Singles & Dating - 12 March 2007

Ok...so last nite I woke up in the middle of the night and couldn't breathe. In my 1/2 asleep state, thought that it was my allergies kicking back in and started to get up to take some claritin. As I started to get out of bed, realized it was hard to get out of bed...then realized that my b/f had his hand covering my mouth and nose and was pushing me down into my pillow.
I managed to shove him away...and slept on the couch the rest of the night. When I confronted him about it this morning, he was crying and telling me that he would "never hurt me intentionally". There is no abuse at work here, he doesn't hit me, and if he ever did I would knock him on his @$$, but just wondering if you think there is something subliminial working here. Any advice?
This really scared the crap out of me and I have told him he is not to come back over to my place until I say he can.

2007-03-12 08:06:58 · 13 answers · asked by Niffer 6

me and this guy use to date but then he decided to break things off becos he felt like he's not ready for a relationship becos of what happened in a previous one. we became really good friends as time went by and i found him as just a friend. he started joking about making out and calling me a good kisser and stuff and then the next time i saw him, we actually did kiss. things changed and it's like the same way we were when we were dating. he hugs me, kisses me but! then he says he can't be in a relationship. are we dating again or what? cos he's kissing me and stuff but everytime i ask him like why are you kissing me he's like do you want me to stop, but he never gives me an exact answer. sometimes it seems like he doesn't even want to talk to me and other days it's different. i think that he just doesn't know what he wants, and then other times i feel like he's just using me. i don't know... but what do i do? i really like him alot and i don't know if he feels the same way about me

2007-03-12 08:05:29 · 12 answers · asked by sharada 1

ok so there this guy I been crushin on him for about a month but im not in love with I just like him a lil bit but he dosnt like to call me house cuz last time my dad answer and he got scared cuz my dad sounds scary on the phone so ever since that I been callin him well he tells me to call him (your probley sayin go get a cell phone but I do have one but I got it takin away) and he is nice and cute funny and my friend said that he sees me as a friend but im hot and he wants a girl that knows what they want and I know what I want I don’t know if I should belive this girl that I really don’t know that told me though I need some help What are hints that he wants to get to no me more and how do I know if he playin had to get with me or if he sees me as a freiend

2007-03-12 08:05:07 · 5 answers · asked by lovely 1

I know my boyfriend would never cheat on me, but he is flirty with other girls, he says he's just naturally flirty with people, I don't know if I'm just jealous or if he's doing something wrong. Should I just ignore it?

2007-03-12 08:04:39 · 21 answers · asked by serpentstyle 1

I don't really curse only when I'm really upset about something but I'm talking to this guy and he does and I want to know if that's kind of a turn on to him, the fact that i don't really curse or if it sets me apart from other women he's use to dating.

2007-03-12 08:04:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK I have been dating this AWESOME guy for a little over a month or so and last night we had sex for the first time. It was actually the first time I even saw / felt his manhood.

Well to my suprise he is, to put it gently, SMALL!!!!

I know, I know it shouldn't really matter but in a way it does. It was to the point where I could hardly feel him inside of me at all!

I don't know what to do.... Should I say screw it and move on, or should I say it doesn't matter and stay?

We have sooo much in common. I love being around him. He treats me very well... Better than I have been treated by anyone in a long time. He is like the perfect guy for me, instead of that one little problem. (please excuse the pun lol)

AHHHH!!! PLZ HELP!!!!

2007-03-12 08:03:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is a girl that is a big ***** how can i yell at her without geting sepended or detation

2007-03-12 08:03:21 · 1 answers · asked by Megan L. Rinehart 2

I can honestly say that I have never felt this way before. Before him I dated someone for 5 years and I delt with that okay. I was with him ( my recent ex) for a few months and I couldn't get out of bed for days. And I of course did the typical girl thing and tried to be friends but he would say that he couldn't talk to me, it's too hard. He started being really hot and cold with me. We broke up because he couldn't balance his responsibilities as a dad (his two boys, I do not have any) and his responsibilities as a boyfriend. I of course didn't make it any easier, but I just wanted time with him. I just don't want to think about him anymore.

2007-03-12 08:02:46 · 5 answers · asked by Sunset 1

2007-03-12 08:02:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hey. How are you? Ever since we stopped talking, (me and her haven't talked for ten months) I had been going over everything in my head, trying to figure out what I was doing wrong. You know, I still remember what you said to me the last time we talked, the things you were mad at me about. I remember the first thing you said was that I harassed you. It's kind of funny really, that was the last thing I ever wanted to do to you but I guess I did anyway. If you said that because I called you every weeknight, it as only because when we were at school we'd only talk for two minutes. I never really got to talk to you when it'd be just me and you. Even when I called, someone else would always call. I was always afraid that I was doing something wrong to make you not like me.

2007-03-12 08:02:00 · 6 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5

He just found out that his father cheated on his mother and now he doesn't want to commit to me because of it.

2007-03-12 08:01:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been working with my co-worker for 2 1/2 yrs. We have been flirting back in forth. Last year, it got so close that something was going to happen but it didnt. Excuse was from him,that it would ruin our friendship and it would feel strange later. Recently, he has started to flirt with me again and has actually came onto me. I try to pursue it and then he backs off and tells me that "it is going to happen,,, but not right now. Let it happen when it happens." I dont know what to think anymore???

2007-03-12 07:59:45 · 12 answers · asked by vm 1

He says he loves me, he wants to marry me. Its not like we've never had relationships, but it's always felt like sex to me. He says he feels bad when we do it because we are not married. And lately we fight about that so much, he says he feels like our relationship is based on sex...but we dont even have sex so im a little confused. I try to initiate but than he just rejects me and i end up feeling stupid, rejected, and ugly. I uderstand why he wont but than im confused and recentful because he did have sex with me from the beginning. he wasnt up front with the no sex rule until later in the relationship. i know he loves me and he's a good guy who wouldn't cheat on me. I'm just worried that he doesn't have a sex drive. what the heck is wrong with him? or am i just a horny ***?? sex is important in a relationship right?? i feel like he is pushing me away. He says im too needy .

2007-03-12 07:59:33 · 1 answers · asked by jen.v 1

Isn't it a Pity, why isn't it a shame?
How we break eachothers hearts, and cause eachother pain?
How we take eachothers Love, without thinkin' anymore?
Forgetting to give back
Isn't it a Pity
Some things, take so long,
But how do I explain?
That not too many people, can see we're all the same?
How because of all the Tears,
Our Eyes can't hope to see?
The Beauty that's around them.
Isn't it a Pity


We've taken the Emotion of "Love". out of The Heart. It's become a Reward? A Trophy? A conquest? Or a shield against loneliness. Isn't it a pity?
We've had People, too scared to speak up about this. In fear of being misunderstood. And had some speak out? While being misjudged. Isn't it a pity?
Love can be the greatest Emotion that we we'll ever have. If we bring it back to The Heart. But Society won't allow us to be Emotional. For fear of looking weak. Isn't it a Pity?

2007-03-12 07:59:09 · 16 answers · asked by Goggles 7

2007-03-12 07:58:44 · 12 answers · asked by GLENN M 1

What do you think is better? Being single or having some-one in your life. All my partners never seem to stay with me that long? Am i that bad? But now being single i don't know whether it's a good thing or bad. Any suggestions to make my mind up? thanks

2007-03-12 07:58:31 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

But recently we split up. She decided to break up because of lots of things, such as my friends not being nice to her. I know what she means, they aren't always the best, but i can't just drop them all.. There were other problems aswell but they were fixable.. So we kinda broke up for a bit.. But recently i said something that she really took to heart, but i didnt mean it, i was just angry and i have apologized a thousand times. But she says she can't get over it. I would do anything to have her back, we were both truely in love, but it just started to get broken down.. I also have heard that when she was drunk she was kissing with another person.. But i dont think she means it really and i could live with that. But maybe it is something more and i dont know.. She says she still has feelings for me but i dont know.. Maybe she's trying to cover up.. I just really want her back. I know this has been long but any help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks

PS. She was ONLY kissing.

2007-03-12 07:58:03 · 4 answers · asked by Epi V 1

im in 7th grade and my crush is in 6th grade. i found out about this when we were in the same school. the only problem is that hes been going out with a bunch of girls. but before the school year started, my cousin showed him pic. of me and said i was hot. but until now he still hasnt gone out with me yet. he always flirts with me, looks at me with a smile and he also compliments me on how my butt looks. does he like me? does he want to get with me? when will he ask me out? will he ask me out? how can i ask him out if he doesnt? were we meant to be? HHHHHEEEEELLLLLPPPPP!!!!!

2007-03-12 07:57:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend (which was my ex about 5 years ago) and I talk about our relationships with other people to each other. Being that our friendship is close I told him how my ex the guy I dated after him contacted me and wants us to have an open relationship. I told him this just to get his advice and he said he may just want to use me/ have me on the side. Then my friend said "why cant I keep a man?" Saying how I am breaking up and getting back together with different guys. I felt very upset and insulted because I had relationships with only 3 guys in my life including him(my friend), by the way I am 20. So very upset I said why cant u keep a gf and etc. The relationships I have are long term. I been with my ex that wants an open relationship for 3 1/2 years, and my current bf 1 year now. All I wanted was his opinion about my ex wanting an open relationship not about how many relationships I had.

2007-03-12 07:55:19 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend's mom doesn't want me to date him cause she thinks I'm phony and she said that we argue to much. This all started when I graduated out of highschool last year and went on to college and got me a good job. Next thing I know she calls me and tell me that I can't see him anymore and its bad enough we weren't seeing eachother alot anymore cause of my hours at work and school. We did argue alot but it was because we couldn't see each other and because I was starting to feel like he was cheating on me. I tried talking to his mom but she didn't want to hear what I had to say. I'm 19 and he's 18 and we feel that we should be the one's to decide whether we want to be together or not not her. What do I do?

2007-03-12 07:55:13 · 18 answers · asked by Lil Zo 2

I have a tremendous sex drive and i want to have it all day everyday. He on the other hand doesnt. Once he does it the first time, that will be his last for the day until the next day. What is up wit that...need all the possible explanations I can get.....

2007-03-12 07:54:27 · 16 answers · asked by ask n ye shall recieve 2

I'm just curious about it. Please give me some honest answer =) Thanks

2007-03-12 07:51:59 · 6 answers · asked by AbcDef 1

My gf of less than a month broke up w/ me, and one of her reasons was she has stuff she has to keep to herself, and doesnt like lying about it. Another reason was she doesnt think I'll like her for long. Is there any way to convince her to open up, or at least I'll still like her? Or is this just wishful thinking on my part?

2007-03-12 07:51:56 · 3 answers · asked by Shi no Kyofu 2

I'm a college freshman dude, and I have had a major crush on a girl, who is also a freshman, in my writing class. I think she's the most gorgeous lady I've ever seen. She is not the hottest chick you'll see, but I think she's really really beautiful. She has this aura of hotness and classiness; she is very mature and smart. She also looks like a girl you can easily talk to. In high school, I never met a girl like that. Anyway, she doesn't seem into me. I'm always the one that starts a conversation, and she doesn't really make an eye contact. I think I'm a pretty attractive, likable guy, but oh well. I am trying to get over her for now to see how she'll react. But it is so hard. I wanna talk to her whenever I see her. Decades later, I'll probably laugh about the situation I'm in right now, but I am so hurt. Right now I don't see anyone who's as attractive as her. It fckin sucks that she probably doesn't care how I am feeling. Is there like a magic solution to my problem

2007-03-12 07:51:52 · 1 answers · asked by What Wtasdcvg 1

Why is he still flirting??
Okay he was a week away from his divorce being finalized...we had known eachother and been friends for about 8 months...we went out, he said he didn't just want a piece. He wanted the whole package and that he really liked me.....I really liked him too.....Well we had sex once and he called the next day....Well it was about 3 days later he said that he was going to try to make his marriage work and his wife wanted him back and he was going to make it work for their little girl. Well now it has been about 2 months and he says his marriage is miserable....He has been flirting with me, like giving me looks and touching me....Calling me little nicknames...He knows how I feel about sleeping with married men because I have told him that I DON'T do that (Yes I know that he was still married at the time that we had sex but I considered a week away from it being final, that it was over, I would never break up a family!!) He is my boss...I am 22 and he is 33...

2007-03-12 07:51:49 · 4 answers · asked by nikki 2

now, as far as I know, brendon does not like my friend. I don't wanna pick a guy over a friend but this friend knows I like Brendon and asked him out after he asked me out!

2007-03-12 07:51:44 · 2 answers · asked by Raven 1

What can i do or say to make my man come/finish the act??

2007-03-12 07:50:53 · 8 answers · asked by Classic Beauty 5

i have a great co-worker, and we hit it off in all aspects. she is getting married in june to this great guy who i really like. wonderful guy and they have been dating for 5 yrs. now the question i have is this...we have been for the last couple of months giving each other hugs saying hi and goodbye. how it started, who knows, but we have been. the thing is, her hugs are getting more & more deep you can say. like i got an extra hug from her for no reason, she stood up and said "give me some of that lovin" and just came over and hugged me. some others, she gave me a hug goodbye and then put her head on my shoulder before we let go. another one was where after the hug, she put both of her hands on my face telling me how cute i was..like "you are so cute" etc. so my women friends say she has a thing for me, ive said no for the longest time, but now i am really starting to see it. is this a school girl crush? should i stop hugging her? i dont want her to like me b/c she has a man? opinons?

2007-03-12 07:50:45 · 2 answers · asked by brianju 2

We have been best friends for 3 years almost and he's an awesome guy, and so mature. What concerns me is that it's pretty uncommon for a lady to be with a younger guy. How successful would such relationship be?

2007-03-12 07:50:42 · 4 answers · asked by McR 1

we were having a lil shindig at my place, she spilt some MD 20/20 that i bought her, on the nice white carpet, so i pimp slapped her so hard it broke her jaw, blackened the eyes, and she fell throught the drywal thus causing a big hole, ...so my question is,,,,do i make her pay for the carpet, drywall, and the MD 20/20?

2007-03-12 07:50:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous