i am in love with my ex i give him alot of chance for change but his never change but because i love him i alway for give him he hurt me alot in my 4 year relation ship with him i alway one to have a babes for him but he never ready for one and them thing was change his alway aout side in the studios and i alway been at home waiting for him went i finish work i come home he never there his alway and his music i love him so much we have alot of fight because i cant take all the thing he been doing so hes was not happy cause i open my mought and tell him my feeling so for that to day the relationd ship is over but i still love him how can i move on with out him i love him so much ?
2007-03-12 08:28:10 · 10 answers · asked by guccibabymami 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
one word "next"
2007-03-12 08:32:30 · answer #1 · answered by seven_ms_man 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you need to read exactly what you have written, would you want a baby without a dad there ?? its not nice on the child and i know as i am a single mum. i didnt plan to have a child but nature chose a different path 4 me one that ment i had a child to a guy i loved with my whole heart i always forgave him always said one last chance, the day i was due to give birth i had a fone call from this girl telling me she had been sleeping with him,, yes he denied it i let it go until our child was 3 month old we had the biggest row and split up ,yet he made out that everything was my fault why the relationship had ended, he sounds like he knows you love him and will forgive anything,come on sort it out there has to be limits and boundaries ,do you want your future child being brought up thinking mum is an idiot ?? you dont sound ready to have kids if he hasnt changed now then he never will believe me your better off with out him do you want to spend the rest of your life waiting for a guy that sounds like he was with you till a better girlfriend came along ???
2007-03-12 09:11:07 · answer #2 · answered by loubylou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a strange thing. It allows us to let someone kick us senseless and we just get up and hold on to the lease like a well trained animal. You are much better than that and deserve much more hun. So many women are in your situation and believe it are not their are men in that situation as well. Afraid to leave the person who is abusing them. Leave.!!!!! No one say it's going to be easy and for most it never is. But you have to make yourself number one. Now is the time. You deserve happiness and a good man will be there for just that reason some day. good luck hun.
2007-03-12 08:35:53 · answer #3 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You in no way might desire to sense uncomfortable seeing your ex and his new female buddy. the wonderful element of do is to have closer. in case you have something of his, placed it in a container and placed across it to his domicile. Ask for any of your issues he might have back. After that, attempt to speak to new human beings. you ought to attempt looking yet another guy and alter into good acquaintances with him. in case you date new human beings, you will possibly be able to forget approximately all approximately your ex. If that would not artwork, tell him the way you sense and tell him you desire to nevertheless be acquaintances. be sure you clerify which you realize he's happy together with his new female buddy, and you realize you won't be able to be something extra. In time your heart will heal and you will detect a sparkling love.
2016-10-18 05:09:27 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry you may be heart broken, and thought he was the one, but it wasn't ment to be coz you can do a whole lot better then him and one day you will meet the right one.
Forget about him he's not worth it
2007-03-12 09:04:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are good things and bad thing about your ex. Unfortunately there are more bad then good.
It also sounds like this guy's lifestyle isn't for you either. If you want children you need to find another guy.
2007-03-12 08:33:35 · answer #6 · answered by m k 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It will take time but you must move on go out with friends or go out with a guy. If you sit there and mull over your situation it will take longer
2007-03-12 08:32:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you will love him for a while...love is tough, you know he is bad for you but at the moment you just want him...
these feleing swill pass with time ans the support of great friends and family, plus maybe a few cuties numbers :P
best of luck, i know its hard
2007-03-12 08:35:13 · answer #8 · answered by moomoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a LOSER:::: stop getting hurt. lots of good men out there. take abreak dont rush into something and get hurt again,It may help to take an English course
2007-03-12 08:38:54 · answer #9 · answered by Grand pa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ehh .. just forget about him if he's so crapy ..
2007-03-12 08:32:21 · answer #10 · answered by Meamz 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋