I'm in the school play and we went up to another place to show it this weekend (said place is three hours away) and so...yeah. The guy I like was in the play too. well...this one girl is a total blabber mouth and she kept asking me what was wrong. well...she kinda figured out that I liked this guy and that I was upset about something. He talked to me thursday...friday and then stopped talking to me on saturday which was wierd, so I was kinda upset and mad and wanted to cry and everything. I don't think he knows...yet anyway. i don't want him to find out but she's gonna say something to some one and then everyone will find out and I'm kind of freaking right now because i don't want everyone to know! What do I do? What if he does find out? HELP!!!
2007-03-12 08:36:58 · 15 answers · asked by Lola 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I finally realized...I'm old,OMG!
2007-03-19 19:25:35 · answer #1 · answered by Go GO Ressa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he finds out...then he find out...and in the end there may be nothing that you can do about that. At that point, you need to play a little "worst case scenerio." What's the worst that can happen?
You die a slow painful death brought on by your shame...nah, that probably won't happen.
You have some awkward moments while you're around said good-lookin' guy...that's more likely.
Take this as a learning experience: learn to keep secrets from blabber-mouths. Then pick up and move on with your life. I promise that the world won't end...you may wish that it would for a while...but it won't.
Then you get stronger, and things get better, and life goes on.
(Who knows, he may like you...and things could work out for you two...that's another possibility.)
2007-03-12 15:59:41 · answer #2 · answered by Maddog Salamander 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax-- if he finds out, he may just think that is super cool and does like YOU too!
if he doesnt then it is better you found out now before you went more bonkers over the guy! as for blabber mouth....stay away from her from now on!!
goodluck......to ya! it will all work out the way it supposed to in the end......
2007-03-12 15:47:27 · answer #3 · answered by STARZ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even if he doesnt fine out he will some time later in life and yeah so if he does now its the truth that ya like the guy so just dont front and be cool and say yeah and what the hell he going to do about it
2007-03-20 15:27:59 · answer #4 · answered by jenny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him dear. He's going to find out anyway and it would be best if he heard it from you. Maybe he stopped talking to you because he likes you too, but he's afraid you'll find out and he doesn't know what to do then.
2007-03-12 15:50:28 · answer #5 · answered by chocolatebunny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a tough situation....but that happened to my friend. Get to be friends with the "blabber mouth" and prove to her that u don't like him. (but really u do) And dont feel bad about him not talking to u....boys are like that! you go girl! you'll be fine!!
2007-03-12 15:42:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
one way or another he is going to find out. i have that same problem and i'm freaking to, but if u think bout it.......if u really like him and he likes u to and he finds out, u never kno what can happen. just relax and enjoy life!
good luck!
2007-03-12 15:44:42 · answer #7 · answered by greek-a-leek 726 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he likes you then he well come up to you and say something and then you well know whats going on or go up to him and ask him why he was not talking to you and see what he says and you should get back to me i want to know how everything want ! ! ! ??
2007-03-20 12:23:13 · answer #8 · answered by alisha bessette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothin to be afraid of being told of, I too used to be afraid my biggest flaw that made me loose her, Just go in front of him and let him be ya love slave cuz if he does not need you then you don't need him either.
2007-03-12 15:49:20 · answer #9 · answered by Brutus ne peut pas avoir tort ! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you truely like this guy then you should not be afraid of people knowing. but if you dont want him to know by her telling him then go talk to him your self. tell him how you feal about him and that way he wont hear it from someone else.
2007-03-20 15:32:27 · answer #10 · answered by garrett 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh, come on, so what, you like the guy, be more courageous! you have nothing to lose, if he says no, then he's not for you. so, before she goes to him / others to say something, you should take some action. he should know it from you!
2007-03-12 16:03:52 · answer #11 · answered by ♫Pavic♫ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋