I met this lovely guy at university and i developed a severe crush on him... I didnt let him know as im scared of being rejected and a mutual friend says he has a girlfriend, but is not in love with her Anyways, i decided to drop him a line saying hello as i hadnt seen him in a while, and before i knew it we were sending flirty emails back and forth, nothing too deep but asking "get to know u questions" i then sent an email asking if he had a girlfriend, i also sort of admitted i liked him cos he asked in a roundabout way. I didnt get a response back since i sent it last week...should i send him an email asking what happenned, or should i just let it go..
2007-03-12 08:34:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have his mobile number. we are actually friends, not too close though... just friends from uni, we have been sending emails on and off for about year! but those emails were not as flirty as the recent ones
2007-03-12 08:42:12 · update #1
Let it go. He knows youre interested and you've done as much as you can. If he wants you, he will let you'know in time.
If you persue him, you may come across as a bit of a nutter. Next time you see him, dont mention the email.
You never know, he may be in the process of dumping the girlfriend!
Good luck.
2007-03-12 08:42:33 · answer #1 · answered by slice264 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO not lost face,so don't e-mail him,leave it to him to get back to you.there may be many reasons why he hasn't got back to you and they are all good ones.Give him time to think,you know they take for ever, in the mean time go about your way with a smile,what ever happens show the world that you are a happy soul.
2007-03-12 08:50:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he didn't wanna know he shouldn't have asked, all the signs are good, but he hasn't given you his mobile number? how long you been emailing? If over a month then give up, if less then hang in there one more week then give up.
2007-03-12 08:39:26 · answer #3 · answered by CHARISMA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like homeboy is on the hunt for other chicks.... good if you like the competitive type I guess. If you can beat him at his own game.... sounds like a bunch of drama to me though.. I would just avoid it and move on. Find you a single one who cares what women think about and loves everything about them. A good man I guess. or drop me a line.... I love getting to know new people.
2007-03-12 08:44:38 · answer #4 · answered by GuitarJammer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are literally offering yourself on a plate to this bloke who already has a girlfriend. If he wont take the bait, forget him. After all, once he has had a leg over, he will drop you like a ton of bricks.
2007-03-12 08:40:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to know ask him...if you do not really care then let it go...what is the worst that can happen????Rejection you will get over it...but you will never stop wondering what could have happened!
2007-03-12 08:44:07 · answer #6 · answered by Cutiepieblueeyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Email him like nothing ever happened and just act normal and see what happens.
I don't think you should just let it go. And if he stopped talking to you because of what you told him then he's an immature and an idiot.
2007-03-12 08:38:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-01 21:37:44 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you mentioned his gf means that he's probably still with her and feels guilty!
2007-03-12 08:40:01 · answer #9 · answered by MANC & PROUD 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are already pushing the right buttons, keep it up
2007-03-12 09:09:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋