what do i do?

Question

me and this guy use to date but then he decided to break things off becos he felt like he's not ready for a relationship becos of what happened in a previous one. we became really good friends as time went by and i found him as just a friend. he started joking about making out and calling me a good kisser and stuff and then the next time i saw him, we actually did kiss. things changed and it's like the same way we were when we were dating. he hugs me, kisses me but! then he says he can't be in a relationship. are we dating again or what? cos he's kissing me and stuff but everytime i ask him like why are you kissing me he's like do you want me to stop, but he never gives me an exact answer. sometimes it seems like he doesn't even want to talk to me and other days it's different. i think that he just doesn't know what he wants, and then other times i feel like he's just using me. i don't know... but what do i do? i really like him alot and i don't know if he feels the same way about me

Answer 1

well, sounds like this guy dusnt want the responsibilities, just the ... ya no. hes definately usin u! or thats how it sounds 2 me ...!
u need 2 tell him that unless hes redi 2 hav a propa relationship ... NO MORE KISSING!
dnt wuri, itll be ok ...!

Xx

Answer 2

U probably don't want to hear this...but leave him alone!! He wants his cake and he wants to eat it too!! You are allowing him to do that by letting him get a kiss and a feel every now and again. He probably knows you like him and thats y he takes advantage of the situation. If you are ok with just playn around for a lil while then that's cool. But if you are looking for this to go somewhere....stop!! IMMEDIATELY...b4 u start really disliking this person. Keep the friendship and find someone that wants to be in a relationship with you. Not someone who knows what he wants, but still wants to play with your feelings and emotions.

Answer 3

He wants his cake and to eat it as well. He wants someone for a bit of fun with no strings attached. Question is what do you want? If your cool with this then enjoy it but if your after something more hes the wrong guy wrong time. You could always ask he to be honest (if you dont get a straight answer then loose him)

Answer 4

The next time he says do you want me to stop, say YES, even if you don't. Say when you decide what you want, let me know. Until then no more making out. If he stops seeing you or talking to you, then you know where he stands.

Make this YOUR decision, NOT his. You deserve better sweetie! Be with someone who really appreciates and likes you.

Answer 5

If you don't mind to date him, not relationship, just dating for fun, nothing seriously. Then tell him that and maybe he will go for it since he is not ready for relationship. I think hes very confused waht he really want and don't you think you want that to waste your time?!?! NO then let him go. But if you do think hes worth to you then you have to follow what he wants for a date. Good luck.

Answer 6

Tell him he can't have the best of both worlds! He's using you. Tell him either we're friends and nothing physical is involved in that or we try for a relationship. One or the other, not Both!

Answer 7

I would sit him down and ask him what he wants.. If he says he wants to be with you, then you tell him to quit with all the nonsense. But if you really like him, don't let him slip away

Answer 8

if he cant be in relationship so what does he wants to you....he is not the right guy for you....sounds like he really don't know what he really wants.So stop going out w/ him again and again

Answer 9

if he's telling you he doesn't want a relationship that's what he means. just because you're being physically affectionate doesn't mean you're in a relationship. he could just like kissing you

Answer 10

NO you guys aren't it simply sounds to me that he wants to have you for a booty call when he wants one.! And if it's not like that...then stop kissin him cause you don't know where his mouth been!