so should i write him a email and say what i need one last time..or will it hurt him more to never here from me again?

2007-03-12 08:35:50 · 19 answers · asked by CRAZY 8 3

ok so i had a dream about my best friend. He actually happens to be really cute, well i had a dream that i was sorta at his going away party because he was going to florida.
Him-hey
Me-hey
*aquard silence*
so then in my dream he puts his hands around my shoulder and neck and kisses me on the forhead, so i wrap my arms around him
then he goes down and kisses me on the lips for like 6 seconds
then i pull away and into a hug and he hugs back
Him- what will you do when im gone?
Me- (still hugging him) sigh, i dont know
then he lets go smiles and he has to leave, how in the world am i supposed to react to that?????? please i need answers

2007-03-12 08:34:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anne 2

I met this lovely guy at university and i developed a severe crush on him... I didnt let him know as im scared of being rejected and a mutual friend says he has a girlfriend, but is not in love with her Anyways, i decided to drop him a line saying hello as i hadnt seen him in a while, and before i knew it we were sending flirty emails back and forth, nothing too deep but asking "get to know u questions" i then sent an email asking if he had a girlfriend, i also sort of admitted i liked him cos he asked in a roundabout way. I didnt get a response back since i sent it last week...should i send him an email asking what happenned, or should i just let it go..

2007-03-12 08:34:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok i like some one in school and i dont know what to do can u help???

2007-03-12 08:33:59 · 1 answers · asked by jenny r 1

she has a baby from a different guy and he is not in the baby's life at all. my girlfriend wants me to be around her baby as much as i am around her. is this ok for me to do. also is it ok for me and her to bring the baby on our dates and stuff.

2007-03-12 08:33:26 · 13 answers · asked by bding817 1

Ok, I asked this guy that I am dating if he thinks I am attractive. I want to know, because I think I am ugly most of the time. He said," You have a great personality and you are not ugly by any means." What does that mean? I really like this guy and I don't want him to lead me on.

2007-03-12 08:33:08 · 3 answers · asked by Yeah it's me................ 2

so theres this new girl at my church. shes really cute and is the daughter of a visiting pastor, but she goes to a boarding school thats in the next town from my hood, so shes like a 10 minute drive away. i only get to see her on sundays when i actually go to church, so i cant communicate with her as much as id like to. what to do, what to do??

2007-03-12 08:31:21 · 6 answers · asked by Jay 2

I have this friend and she likes the same guy i do, i want to tell her to back off but i dont want to be mean and i likes him first i dont know wat to do can you help me?

2007-03-12 08:30:34 · 3 answers · asked by Rayne V 1

Be honest and tell the truth...I need to know..Please be mature and don't make jokes....I just want honest answers...Thanks

2007-03-12 08:30:28 · 9 answers · asked by nikki 2

2007-03-12 08:30:07 · 1 answers · asked by ivy-girl 2

Can anyone help me solve this problem please!!! My fiance has been playing this game with a girl that is 17 and from florida. She mananged to get his email address and they talk everytime he is on. She says that she loves him and he does not deserve to be with me and if he got with her she would move to kentucky to be with him. He also tells her that he loves her but he tells me it is only for a joke. We have a one year old son together and I hate to loose him because of some girl over the internet what should I do?

2007-03-12 08:29:39 · 22 answers · asked by april h 2

I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years yesterday and im devestated...technically it was a neutral desicion but ive told him I have deep regrets in agreeing to the break up...

the reasons we agreed to spilt were because things just wernt the same as the used to be, and perhaps time apart will make us appreciate one another more.

however I feel so down and lost without him, I miss him so damn much. I love him and need him...I told him this, but he said we need time apart. I feel rejected and unloved

how can I get him back?

2007-03-12 08:29:35 · 9 answers · asked by moomoo 2

2007-03-12 08:28:23 · 11 answers · asked by Daza 2

i am in love with my ex i give him alot of chance for change but his never change but because i love him i alway for give him he hurt me alot in my 4 year relation ship with him i alway one to have a babes for him but he never ready for one and them thing was change his alway aout side in the studios and i alway been at home waiting for him went i finish work i come home he never there his alway and his music i love him so much we have alot of fight because i cant take all the thing he been doing so hes was not happy cause i open my mought and tell him my feeling so for that to day the relationd ship is over but i still love him how can i move on with out him i love him so much ?

2007-03-12 08:28:10 · 10 answers · asked by guccibabymami 1

i''m working on an 1000 word essay, i feel like i need to talk to someone whilst i work to distract me etc, i dont' fancy going on msn because i know people will distract me too much so if no one minds, please feel free to email me or msg me on here this is me btw http://www.faceparty.com/themanwhoknows thanks very much for your time i really appreciate this.

2007-03-12 08:27:05 · 3 answers · asked by michaelcarterv2 2