well if you've read my posts today you'll know i was cheated on...im the type of person that needs to say whats on her mind... i have so much to say to him so many questions...but i dont know if i even want to give him that much. i dont even want to talk to him ever again, but i want him to feel the pain i felt that day. so should i write him a email and say what i need one last time..or will it hurt him more to never here from me again?
2007-03-12 08:35:50 · 19 answers · asked by CRAZY 8 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you write him it will just make him think of how hung up you are about it. He will just feel like he is a stud because you can't get over him.
The best thing to do is take the high road and move on. Sucks because you want revenge but you will find out you are a happier person if can bring yourself to handle things this way. Plus, it will show other people you have class. Other guys will be put off if they think you are the vindictive ex-type.
2007-03-12 08:44:21 · answer #1 · answered by Pooky Bear the Sensitive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don’t write him an e-mail. Don’t call him don’t even send him a text message. What drives guys nuts is not knowing what you are doing or how you are feeling. He is hoping you are sitting at home, crying and only thinking about him. Sending him an e-mail only reinforces that thought. If you don’t give him the time of day he will be more hurt because you are already over him and doing a ton better than what you were doing with him. Trust me I would love if I know what my ex was doing after we broke up.
2007-03-12 19:20:04 · answer #2 · answered by crzy_11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For you to have a wonderful life and forget he exsisted. I have person experience with this. I was cheated on by my fiance. I found out Christmas Day 04 when i called to talk and got her vocemail with the new last name.
Trust me, you will feel better if you just let go and move on. I understand the need for revenge and I really wanted it as well. The cheaters will get what is coming to them eventually.
There is an old saying, "If they will cheat with you, they will cheat on you." just wait till the person they cheated with cheats on them.
2007-03-12 15:43:44 · answer #3 · answered by tailos 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard the saying, "There is a thin line between love and hate"? Well the hate part means you still have feelings, so the best thing to do is just wash your hands of him and act as if he doesn't exist. Although it may be hard to do, it is a great form of revenge.
2007-03-12 15:45:57 · answer #4 · answered by ddp 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say it's best to just let it go and do what you need to do for you. Rest assure in the fact that what goes around comes around and he'll get his one day.
Don't waste anymore time & energy on him, find someone who will better appreciate you.
2007-03-12 15:41:35 · answer #5 · answered by geminig 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just move on and dispense with the punishing email. Be glad you discovered the rat when you did. You could have married the loser.
2007-03-12 15:39:18 · answer #6 · answered by Devdude 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
aboslutely don't send him anything. nothing hurts worse than not thinking you matter anymore. get your hair cut, get a manicure, get a cute new guy, and randomly "run-into" him at a place he frequents, and casually introduce him to your new guy as an "old-friend". Nothing burns like that. Have fun!
2007-03-12 15:44:25 · answer #7 · answered by soccrian 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it would hurt him more never hear from you again.....cuz if you ll write him, he ll think you still cant get over him and stuff like that...you know what I mean
2007-03-12 15:42:57 · answer #8 · answered by my angel is 2 1/2 now:) 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont give him the time of day and move on. once a cheater always a cheater. u are better off without him. trust me. i know.
2007-03-12 15:40:53 · answer #9 · answered by sexy dread 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
By not making a big deal out of it he will feel like the loser that he really is. peace
2007-03-12 17:05:38 · answer #10 · answered by frogenstien 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋